When relationships end, it breaks us, kills
us, makes us not want to get out of bed in
the morning and eat till we become as fat
as a whale.
But what if we got a second chance? What
if for some reason, our ex realizes leaving
us was one of the worst mistakes he has
ever made and now he wants us back!
There are ways to find out, and it could be
any of these ways:
He calls more often than he used
to: now he is calling to ask after
everything and everyone around you
just like he did yesterday, the day
before and the day before and the
day before. He just keeps calling
more often.
The calls have become longer: Before
now, the calls were just for a total of
60 seconds. Now the phone
conversations actually stretch longer
than a minute and he seems to want to
talk about everything and anything,
from the little traffic you were in on
your way to work or what you ate for
lunch or what hair you are wearing at
the moment.
He reminds you of the nice times you
had together: what your honeymoon
phase was like when y’all were
together, how you laughed so hard at
his jokes, where you both first kissed
and every interesting moment you
both spent together. He certainly
can’t be doing this because he just
wants to talk, there has to be
something he is aiming at and that
thing might be to have you back as
his.
He actually makes an effort to
change: When there is a break up, it
is usually because one or both parties
are doing things the other person is
not comfortable with. If your ex
seems to have made an effort to
change since you both called it quits,
then he might be aiming at a chance
for you both to be together again.
He says the words: what screams I
want you back more than all the listed
points, is when he actually tells you.
Those can’t be wrong.
If you are still very much in love with your
ex and you believe deep down that he has
changed and you both can work things out,
then if he exhibits more than half of these
signs, you should certainly go for it.

Yinmu