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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 2:27pm On Sep 07, 2014 |
2sExy1: I think this should go beyond pin pointing the characteristics of an introvert which is generally common to us all to harness and developing better balance.Yea, in the means of very close associate (Introvert==>Extrovert). 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 2:35pm On Sep 07, 2014 |
Olarewajub: Yea, in the means of very close associate (Introvert==>Extrovert).yeah... Especially in the aspect of finding it difficult to speak in front of people or new faces. I really don't like that aspect. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 2:39pm On Sep 07, 2014 |
How we all wish social gathering will be nevitable. 2sExy1: yeah... Especially in the aspect of finding it difficult to speak in front of people or new faces. I really don't like that aspect. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by prettiest1(f): 6:16pm On Sep 07, 2014 |
Olarewajub: If you believe in your imagination and work hard you gonna be a great public speaker.Thanks for the encouragement. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 6:38pm On Sep 07, 2014 |
You're welcome. I also feel encouraged. Cheers! prettiest1: Thanks for the encouragement. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by J0nyb0y(m): 10:23am On Sep 08, 2014 |
Friends how do you guys cope with immediate family members being an introvert.. For me its quite challenging at times.. As they dont seem to understand the 'introvertism' 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by J0nyb0y(m): 10:26am On Sep 08, 2014 |
prettiest1: Honestly I need to. I always admire people speaking on stage without feeling shy. In my mind will be saying, when will I do that?For me being a tall dude makes it worse coupled with my nerdy nature as am always noticed anywhere because of my height... 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 7:33am On Sep 09, 2014 |
J0nyb0y: Friends how do you guys cope with immediate family members being an introvert.. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 7:34am On Sep 09, 2014 |
vick555: Its really intresting, been an introvert, most times I see it as good than harm! For me, am always indoor, have more time to think straight, focus my energy in whatever I had in mind of doing! Friends just one! Though starting a conversation for me, aint difficult when am with a stranger. But I love a quiet live, quiet and calm people....when in mist of people, just remain calm...but if I had a nudge to speak, I just bolding but speak softly...just myself. Never let any extrovert intimidate me in conversation. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 7:54am On Sep 11, 2014 |
Me I get plenty friends o but not much really. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 9:15am On Sep 11, 2014 |
Plenty? You're trying o. 2sExy1: Me I get plenty friends o but not much really. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by MissJennifer(f): 10:42am On Sep 11, 2014 |
Hello everyone, am an introvert too. I don't think am shy tho......got over it completely after teaching during nysc,buh I still find it hard to make n keep friends sha, jus have few friends.......recently screwed up a friendship sef,lol. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 2:15pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
MissJennifer:did u screw d friendship cos u were introverted or cos of some oda ish? I dn't personally feel dat because someone is an introvert, he/ she wuld falter in friendship. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Amazingg: 4:15pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
To an extent one's introverted nature can make one falter in friendship especially if the other party doesn't really understand you. For instance,i once lost a friend cos i didnt visit often. Infact,i only visited her once during our period of friendship & the visit was because i had to help her submit an important form. she'd always complain but trust yours faithfully,i'd just say ok. I prefer to talk to her n phone for 30mins than go visit her. It was like a burden to me. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by MissJennifer(f): 4:27pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
shegxi: did u screw d friendship cos u were introverted or cos of some oda ish? I dn't personally feel dat because someone is an introvert, he/ she wuld falter in friendship. Yea....you are right, it was because of 'some oda ish' like u put it. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 4:30pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Amazingg: To an extent one's introverted nature can make one falter in friendship especially if the other party doesn't really understand you. For instance,i once lost a friend cos i didnt visit often. Infact,i only visited her once during our period of friendship & the visit was because i had to help her submit an important form. she'd always complain but trust yours faithfully,i'd just say ok. I prefer to talk to her n phone for 30mins than go visit her. It was like a burden to me.bro......mayb u shld define whom a friend is first of all, den we can reason it from dere. Somtimes we confuse neighbours and aqcuintances for friends. Ur friend shld understand u in d first place. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 4:32pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
MissJennifer:amazinngggg, thank gudness miss jennifer herself has spoken. Introvertness is nt a curse!!! 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by MissJennifer(f): 4:36pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Amazingg: To an extent one's introverted nature can make one falter in friendship especially if the other party doesn't really understand you. For instance,i once lost a friend cos i didnt visit often. Infact,i only visited her once during our period of friendship & the visit was because i had to help her submit an important form. she'd always complain but trust yours faithfully,i'd just say ok. I prefer to talk to her n phone for 30mins than go visit her. It was like a burden to me. Yea....very true,most of friendships died a natural death because I failed to hangout or visit |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by MissJennifer(f): 5:11pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
shegxi: amazinngggg, thank gudness miss jennifer herself has spoken. Lol, Shegxi, who said it was? It's jus how you are.....u jus gotta learn how to make it work in your favour. Extroverts don't think they have a problem......being introverted is not too! |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 5:21pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
MissJennifer:wasn't dat d poin i was trying to make? we are on d same page!!! |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by MissJennifer(f): 5:35pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
shegxi: wasn't dat d poin i was trying to make? we are on d same page!!! Ok then |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Wolef7(m): 6:44pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
#Subscribed |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Amazingg: 8:55pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
I'm not saying being an introvert is a curse! Read my post again. This girl was an extrovert and i clearly understand her. Truth be said,some friendships will die a natural death if there's no visit. It just depends. She knew my kind of person and tried to go alond but failed. I have another friend who i haven't visited for 3 yrs now yet we are good. I am proud of being an introvert. That is who i am. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:00pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
shegxi: amazinngggg, thank gudness miss jennifer herself has spoken.hahahahahaa curse ke? I was once an introvert.....it has alot of advantage o |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Amazingg: 9:07pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
shegxi: amazinngggg, thank gudness miss jennifer herself has spoken.never said being an introvert was a curse. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 9:13pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
DoroDiva: hahahahahaalol, so wat are u now? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:19pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
shegxi: lol, so wat are u now?I am inextrovert |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 9:27pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
DoroDiva: I am inextrovertlol......u are confused |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by prettiest1(f): 1:54pm On Sep 12, 2014 |
J0nyb0y:Just be who you are and be happy with it. Being an introvert is never a crime. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by prettiest1(f): 2:04pm On Sep 12, 2014 |
2sExy1: Me I get plenty friends o but not much really.Plenty friends? Hmmmm I tried to have just one but she stabbed me on the back and that increases my introvertism. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by MarilynNash(f): 2:59pm On Sep 12, 2014 |
Hi, I'm an introvert, I don't like being around people, I don't want to make friends, I don't want to talk to people- online, on the phone, anywhere- I'm very shy, and I think I'm anthropophobic, I saw this thread last month or so and I couldn't muster courage to post anything though I wanted to, badly. Today, I thought, screw it and here I am. Introversion has made me very observant though, I wouldn't change who I am for anything. It's hard for extroverts to understand me because I don't answer their calls, I promise to meet them which I don't, I know it's annoying, I wish there was something I could do, I find it difficult to make conversions here. I envy extroverts, they say what they want to, they face large audience. I'm a chorister and one sunday I was asked to lead praises, I was nervous my body shook throughout, my voice was low and I sang off key, I hate taking solos, I just want to be alone but I don't want to disappoint my family, I know I'm probably rambling and my write up may be incoherent, I'm sorry, I'll stop here now. Thanks. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 3:23pm On Sep 12, 2014 |
MarilynNash: Hi, I'm an introvert, I don't like being around people, I don't want to make friends, I don't want to talk to people- online, on the phone, anywhere- I'm very shy, and I think I'm anthropophobic, I saw this thread last month or so and I couldn't muster courage to post anything though I wanted to, badly.first of all, ur welcum. Are u serious wit wat u just wrote? Wow, dis is very deep. Being an introvert is not bad but when its to d extreme.......mayb u just need to summon more courage as u have done wit dis post and write more, and wit tym...u will get by. On a lighter note........so many choristers can sabi to sing off key wen dey are shy. U can literally see shyness radiating all over them. |
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