okparaugo:

Correct man.

Taxi is costly. Why not keke napep ?

Janetozi: oparaogu & Eyop, all this wicked comments that u ppl are posting bcoz of me, heeeeee!!! There's God ooooo na only una waka come?

What do u two want me to comment when the op have decided not to say exactly what happened btw her and her husband.

A stupid threat deserve a stupid comments.

As for me, i won't be stupid enough as to bring my family matter to social netwrk except it is for celebration purpose

i repeat; let the op give us his husband contact, eg phone number, nl username, Facebook or twitter address or even house address, so we can send u, oparaugo and eyop to him as our delegate to contact him and settle the matter once and for all.

She brought the matter to nl & it must settle it her

softsparkyy:
I dey feel you jare.
I'm still following this thread to see if the op and the husband go appear.
Incase she change mind give you contact please alert me.

fyneboi79: Are you marriedwell if you are not married,then get the hell out of this thread ‎u emotional wannabe!!!!

naijaboiy: what kind of a man is that
He's taking things too far

MissFresh: No! No!! @op, see how u allowed another woman call ur husband "insensitive"

mstik: Wow...nice to hear this sort of thing from a man.

jpphilips:

Insensitive because the woman is sitting fat at home while the man has literary solved all her problems? cant you decipher the OP has no problem? If the landlord was on her neck to deliver while the school proprietress has given her 5 missed calls, would she rem her birthday?
No be her mates dey maiduguri dey hide from boko haram? if she was in that zone, would she rem her birthday?
Why do gals take birthday so seriously? an unfortunate event that brings them a year closer to Menopause is not worth celebrating.
Birthday celebration should be left for retirees and grannies who have crossed the hurdles of life, when is my birthday sef? mtchew!

loswhite: i don't knw y girls like fake ppl or ppl that can pretend.

franciskaine: why concluding without getting the full gist? Nawao! How on earth will u conclude the gentleman is insensitive without even hearing his own part of d story.

jnrbayano:

Keep calm and reason deep.

The Op "lamented" that her hubby is "emotionally mean" out of heartbreak. She has already evaluated the situation and come out with that adjective.

Now she wants you to advice her on how to ameliorate her hurt and possibly win her hubby back (reverse her hubby's emotionally mean status she has already given him)

She doesn't want you to begin another judgement/appraisal of the hubby and the situation, if she did, she wouldn't have called the hubby "emotionally mean". She would have told you the story as it happened (what offence she committed against the hubby and how hubby snubbed her and her birthday) and requires you to now judge the situation for her.

I don't expect you to agree with me, but issues about other people's marriages require wisdom to handle it well and not exuberance.

obidiegwujane10: happy new month nairalanders

Idowuogbo:
U no well o

olumzzz:
HAAA!!!..IYANGBALI, just as i think. I knew dat d oko cannot just acted so callously(oyinbo nla). But IYANGBALI, how dd u knew

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rightym: De hubby did not handle dis wit maturity. No matter wat she had done he could ve swallowed it and allow her have her birth day. doh telling her aw he is been hurt wit her act/words or whatever.

@OP I'm sure de issue must be despicable!!! Try explain lets have a clue.

mstik: OK, you were just speaking off point and I don't even know where to start from to reply you. If, you're trying to make a point, you have to do so intelligently. Op said she's being going through emotional abuse, and 'abuse' is such a strong word. Do you know what it means to be abused? You are here rambling about menopause and I don't see any correlation with the topic at hand. You know your problem? You can't just stand any female bad mouthing about a man, no matter what he did. To, you, it's always the ladies fault.And you carried this mentality into this thread, and here you are, saying/typing words that are confusing?

jpphilips:

Insensitive because the woman is sitting fat at home while the man has literary solved all her problems? cant you decipher the OP has no problem? If the landlord was on her neck to deliver while the school proprietress has given her 5 missed calls, would she rem her birthday?
No be her mates dey maiduguri dey hide from boko haram? if she was in that zone, would she rem her birthday?
Why do gals take birthday so seriously? an unfortunate event that brings them a year closer to Menopause is not worth celebrating.
Birthday celebration should be left for retirees and grannies who have crossed the hurdles of life, [size=18pt]when is my birthday sef?[/size] mtchew!

Sagamite:

Yeye, fake man.

Why wetin prophet or elisha am matter?

You just dey use big big grammar for nothing.

THIS IS THE 21ST CENTURY, my friend!

You are backwards. You are a sexist PIG! Cave man!

mstik: OK, you were just speaking off point and I don't even know where to start from to reply you. If, you're trying to make a point, you have to do so intelligently. Op said she's being going through emotional abuse, and 'abuse' is such a strong word. Do you know what it means to be abused? You are here rambling about menopause and I don't see any correlation with the topic at hand. You know your problem? You can't just stand any female bad mouthing about a man, no matter what he did. To, you, it's always the ladies fault.And you carried this mentality into this thread, and here you are, saying/typing words that are confusing?

Sagamite:

Abeg, kindly explain what emotional abuse you saw in the OP's post.

Sagamite:

Abeg, kindly explain what emotional abuse you saw in the OP's post.

Oahray: emotional abuse? Really? Did you get that from the story she posted or another one she told you in private?

mstik: being emotionally mean is equivalent to emotional abuse na

Sagamite:

Really?

I no know o.

So if I ask for a girl's number and she use me shine, waste my time and then does not give me number, talkless of kushi-kushi, freaky-freaky, enter-enter, she is emotionally abusing me?