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Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by martolux(m): 7:21am On Jul 28, 2014 |
padeolu: Fling? What happens to abstinenceI wonder how you are going to look if the number of likes you get is added to your age 1 Like |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Jambsupport(f): 7:21am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Op is saying nonsense with boldness. 2 Likes |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by AdeniyiA(m): 7:28am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Acidosis: Marry a virgin with good morals and save yourself the headache.i agree. but d question is ,have i ploughed anoda man's wife? if yes, then i am not entitled to one. 4 Likes |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by spicykev(f): 7:33am On Jul 28, 2014 |
I think its a very immoral thing to do. must we always copy the western world in everything? 1 Like |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by phineas: 7:33am On Jul 28, 2014 |
So let me see if I get this thread,you all want the bride or groom to sit at home the night before their d day,watching tv? I think the word you're looking for is debauchery not "fling" per say... Not all bach eve's or bachelorette parties have that element,I've attended bach eves where friends of the groom male and female all had drinks and just talked about the guy into the nite,talked about politics,history,stuff the guy had done in the past,his ex gfriends(or lack of them) girls he tried dating and this babe in particular ... Nice classy restrauant too,others had some dancing and drinking till the groom passed out,for most of us,its great networking and opportunity to meet "our friends other single friends" they become known faces the fflg day at the wedding.For me its the part of the Nigerian weddings I love the most,cos its "we we " and a few new faces all in our age bracket partying with ok people. The fllg day u "give to caesers what is ceasers" and comply with all the formal requirement of the naija wedding and reception,u act mature while at it... Most plle will tell you this event with friends the nite before is the part of their wedding they enjoyed the most.so by all means don't let this thread stop anyone from throwing a bachelor or bachelorette party for their friends,and don't give it a "bad name" either the idea is a great one and does not necesarrily entail debauchery. 4 Likes |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by jericco1(m): 7:35am On Jul 28, 2014 |
montestic: Its bad 4 a lady to have a fling few hours or a day to her wedding? ladies beware!! |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by padeolu: 7:40am On Jul 28, 2014 |
martolux: I wonder how you are going to look if the number of likes you get is added to your ageI'd rather appreciate if its added to my account (in millions). 1 Like |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Icecomrade: 7:54am On Jul 28, 2014 |
[color=#990000][/color] abdulkayus:Guy your reasoning is very shallow considering the way you reacted to his comment. Women are more crafty than you can imagine, what u think or feel will not change a thing they ve set their mind to do. As a matter of fact they will do it under your nose. Virgin or no virgin. His opinion is that we should worry less with unneccessay imaginations that ends up ruining our happiness |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by unmask: 8:14am On Jul 28, 2014 |
the way Nigerians carry marriage on their head, like it is a crowning glory of sorts......yet they get married and live in misery for a life time......get a partner you can walk out on at anytime. .....you have a better chance of being happy........than getting married and live in bondage..........while when you are asked you start giving stupid excuses such as "for my children", "my pastor said......" and all the other rubbish 1 Like |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Odunharry(m): 8:16am On Jul 28, 2014 |
TRADELYN:good morning bro are u on whatsapp? |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Teespice(f): 8:19am On Jul 28, 2014 |
mencade5: unrepentant biiitches everywhere. If this one doesn't talk, who else will. All this your rants is becoming stale. OP, this your one sided article get as e be. Nairaland of now eh. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Tymax(m): 8:27am On Jul 28, 2014 |
mencade5: unrepentant biiitches everywhere.Guy u harsh o. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Tymax(m): 8:33am On Jul 28, 2014 |
LyfeJennings: Some loose ladies would still come here to defend their loose ways but it dont matter how U see itGbam! |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Acidosis(m): 8:34am On Jul 28, 2014 |
AdeniyiA:The most important thing is love/compatibility, bro. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by VMLTDSMS(m): 8:46am On Jul 28, 2014 |
lalasticlala: A growing trend of bachelorette parties these days is having the final fling before the ring. Long a staple of bachelor parties, such hook-ups were the reason why it was an unspoken agreement among the groom and his friends not to talk about the things that happened on the night before the wedding. With the falling away of gender-based morality, women too have claimed for themselves the right to one last night of fun and freedom before walking down the aisle. ONE LAST FLING COULD RESULT TO SET-UP,DEATH,HIV/AIDS ,UNWANTED PREGNANCY OR EVEN CAUGHT.RE-THINK |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by mencade5(m): 8:55am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Teespice: Stop bleating woman, i dont post to impress you. If you dont like it, jump am pass. 3 Likes |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Noblefreeman(m): 8:59am On Jul 28, 2014 |
remsonik: Op ur write up is to bash the women, why not tell men to desist from flings on the night of their bachelor's eve. Not only women should desist,men too should as the dangers u listed are evident in women who do such,men too suffer such dangers!!! Women should stop trying to size up men. At the end of the day, na una go lose pass. A̶̲̥̅ word is enuff. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by TRADELYN: 9:11am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Odunharry: good morning bro "Happi Holuda" Sorry, I'm not presently active on whatsapp! Kindly reach me on my private email address: fortebrandcorps@yahoo.com. I receive mails in real time. Regards! |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Teespice(f): 9:12am On Jul 28, 2014 |
mencade5: Stale. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by lalasticlala(m): 9:17am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Acidosis: Marry a virgin with good morals and save yourself the headache. where u c d virgin? |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Acidosis(m): 9:19am On Jul 28, 2014 |
lalasticlala:Lol I no be virgin hunter.. The statement is for troubled minds. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by lalasticlala(m): 9:20am On Jul 28, 2014 |
abdulkayus: a virgin today may turn out to b a dog tomorrow. 1 Like |
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Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Acidosis(m): 9:23am On Jul 28, 2014 |
lalasticlala: A dog today can never turn to a sheep. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by somsom(f): 9:34am On Jul 28, 2014 |
montestic: Its bad 4 a lady to have a fling few hours or a day to her wedding?Who really are you? A man or a woman? what happens to the man who sleeps with a woman on his bachelor's Eves? I guess he will be crowned king? |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by mencade5(m): 9:35am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Teespice:ur assertion stale girl. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Muzikluva(m): 9:50am On Jul 28, 2014 |
One last fling means you have been having flings and you will continue even after marriage,bride/groom. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by IamforGod: 10:06am On Jul 28, 2014 |
bbulldog: i always enjoy bach eve.......fling or not, i will enjoy my life.... that one nightstand cant ruin ur marriage. it will rather make u fit for ur wife, enjoy ur life manu talk like a 16 year old .how old are u? |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by Nobody: 10:11am On Jul 28, 2014 |
I don't think so ooo. But if you mean to flirt tat night and tap bums and fool around, then yes. But to go sleep with a guy that's not your fiancée hours before you get married. Omo, it's things like that, that we call flimsy, that ruins everything. Make out, dance, smack bums and just be happy. But that's it. Go back home and get married. Well, me I go still smack bum even if I marry ooo. its harmless. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by abdulkayus(m): 10:11am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Icecomrade: [color=#990000][/color] Guy u are speakin thrash, do u saw way he wrote before spewin d thrash u wrote above? condoning adultery and being proud and don't care abt it is wat he meant. |
Re: Having One Last Fling Before Marrying Him - Why It's A Bad Idea by bigemmmybig(m): 10:12am On Jul 28, 2014 |
disloman: Hmmm.Ladies!C as u twist am.@OP:U were rightto an extend. NO mind dem ladies., if na to com bash guys wit their usual all men r d same dem no dey forgt say dem dey bias SHA oga op it goes both ways |
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