FKBZ:
Fellow introverts.....i need a friend... . .Above 29,male...Has something meaningful doing....
Who up to the challenge....

okikiosibodu:
Screenshots from THE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING A F*CK.
I will admit that I may so buchan enjoying the book and more especially, this is about the first time I will witness someone using the F-word and I am not getting offended evnthough it is excessive used. It also seems to be the very first "big" book I have ever read... Though I am in-the-process-of, it it is most likely I will finish it.The writer seems to b a choleric that doesn't give a f*CK
He was right about many things though. One gets worried about an issue, one tends to be worried about the level of anxiety one is going through. Consequently, being worried about one's worries can lead to another worry on its own, and the chain reaction seems to be a stranger to oblivion, as it is never ending

joyblossom:
Pls i need serious help starting a conversation and ending it is a big issued i get scared or shy when trying to communicate and this sometime gets my friend pissed off... What should i do?

RSVP:
Funny enough, someone called me a "Sadist" last night and I tell you my brother, it's was very painful cuz the person actually put it straight to my face even though I tried to defend myself but yet I still found it very difficult digest why he called me such name.

I have been misjudged sooooooo many times and in most cases I couldn't defend myself cuz I don't even know what to say to make them understand me.

stancod:
hmmm! this introvert of a thing makes people sees me as a saddist...its gets me angry.had to see people who understand me.LORD HELP ME

Xzbit91:




I'd like to understand something, under what context are y'all referred to as "sadist"? I fail to see the relationship between introversion and sadism.

Akposb:

May be, they don't react the way other people do when something bad happens or do not celebrate success with excitement. Also they might just be lost in their own world and hence give little attention to the plight of others.

It is quite a thin line between caring and indifference. Caring for others is sometimes exhausting and when such is not reciprocated, one may tend to go cold on relationships or feign indifference. I encourage them to access their mindset and work on their relationships.

Xzbit91:


That's improper use of words. Don't you think "insensitive" is more appropriate than using the word "sadist"?

Xzbit91:




I'd like to understand something, under what context are y'all referred to as "sadist"? I fail to see the relationship between introversion and sadism.

Akposb:

May be, they don't react the way other people do when something bad happens or do not celebrate success with excitement. Also they might just be lost in their own world and hence give little attention to the plight of others.

It is quite a thin line between caring and indifference. Caring for others is sometimes exhausting and when such is not reciprocated, one may tend to go cold on relationships or feign indifference. I encourage them to access their mindset and work on their relationships.

Olarewajub:
@ Liamm . Do you have hard time starting a conversation with strangers and asking questions?

Callmeibironke:
so, at 12:10am dater church service today. Someone looked at me and told me that I needed to go out more often.

That I am always pressing my phone or in front of my laptop by myself.

Maybe she is right.

I don't have any friends (seriously though) that I would go out with or people to be free with.

I'm just too rigid.

I need to make new friends

ceeroh:
I don't have or keep friends. My neighbours think I'm weird. The only 2 friends I have don't stay here in lag, they understand me so well. I could be indoor for an entire week without stepping out if I have no reasons to.
I find it so hard going into the bathroom, dress up and say I wanna visit someone. That's one hell of a daunting task. If you wanna invite me out, you gotta tell me days before in order to prepare myself psychologically for the outing. But my close friends know it's never a dull moment with me. I just love this lifestyle.

ceeroh:

Hello

Ajibel:
I havent taken a pic of myself this year tho'. I dont see a reason why I should have a pic of myself on my phone.

Ajibel:


Hmm, 5 years after I posted this, this still holds true for me.

taiocol:


barely have my own photo on my phone.... when I manage to take I capture in such a way that my face is blurred out or under exposed

Ajibel:


Lol Maybe when you have a lady in your life, things might change.

The pictures I take nowadays are courtesy of bae.

I think having pictures of yourself is cool though. I realised this during the #10YearChallenge, I couldn't participate because I don't really have pictures to use.

emmy2807:
I am an introvert, and when i came across, i thought to share my story.
So with friends, i mean friends not acquintances or I am this crazy guy that talks too much, throughout my primary to my secondary i had only 3 friends.
I 0had stage fright earlier but am better at handling it now, it gets to me sometimes though, but i am always able to shake it off after few minutes.
I do have this immunity to what people say, so i leave everyone to his/her own opinion about me. My phone is my wife (permit me to use that) am always online, i play games alot, so my interactions with humans are limited.
Am currently in my final year in school but i have never been in a relationship, my friends do say if i leave d uni without getting one then they would know i have a problem, i dont have much issues interacting with girls except 4 d first time of course, but i just lack the will power mainly becus i have fears sharing my space with someone, and i havent met someone who would convince me that it is worth it.