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10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by myspnigeria: 1:03pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
There are 10 essential flirting moves that you must know. These are critical if you are to get out of the "Friend" zone and into the "Potential Lover" category with any woman: Lesson #1 Smiling You must smile. You probably think you smile now, but you don't, really. You should practice your smile in the mirror--to be big enough to be noticed, your smile will probably have to be bigger than you are used to. Lesson #2 Getting caught looking Most people look away when the object of their desire looks at them. If you want to let that person know you are interested, when she catches you looking, smile, hold eye contact a moment longer, then look away. Lesson #3 Waving A little wave to someone who caught you looking, along with a smile, is a non-intrusive, very flirty way to say "hello." Lesson #4 Winking You can wink at someone from across the room, or wink at someone during a conversation. If she says something funny, or someone else does something silly, you can give a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you, as if the two of you are in on some private joke no one else is aware of. Lesson #5 Asking "what's the story behind that?" You can ask "what's the story behind that?" about any special or unusual thing your quarry is wearing or carrying. Examples: "that's really neat bracelet you are wearing. What's the story behind that?" or "That's a really great briefcase. What's the story behind that?" Even if there isn't much of one, it's given you some conversation. Lesson #6 Holding eye contact While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. At least once it's a good idea to hold the eye contact a little "too long," just a fraction too long, so there's a brief, more intimate moment between you. Lesson #7 Non-intrusive touching This can be as simple as placing your hand lightly on her hand for a moment, or touching her back for a moment as you walk to a table to sit down. Just do this a couple of times on the first flirting interaction--if she pulls away, don't do it again. Lesson #8 Checking her out Checking out her body must be done properly. The goal is for your new friend to feel complimented that you noticed her body, not objectified like some piece of meat. You do this by making eye contact, then quickly, in less than a second, passing your eyes down and then up over her body, then back to looking in the eyes. It should happen quickly, and you should be unashamed of taking a glance. Just don't do it too often. Lesson #9 Using the "Good-bye compliment." If you are shy, flirting with the "good-bye compliment" may be just the thing you need. On your way out, you simply go up to the woman you want to flirt with, and say something like, "Hi, I have to go now, but before I did, I really wanted to let you know that you have a really great sense of style, and that I noticed it. I wish I had more time to spend with you, but I have to go." Then leave. This allows you to build your confidence in approaching women, without having to take the risk of rejection--after all, you have to leave, you couldn't stay even if they wanted you to! (Some men also ask for phone numbers at this point.) Lesson #10 Stopping while it's still fun Remember, flirting should be fun, and you should leave the flirting interaction feeling victorious. Most men leave their flirting interactions feeling like failures because they don't stop until it stops being fun. If you stop flirting on a high point, while it's still fun, your new friend will feel good when thinking of you, and want to see you again. 4 Likes |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by mayorall(m): 1:14pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
source??
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Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by harlos: 1:15pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
Thank you |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by tbagjames(m): 1:31pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
Weldone. |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by myspnigeria: 2:02pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
mayorall: source??Human Sexuality 4th edition |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Nobody: 2:13pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
You are all welcome to ashawo school of nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Nobody: 2:42pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
i don't need any lesson ![]() |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Mprex(f): 3:01pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
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Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Nobody: 3:28pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
spacing and proper numbering. very important |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Nobody: 3:39pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
hhmmm...flirting tutorials |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by dre11(m): 3:52pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
I disagree with point 4 never loved those winking winking actions |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by yungryce: 4:44pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
myspnigeria:I seriously dnt get it wen d bolded is said |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Dbestmax(m): 5:23pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
mayorall: source??Must there b a source?? |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by iammodel(m): 6:55pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
Mumu op.... How about ATTACKING ![]() |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by TheCodeWriter(m): 9:13pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
issokay |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Houseofglam7(f): 10:28pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
Issorait |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by ideology(m): 10:31pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
Houseofglam7: IssoraitSpelling murdered ![]() |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Nobody: 12:11am On Jul 30, 2014 |
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Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Houseofglam7(f): 12:11am On Jul 30, 2014 |
ideology:I wrote in pidgin so I'm still in order 1 Like |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Nobody: 12:20am On Jul 30, 2014 |
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Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by ideology(m): 5:29am On Jul 30, 2014 |
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Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by MizMyColi(f): 7:23am On Jul 30, 2014 |
OP, is this a one or two way lesson? ![]() |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Nobody: 8:11am On Jul 30, 2014 |
dre11: I disagree with point 4Wink at me and I will ask what's wrong with your eye. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by d4real890(m): 11:16am On Jul 30, 2014 |
dre11: I disagree with point 4 I bet to disagree with u that No 4 is right |
Re: 10 Essential Flirting Moves That You Must Know by Houseofglam7(f): 11:17am On Jul 30, 2014 |
ideology:You gat it. 1 Like |
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