It was a taboo many decades ago, but things have since changed. But has it changed to the extent that it's now okay for a woman to propose to her man? Would you do it? If not, why not?

I cant do it n i can never do it, can't say abt others. @ Op, can u accept proposer from a lady?

ifekemmy: I cant do it n i can never do it, can't say abt others. @ Op, can u accept proposer from a lady?

lady its beta yu dnt kill urself wit nastic bliv.,it means u re stil an ignorant of maturity nd civilisation..wot if d guy takes yu as a friend nd yu re in d position 2summon hs attention ...yu re losin sumtin precious sweetie

ifekemmy: I cant do it n i can never do it, can't say abt others. @ Op, can u accept proposer from a lady?

Learn to go for ur like(s)..even if it means changing an obsolete norm or thinking system.

ifekemmy: I cant do it n i can never do it, can't say abt others. @ Op, can u accept proposer from a lady?

if it's a lady i feel something for, but bidding my time to propose to, and she summon the courage to go first, then why not..



But the question is, can they ever summon the courage..

ifekemmy: I cant do it n i can never do it, can't say abt others. @ Op, can u accept proposer from a lady?

.... more like asking if a woman can accept a proposal from a man...What's the biggy? It's a two way thing you know, it's either he accepts or declines your proposal; afterall, that's what guys risk their days doing.

I strictly believe one should go for what he/she desire or wait while one whizz fella take your stead.

my unseen girlfriend gonna try it on me because its awesome more than the men proposal.

Smartsyn: if it's a lady i feel something for, but bidding my time to propose to, and she summon the courage to go first, then why not..



But the question is, can they ever summon the courage..

y nt..dey hav d courage unles if d havnt made up dir mind

arrant nonsense

Trying to do ma work for me abi

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Learn to go for ur like(s)..even if it means changing an obsolete norm or thinking system.

As for me i can't do it,period!

[quote author=Smartsyn] if it's a lady i feel something for, but bidding my time to propose to, and she summon the courage to go first, then why not..



But the question is, can they ever summon the courage..

Who told u dey dnt av d courage, gurls re doing it big time

propose??...wen my brain neva catch ebola

[quote author=Emmysmith63]lady its beta yu dnt kill urself wit nastic bliv.,it means u re stil an ignorant of maturity nd civilisation..wot if d guy takes yu as a friend nd yu re in d position 2summon hs attention ...yu re losin sumtin precious sweetie

My not losing anytin dearie, my choice ȋ̝̊̅§ differ from other pple's choice. Dat wat ȋ̝̊̅§ killing dis country,Civilisation. Adopting someone else beliv n culture

[quote author=blizard44].... more like asking if a woman can accept a proposal from a man...What's the biggy? It's a two way thing you know, it's either he accepts or declines your proposal; afterall, that's what guys risk their days doing.

I strictly believe one should go for what he/she desire or wait while one whizz fella take your stead.

U like it bt i dnt. No be by force . Some guys even find it disgusting

Culture and traditions maks sturfs like dat impossible in naija, but i think for now it make no sense for any woman to propose to a man especially with the kinds of guys we av dis days

Its a bit strange in Africa, maybe its a norm elsewhere.

I tink. they shud jus make it look Normal for a gal to propose to a guy!! cus after what happened to me i regretted being a gal!! can u imagine,, saw dis guy in church,, so attractive and calm,, looked well to do, he was constantly stealing a glance at me,, after dat, he was constantly passing tru ma street with his car,, each time he passed, he will always stare at me,, it was.so obvious dat sometimes i jus lost cntrl,, then during our church all-night service, he was a little close to me,, always staring,, i couldn't express maself very well during dance session cus his eyes was always on me,, i wanted to walk up to him and ask him t he is looking at me,, wanted to ask him if he loves me buh u knw dis is naija,, gals dnt make d first move!! so during our intl youth convention,, (winners chapel) he was dia,, though i came bfore him buh he sat inches beside me,, always staring at me,, i love dis guy,, i wish he could jux approach me and talk to me buh hell no,, he prefers to steal glances! jus today 30/07/2014, i went for dat Same youth convention ,he sat beside me staring as usual,, buh then came dis gal sitting inches away from him,, she was beautiful,, d guy started sharing his glances btw d gal and i,,, i was jealous,, i wanted dis guy i knw he fances me buh maybe he was shy to say it or something, nw bicux of his delay i ve got a competitor in dis oda gal!!! i jus wish i could do d proposing stuff!!

I wont entertain such, it looks so odd in my face. It makes one feel, as a man, kind of inferior and incompetent. #myview

Fresia01: I tink. they shud jus make it look Normal for a gal to propose to a guy!! cus after what happened to me i regretted being a gal!! can u imagine,, saw dis guy in church,, so attractive and calm,, looked well to do, he was constantly stealing a glance at me,, after dat, he was constantly passing tru ma street with his car,, each time he passed, he will always stare at me,, it was.so obvious dat sometimes i jus lost cntrl,, then during our church all-night service, he was a little close to me,, always staring,, i couldn't express maself very well during dance session cus his eyes was always on me,, i wanted to walk up to him and ask him t he is looking at me,, wanted to ask him if he loves me buh u knw dis is naija,, gals dnt make d first move!! so during our intl youth convention,, (winners chapel) he was dia,, though i came bfore him buh he sat inches beside me,, always staring at me,, i love dis guy,, i wish he could jux approach me and talk to me buh hell no,, he prefers to steal glances! jus today 30/07/2014, i went for dat Same youth convention ,he sat beside me staring as usual,, buh then came dis gal sitting inches away from him,, she was beautiful,, d guy started sharing his glances btw d gal and i,,, i was jealous,, i wanted dis guy i knw he fances me buh maybe he was shy to say it or something, nw bicux of his delay i ve got a competitor in dis oda gal!!! i jus wish i could do d proposing stuff!!

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