People have discussed this issue over and over
again but let me still discuss it cause it can't be
over-emphasized.
Sex is NOT a proof of love. Love is not all about
sex. You can have sex with someone over and over
but not be in love. You can be in love and not
engage in sex till you're both wedded.
Your partner may hate you and still have sex with
you. Be wise, don't let someone use sex to
manipulate you. It is self deception to think that
giving him/her sex will make him/her love you.
True Love will never force you to engage in sex
before marriage, true love is patient and
understanding, it respects. Someone who doesn't
love you will not change his/her mind after sleeping
with you.
If a person tells you to ‘prove your love’ by having
sex with them while unmarried, such a person is
only using you. Note, if your partner loves you
because of sex, understand that ‘better sex’ will
take he/she away from you.
Don't make yourself a ‘sex slave,’ it is foolish. Real
Love will never shame you, force you to do evil
against your will or tamper with your dignity.
To the ladies, If you have made the mistake of
trying to use sex to buy a man, now is the time to
re-assess your relationship and build it on the right
foundation.
If he gets married to you because ‘the sex is good’,
it will be fatal to your marriage. Let him get
married to you because he loves you, honors you,
feels a strong emotional, mental and spiritual
connection with you and wants you to spend the
rest of his life with you.
In summary, don't get married to someone because
of sex and don't allow someone marry you because
you are good in sex. One day, they may eventually
taste someone that does it better than you and you
will become history.
Let them love you for LOVE, not SEX!!!

Well said, but 1 thing am very sure of is, its stupid for anyone to marry without avin sex 1st! For e.g wat if d dude is impotent? D luv will still work out ryt? C'mon tink OP d world is growing pls grow along wit it