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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by jkuvira: 2:22pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
Albertone: Because I'm an introvert I have to keep mute in class? Keep silent even though I have the answer? If that is one of the major criterion for introversion I'd have to do some extra reading. Introversion isn't inhibition, mine doesn't inhibit me. If you do not want to talk in class you won't, be it you're an introvert, extrovert or ambivert. Besides we humans in general have the reasons why we talk or don't talk in class. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 3:10pm On Apr 27, 2022 |
jkuvira: Introverts don't like to be in the spotlight. Introverts are ALWAYS quiet except when with the few they are close to. Everyone know introverts to be quiet almost always. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sherylbaky(f): 9:08pm On May 03, 2022 |
Albertone:Being an introvert doesn't mean u can't speak up Albertone:And it's depends, when it comes to creativity, intellect, knowledge and other meaningful stuff introverts don't mind being in the spotlight 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by toujurs: 9:36pm On May 06, 2022 |
A thread for boring psycho's. Some even talk to themselves. . Wierdo's 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 4:41am On May 08, 2022 |
Albertone: Has it ever accrued to you that there are different kinds of introvert and a varying degree of introvertedness? Some are able to over come their fears and stand tall in public. You won’t even know they are introverts until you watch them closely. Ever wonder why working class introverts are called double or two face? 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by fredkellz(m): 8:55am On May 08, 2022 |
I am an introvert too really keeping indoors and sometimes playout a little bit...i'd really like to clear out some issues of my chest,its a ladys talk, guys can come up too,i just wanna talk thats all anione kindly hi me on watsapp..at the end of the day am sure i wil be fine... NB:i just wanna talk share out a few things.thanks 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by 9182736455O1999(m): 10:09am On May 08, 2022 |
toujurs:We are not psycho's, we're introverts. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 1:39pm On May 08, 2022 |
litigator: Those who overcame their fears and can now stand tall in public were once overshadowed by their fears. The guy I was quoting was never at any point in time quiet and never feared the spotlight. What type of introversion is that? 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by fredwill1357(m): 2:27pm On May 08, 2022 |
oyetpel:hello, about how much capital does someone need to start arbitrage trading? About how much profit in a month? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babyfaceafrica: 6:24pm On May 11, 2022 |
Albertone:These things happen 1. He could be an ambivert 2. Not every one has extreme introvert features. This is common with people with Melancholy and Choleric personalities 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babyfaceafrica: 6:25pm On May 11, 2022 |
toujurs:This place is not for kids, please go and take your waec lessons 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 11:20pm On May 11, 2022 |
babyfaceafrica: With the way he described himself,I suggested he is probably an ambivert to him. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ebenezer880(m): 8:35am On May 15, 2022 |
I'm now really finding it hard to Express myself most time, when I'm supposed to react to thing, fight back or say NO to some request I will just answer affirmative.. which later I will feel pained and will have to go back to say NO after some days, I find it hard to keep up a conversation and most time I avoid having convo with people, my phone and mum are my best friend, am alittle shy, I hate phone calls nd prefer text messages Most people will always say am very cool�, I DNT talk and lot more.. I just love my space... But most time I wish to fight back 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 9:08am On May 15, 2022 |
ebenezer880:How old are u? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ebenezer880(m): 9:29am On May 15, 2022 |
Rubbiish: ** |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rubbiish(m): 9:39am On May 15, 2022 |
ebenezer880:You are still young By the time u start approaching 30 a lot of things will naturally change. I will also encourage u to join any group in your church where u can start contributing on issues. It will go a long way to improve your outspoken ability. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ebenezer880(m): 9:53am On May 15, 2022 |
Rubbiish: Thank you |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Albertone(m): 1:27pm On May 15, 2022 |
ebenezer880: Introversion accompanies a lot of anti-social tendencies. Sometimes,you may find yourself creating valid points after an argument is over. You may tend to avoid confrontations with people. Sadly they don't go away on their own.We have to work hard to overcome them. 7 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ebenezer880(m): 12:32am On May 22, 2022 |
Albertone: Thanks |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Treasure17(m): 6:42pm On May 23, 2022 |
Rubbiish:Truth |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ayomi90: 8:51pm On May 23, 2022 |
toujurs:You are not making sense, I don't think you are even educated. You know nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by toujurs: 5:00am On May 24, 2022 |
Ayomi90:See this wierdo , Taa! get out. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ayomi90: 7:28am On May 24, 2022 |
toujurs: Na who give pikin phone? Olodo, introvert sounds weird to u, better grow up and complete your education, stop disgracing your father here. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by abdsamad(m): 2:08pm On Jun 02, 2022 |
ebenezer880: If you're also competitive, then you may try this little exercise: say NO to basically every request you get, for one week. Don't think about how bad the person will feel or whatever else, just say NO. It's extreme and quite irrational but it may allow your brain to get its feet a little wet in that department. Report back after a week to tell us how horribly it went. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ebenezer880(m): 11:24pm On Jun 02, 2022 |
abdsamad: Thank you |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Paayne(m): 10:13pm On Jun 03, 2022 |
Being an introvert sucks. Being a broke one is worse. Welcome to my world. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 7:34am On Jun 04, 2022 |
ebenezer880: Simple solution. Take the personality test and join your type of introvert group on facebook. Actually join multiple groups, so you can compare your behaviour with other introverts like yourself. The truth is, once you join these groups, you will start contributing. You are sure to find out that introverts have this weird sense of humor , double or multiple faced and are actually talkative among their kinds. Soon you will feel comfortable in your disabilities and gradually turn it to strength. But this was what I did when I was your age. I was a bridge burner and also learnt to give them a taste of their own medicine by becoming a better person of value. Add value to your self and monetize it. Reduce talking to people orally and have them put their request down in writing. This way, you will be able to say no without looking them in the eye. If you keep up with your likes on closed social media space, you should be able to look them in the eye and say Capital ‘NO’ in a matter of months or a year. Start exercising. It’s the best way to burn negative energy. Filter people that are using or manipulating you and move away from them without saying a word. It’s the best punishment you can give them. Then learn from the assistance you render for free. Let me break this down by giving you a real example. In my second job as a lawyer, I worked in a firm of litigators. We had so much work load and immediately my colleagues knew I don’t say no, they started loading me with their own cases. I was practically doing the job of 3 people for half the pay of one. Cos I was earning the least pay. But I knew what I was doing. I was simply trying to learn as much as possible and accumulate knowledge within the shortest possible time. How did this pay me? I never knew my boss was taking notice of everything. Suddenly, he recommended me to his friend who desperately needed a vast litigator. This friends had juicy bank and multi national briefs but had little or no litigation experience. That’s how I became head of litigation and managing associate in a tier 2 law firm. Had my own team and gain vast exposure by going against the best of the best and SAN in court. It was scary but I was also learning from them without their knowledge. Atleast you must respond to processes filed by a SAN one way or another. Soon I became managing associate and was earning both salaries and commission. When Covid 19 happened, I left the firm and started mine. Guess what? The first major brief I got was from Nairaland and it paid my entire annual salary in a matter of months. Most of my ex-boss’s client followed me to my new firm and the few that didn’t, still send referrals till date. Suddenly, God made us a lawyer’s lawyer ( hard core litigators and masters of legal technicalities). Other lawyers take briefs and we help them do their paperwork for a fee while the go to court and argue their cases. Hope this helped? Shalom. 8 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 7:48am On Jun 04, 2022 |
Paayne: Find your strength and monetize it joor. No introvert should be broke in this age of work from home? The only thing I dislike about us is lack of friends, bridge burning and perfectionist tendencies. This perfectionist tendencies sucks when you are a writer with speech and writing disabilities. I have forgotten the word for it. But then we keep learning. Introverts are warriors and problem solvers. Broad spectrum thinkers and love pursuing knowledge via the reading of books. So why should such a person be broke? You have no reason joor. Go work on yourself and monetize your values. Shalom. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by nacortic(m): 8:19am On Jun 04, 2022 |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ebenezer880(m): 8:38pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
litigator: |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by dvkot(m): 10:08pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
Seems i have to register here, socially awkward Gemini introvert. Is there like a get together for us cos my lifestyle is actually boring |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Khaysee: 1:45pm On Jun 14, 2022 |
Money can't buy class Money can't buy good character 3 Likes |
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