Ladies have different reasons for choosing a man; what one lady might see in a man might totally differ from what another might see; what attracts Miss A would totally differ from what would attract Miss B.

If you ask every young lady at age 18 to write what they would love in their ideal man; the list of things might be quite superficial as she wouldn’t state more than the obvious. Fast forward to seven years later when that same lady is about 25 years old, and the list would almost totally differ from the one she wrote some years back; you wouldn’t even believe it was written by same person.

However, one thing that I’ve noticed is that ladies most times even settle down or fall in love with a man that’s so different from their ideal man. Is it a case of the available becoming the desirable or the desirable becoming unavailable or it’s just a matter of the heart being swayed like a pendulum?

What are the criteria ladies really choose for their ideal man? If it’s wealth, looks, career path, family background and all of the sort you won’t be wrong for terming this a superficial ideal man. The hardest of criminals and gangsters have a woman or women in their lives; I’ve never seen a lady saying she would love a criminal as an ideal man; but how come so many end up with them?

I can go on with so many examples to prove that an ideal man is just a word that only exists in the dictionary. Ladies want a different kind of man and end up being with someone entirely different; is it that the ideal man doesn’t exist or is the brain tricked into having an ideal man?

Who is your ideal man? Is there even anything like an ideal man is one question I seem to carry at the back of my head because getting that ideal man is as hard as uprooting a tree with bare hands. I’ve come to notice that the ideal man for most ladies is never constant and it changes with time. Maybe the ideal man is just that man that the heart falls for without minding every other factor.

@mod: fp material.
Thanks.

Guys, take whatever the ladies say here serious at your own peril, cos all they really want is money. #TheseHoesAintLoyal

onome710: Ladies want a different kind of man and end up being with someone entirely different;

First, calm ooo cos I am fire
Tolerating, grt sense of humour as I am queen of humour, good looks for my kids, smart cos I am one bad assss, ofcus a good job too.
I think that's all I rem now

As for Mua.... You must be willingly to hit the top with me... Hahhahaha... Decent and straight minded that's all

Ladies, be the kind of woman that would be desired by a man of your dreams

one mans food s anoda mans poison....as for me ooo..he must b cool n calm...mayb tall sha(not compulsory),super-romantic (as in romantic)....God-fearing etc.....d remaining na minor issue..but dos ones r d koko

I don't want any body my ideal man is here on nland nd his name is dygeasy.

rozzay: I don't want any body my ideal man is here on nland nd his name is dygeasy.

....hmmmm...nairaland love...i dey jealous unna oo

temigracie: ....hmmmm...nairaland love...i dey jealous unna oo

. My dear its cos of us beyonce sang drunken love nd by d grace of God we shall bring our wedding pics on nland

rozzay: . My dear its cos of us beyonce sang drunken love nd by d grace of God we shall bring our wedding pics on nland

..come n c oppression....

rozzay: I don't want any body my ideal man is here on nland nd his name is dygeasy.

sameer1212:

. Baby r u bak from work, don't mind dat person she is impersonating me wit a fake acc named rozzay infact. Mods pls luk into it asap

temigracie: ..come n c oppression....

. Babe slip of keys I meant sameer1212 is d only man for me, I don't nid anoda man

rozzay: . Baby r u bak from work, don't mind dat person she is impersonating me wit a fake acc named rozzay infact. Mods pls luk into it asap

u sure

He must be tall, dark , handsome, six packs, money, killer smile, good job,cute eyes, dimples......
Vanity upon vanities! Who am I kidding?
I just want a good man that is intelligent

rozzay: . Babe slip of keys I meant sameer1212 is d only man for me, I don't nid anoda man

hmmmmm baby,i tink i gat to ask GEJ to set comitee to luk in to dis our mata.

sameer1212: u sure

. My love don't u trust me

keep off!!
or abi you want me to vex?

rozzay: I don't want any body my ideal man is here on nland nd his name is dygeasy.

sameer1212: hmmmmm baby,i tink i gat to ask GEJ to set comitee to luk in to dis our mata.

. Pls hun I think its a gud idea so we can know d men dat wants to snatch me from u here on nland if possible lock dem up

rozzay: . My love don't u trust me

okkkkkkkkkk i do trust u.

Ladystewie:
keep off!!
or abi you want me to vex?

. Madam stewie dats not my acc o. Some impersonator. Pls don't vex

rozzay: . Pls hun I think its a gud idea so we can know d men dat wants to snatch me from u here on nland if possible lock dem up

gbam. am gona luk dem up. bt wet oo na u dey e be like say na ur eyes no wan stay wit me ooo. abi i no dey provide ur needs?

berra

rozzay: . Madam stewie dats not my acc o. Some impersonator. Pls don't vex

Ladystewie:
keep off!!
or abi you want me to vex?

ladystewie u dont nid to get angry because dats nt ma baby dat wana snatch ur man

sameer1212: okkkkkkkkkk i do trust u.

. Thank u oya enter bef make we sleep d *sleep*

sameer1212: ladystewie u dont nid to get angry because dats nt ma baby dat wana snatch ur man

. Pls help me tell her o

Its funny some ladies ar being motived by perishable parameters towards selectin a man of their dream... Wen u expects too much of a man, u myt end up not gettin ur desired man... Ahn ahn, u want jst ordinary one man to possess d qualities of 20 men... He must be tall, slim, handsome, dark, funny, six-packs, pointed nose, gud job, brilliant, eloquent... E.t.c.. I no fit laff

sameer1212: gbam. am gona luk dem up. bt wet oo na u dey e be like say na ur eyes no wan stay wit me ooo. abi i no dey provide ur needs?

. Olowo ori mi u r providing of cos oo. See now one guy is forcing me to come nd collect d. I said no

Dygeasy: