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Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Olivia111(f): 12:36pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
If you’ve ever wondered why it seems that men are okay with no-strings-attached sex while women tend to suffer with this arrangement then we're are most definitely thinking on the same line. I keep wondering why most women allow themselves to be easily waned by sweet talking males and let them pop their cherry so easily knowing fully well they'll be at the receiving end of mockery and moral bashings. My advice is not to tell men that they shouldn’t sleep with women; it’s to tell women that you must have men make a greater investment in you as individuals before having sex. 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by farano(f): 12:45pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Alright pretty gal 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
farano: Alright pretty gal...miss farano...na wa ooo |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Les: 12:53pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Not only are you advising your fellow ladies, you are also complaining. Subtly revealing your worries. Well, it's ok if you understand that is the way women are being wired. Guys will never complain about this nor advise fellow guys about certain sexual encounters with ladies, that's the work of daddies, this is because guys don't attach much importance to sex other than the fun, unlike ladies who see sex as something else just like you are bringing up negotiating sex for some certain INVESTMENT, need I tell you the type of ladies who use sex as investments?? I'm not calling you anything but you have the mindset of those type of ladies. Have sex if you want to, if you must have a connection before sex, get a boyfriend no big deal. Now if I may ask, what kinda investment?? 5 Likes |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by farano(f): 12:56pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
temigracie: ...miss farano...na wa ooololz Hope you're enjoying your day |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Les: 12:57pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
But this is quite funny, guys complain they invest on ladies without sex while ladies complain sex without investment. (We are wired differently, that's why feminism won't work, at least not with me 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Nobody: 12:59pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
farano: lolz Hope you're enjoying your day...lol..sure,enjyn d cool breeze here.... |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Luckygurl(f): 1:21pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Olivia111:I've got some reservations with this statement. What kind of investment do U mean? 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by naijaboiy: 2:10pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Investment ko Na business 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by OohMpa: 2:48pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
naijaboiy: Investment ko Jesus said to Adam "Go ye forth and multiply" clearly meaning we men have the responsibility of having as many bïtches as can be without any stress... Now you 21st century lots are giving us the stress more in kind than the line of Terah to Jesus And here you bïtches come again asking God to make men invest in our own duties 4 words for you: STORY FOR THE GODS!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Liability(m): 3:34pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
what is bad in offering money while he gets sex from me. Some men sef. |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Les: 3:58pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Liability: what is bad in offering money while he gets sex from me. Some men sef.if you are a LovePeddler, be proud of your job but if you are not, why won't you pay the guy for sex?? 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Liability(m): 4:03pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Les: if you are a LovePeddler, be proud of your job but if you are not, why won't you pay the guy for sex??what is this one saying? Without our veejee you cant get satisafied with sex. |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by passionate88: 4:49pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Olivia111: If you’ve ever wondered why it seems thatWhat type/kind of "INVESTMENT"?. |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Investment indeed.. When I invest, What will be my Profit?? Just a Mere Hole OP, Ur brain is producing GroundNut Oil.. 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by zizytd(m): 5:07pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Liability: what is bad in offering money while he gets sex from me. Some men sef.Hmm, so na only d men dae enjoy am,wen u go dae shout harder harder, u know dae enjoy am? Make him pay u abi. U dae pay for all d power wae e dae use do harder? 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Les: 5:20pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Liability: what is this one saying? Without our veejee you cant get satisafied with sex.you speak like you ladies don't need sexual satisfaction?? And ya, some guys are gay. 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Greatihex(m): 5:23pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
zizytd:ask am! Though i am against sex b4 marriage. |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Liability(m): 5:24pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Les: you speak like you ladies don't need sexual satisfaction?? And ya, some guys are gay.eww...dats disgusting |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Les: 5:27pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Liability: eww...dats disgustingwhat's disgusting? Realising that ur veegee ain't worth what you think it is or some guys don't need it at all? 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by 1one: 8:21pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
OohMpa: If you're gonna talk smack.. Please leave Jesus out of it because he's not your mate. You obviously have very little understanding in that blocked head of yours for you to call a beautifully crafted creation of God a bittch. If by happenstance you're talking from familiar experience having come from a family of bittch sisters et al. it would be worthy to note that not all families are made up of bitcches like yours. Let me reiterate the crux of this post, Incase your blocked head can't seem to comprehend-Leave Jesus out of your smack talk. He's not your mate. Be cool 3 Likes |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by OohMpa: 8:48pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
1one: With all your rants, the only thing ooh Mpa noticed was you saying more bïtches and Jesus....... Sense must be a recessive gene in your family. Don't hurt yourself cos it skipped you 2 Likes |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by MisterLongman(m): 9:35pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Olivia111: If you’ve ever wondered why it seems thatmake greater investment before having sex...... If I may ask investments lyk what........ Are you sure you are not a runz girl 1 Like
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Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Olivia111(f): 10:10pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
I see the word 'investments' was misunderstood. The context it is been used it is definitely different from your perceptions. I couldn't find a more suitable word in my panerphalia of words however what I meant wasn't the normal 'golddigging money induced' term rather something like investing in a bride price or something of that sort, thanks. |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Nobody: 10:17pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Olivia111: I see the word 'investments' was misunderstood. The context it is been used it is definitely different from your perceptions. I couldn't find a more suitable word in my panerphalia of words however what I meant wasn't the normal 'golddigging money induced' term rather something like investing in a bride price or something of that sort, thanks.It's clearer to me now. Someone has a fresh mail tonight. |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by 1one: 10:18pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
OohMpa: It is well with you. |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Olivia111: Iu r sayin d same thing with ur two statements. just bc a guy invests in a woman in whatever form shouldn't mean she shud give him d go-ahead for sex. just like dey shudn't be led by a guy who sweet talks. pple shud hv sex when dey r ready (whether it means waitin 4 marriage or wheneva) n the decision shud be something dey make on their own; it shud b independent of whatever d man is doing, whether he has made investments or whateva 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by ideology(m): 10:35pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
aflyingbird:Weldone bros, besides i was thinking by investment she meant, career, wise counsel, motivation or inspiration, not knowing she meant bride price, nawaoo 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Luckygurl(f): 10:41pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Olivia111: I see the word 'investments' was misunderstood. The context it is been used it is definitely different from your perceptions. I couldn't find a more suitable word in my panerphalia of words however what I meant wasn't the normal 'golddigging money induced' term rather something like investing in a bride price or something of that sort, thanks.I see But the truth still remains, not everybody would live by that, not at all. |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
ideology:i know, right? before i got 2 d part abt bride price, i thought she meant making investments in one of d ways u mentioned, was expecting to read something of dat nature then i read bride price, lol Olivia111: I see the word 'investments' was misunderstood. The context it is been used it is definitely different from your perceptions. I couldn't find a more suitable word in my panerphalia of words however what I meant wasn't the normal 'golddigging money induced' term rather something like investing in a bride price or something of that sort, thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
aflyingbird:across the world, there are different pre-requisites for sex. This is when I'd say different strokes for different folks. Everybody can't practise same ideology. The world must be diverse. |
Re: Why The Double Standards When It Comes To Sex? by Nobody: 11:58pm On Aug 02, 2014 |
Largas:sooo, u r saying... in naija, a man payin a bride price is a pre-requisite 4 sex? is dat wat nigerians practice? dats pretty much wat u've said. her argument is hers n hers alone. u shudn't jump ship by sayin it's an ideology or a norm for a man to pay bride price bc he wants to hv sex with d girl. u r taintin d bride price concept with dat comment n u r makin nigerian men look bad. u r tryin 2 help her with her argument but u r makin things worse |
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