What I always try to notice is the attitude/personality of a girl..its kinda weird though cos for most guyz its bout d physical appearance..but fo me its alwayz about the content of the person's character first befo physical errthing..all I want in a girl is for her to just be a good person nd hav a good attitude/heart..but its hard to find someone like that..

Appearance does it 4me. Don't wanna gt stuck wif a smiggle that wil get me thinking and angry anytime I see her.

Both!

look beyond looks brothers.beauty will fade with time but her character (traits) stands the test of time no matter the situation

What kick start a relationship.

Most time it is the physical appearance, humans are attracted to good looking things whether the dressing, beauty or shape. It depends on individual.

E.g some guys like girls that dress modesty while some guys like girls that dress half-nak.ed.

What makes the relationship move to the next level is the good traits.

pasqal09: Beauty kick starts it and good traits maintains it.

I must say here that the concept of beauty is subjective nd in turn depends on TASTE. wat happens to the saying that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder? .
So i wud say TASTE kick starts it nd other things follow

pasqal09: Beauty kick starts it and good traits maintains it.

God bless ya, Gbaayi.

Psychodavidovic:

Do we have to be drop dead gorgeous to say the truth ?

No sire but hope you won't mind if the person whose looks you're attracted to doesn't find anything attractive in your's(looks) ?

Obviously it's looks you'll first see, no1 is disputing that but I find it weird that guys are drawn to girls with good looks and take offence to girls who are attracted to good looks. Like 4 instance, when a guy says I want big booty and big bobby or fine face no1 makes a sound but if a girl says I want the TDH you hear comments like "you go tey 4 house" n shii. Just saying...

Appearance does it 4me. Don't wanna gt stuck wif a smiggle that wil get me thinking and angry anytime I see her.

Exibit A! Imagine a gurl saying this about a guys who aren't fine, won't you guys eat her up?
@all the guys who quoted me.

pasqal09: Beauty kick starts it and good traits maintains it.

Seconded.
Beauty 1st...followed by good traits. The good traits can be intelligence, character, neatness etc.

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what did u say?

Both....i think dey re interwoven sef

Beauty before trait

Beauty will initially grab my attention.personality will entice me to learn more about them.character will keep me coming back to be a part of der life....so beauty + good traitz= perfect relationship....but its only on paper sha.

valkaka: Beauty will initially grab my attention.personality will entice me to learn more about them.character will keep me coming back to be a part of der life....so beauty + good traitz= perfect relationship....but its only on paper sha.

beauty + personality + good character = perfect relationship.....i wish my future galfriend is reading diz.

I want you ladies to listen and listen properly.

Whenever a guy first approaches you for whatever reason, it is not because he wants to have a relationship with you or he wants to marry you.

He is only wondering how your a$$ would look when it is bouncing when he is hitting you from behind or how your eyes would look when you are swallowing his nutz

It is you as a female who determines if he will propose to you or not.

Nothing more, nothing less.

Smh!! Most people will say d@ personality iz more important n kick starts a relationship,however in reality looks are w@ attracts first.yu can deny it all yu want,but if they do not meet your idea of pleasant looking,they dont stand a chance.

So therefore the old sayings stands *beauty gets you to d door,personality keeps you there*.
Goodluck!

valkaka:


beauty + personality + good character = perfect relationship.....i wish my future galfriend is reading diz.

funny!...dont worry am here.

hmmm,the more i read,the more i ve come to realize dat wen a woman says luks do not matter,dat she more than likely is just being nice.
LOOKS ALWAYS MATTER.if a person does not have sontin to draw you to dem,whether it,be a nice smile,sparkling eyes,big arms,nice build etc,you will never get to see the person's character or personality.

So please be real and admit that looks matter to a point.

and for the question....for me,i think it all starts with looks,if it dosent please the eye,wats d point?...then i think personality n character add the cement to the physical attraction.

onose1: Beauty first jare....character comes later..

Immediately u said dis I had 2 check 'ur profile,i must say u kinda CUTE!

swtesther: and for the question....for me,i think it all starts with looks,if it dosent please the eye,wats d point?...then i think personality n character add the cement to the physical attraction.

i very much agree...we like to think we are not much d@ into luks.....however we are human and believe you me!..if we are all honest...it all starts with looks.we stay for the personality and character.

What the eye does not admire, the heart does not desire....Simplesssssss

Adaeze003:
No sire but hope you won't mind if the person whose looks you're attracted to doesn't find anything attractive in your's(looks) ?

Obviously it's looks you'll first see, no1 is disputing that but I find it weird that guys are drawn to girls with good looks and take offence to girls who are attracted to good looks. Like 4 instance, when a guy says I want big booty and big bobby or fine face no1 makes a sound but if a girl says I wants the TDH you hear comments like "you go tey 4 house" n shii. Just saying...

Adaeze....That's thoughtful of you. Guys say that a lot...I guess they have heard the quip, " It's A Man's World"...No offence. You sound reasonable and a comfortable attitude and esteem. Finding Mr. Right ain't gonna be a problem for you... if you're single oo [color=#990000][/color][/b][b][/i][i]

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Immediately u said dis I had 2 check 'ur profile,i must say u kinda CUTE![/quote This is where we get it wrong... Beauty is important but it is not all there is... The CUTE guy/girl you're admiring and wooing now, if he/she provokes you, Automatically looks like an ape...Why? There is more to marriage than mere make-ups, attachment and weavons etc. It takes Good trait to hold a marriage from coming away...She was kidding, she was being sarcastic...[color=#990000][/color]

Appearnce is what attracts u to a woman, am not saying she must be dead pretty but she must be prsentable and neatly dressed. Its wen u get close that u get to know all other thing that makes u decide whether to replace the friend in the ship or shoud I say behind the ship to relationship.. Or maybe may the her character fit even badt that u have to drop d friendship self ..

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SHOCK7:

Immediately u said dis I had 2 check 'ur profile,i must say u kinda CUTE!

thank u

beauty now...