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20 Things You Need To Do Before Your 30th Birthday. by Niftyrules(m): 3:49pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
Below herein are the 20 things you've got to Know before you clock your thirtieth birthday. 1. Discover yourself- Greatness is not the amassing of wealth but the amount of contribution you've made to life via your self discovery. There is a treasure of Chest in you, you've got show it. The world doesn't respect people with grey hair, but men who had discovered themself. A man who cannot discover himself, cannot be stable and consistent in his life. 2. Learn how to solve problem with your giftings- Before you're thirty, you should learn how to solve problems correctly. The presence of a gift is not as important as to how it works. The Bible in Proverbs 17 Vs 8, says for as long as man can make good use of this gift of his, it prospers or rather proffer solution. The treasure in you have the ability to engage you for life 3. Catch some ideas on how to make money- Before you clock your thirtieth birthday you must already have a source through which finance of your day to day needs are been met. If you're an author or probably an aspiring book publisher, put up your work together and show to men that has gone ahead you in your field to either edit, proofread or even give to you some professional advice as to how you succeed in it. And kindly NB, you make money out of so many people's ignorance. No one will ever pay for what he already knew. 4. Must have known the definition of love- before you clock your pearl Jubilee as often called. You must have gotten the basic concept of love and what is embedded in the word 'love'. Many young people are often confused as to some love related expressions for instance when someone walk up to you look straight into your eyes brings up a smile and suddenly says "I love you". What is love when somebody say I love you. You cannot say you love someone you met for the first time, you can only get attracted to him or her on the first impression. At thirty you ought to know love is a responsibility, choice to give, not about exploiting someone else. Love is worth studying, worth waiting for and if he or she claims he loves you, he will pass through the rigors and go through the African, European or probably Nigerian gradual process of intending couple familairizing themselves with both family. 5. You must have learnt how to propose- At your thirtieth birthday, you should have learnt or even mastered the art of proposing to a lady. You should be funny and at the same time pass your main intention across to the lady. You need not start lecturing or telling some rooster and bull story. Go straight to business, get the scales off her eyes and make her see 'things' 6. You must have read 30 books- As you gradually approach your thirtieth birthday you must have been able to have at least a mini library of your own with books. Not just book there for decoration but books, that you will read and some that you've read. Someone once said, "he who does not read is not better than he who cannot read". That is, what is the difference between you and an illiterate if you would not read. At thirty at least, you should have read a minimum of thirty books. Books that would inspire you, teach you about life, tailor your lifestyle and teach you on how to be successful in the general sense. Just going to school is never enough, your classroom knowledge will not do it all, but those drops of water in the books you read makes of you a large body of water called ocean. Infact you've got to learn, to save (money) for books. Books are meant to give value to your life, it is another beautifier you must have come across. 7. Before you're thirty, you should have a Pastor . At thirty you should be responsible enough to have a pastor for yourself, preferably your assembly Pastor. Your Pastor could be compared to as a guiding angel in whom you can confide in and who also will impact knowledge into you. Read Jeremiah 3 vs 15. But note carefully, you don't choose your Pastor but you discover him. www.niftyrules. 8. Before you're thirty, you should be known for something. The question tag here is; what is the worth of your name if mentioned anywhere. What will folks say about you each time men pronounce your name in full. Great men are not known for many things, but they are known for something. Today, Tiger wood is known for golf playing, Lionel Messi football, Bill Gate Microsoft, Mike Adenuga Globacom, William sisters Tennis. I even wonder how you had mentioned what they were known for before I did. 9. Before you’re thirty you should have a Mentor- The famous Benjamin Franklin said, “tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember. Involve me and I learn” You need some to keep correspondence with, I mean someone you can relate life with who can easily put you through. A Mentor help shape your life and put your life in order, they seem to have got to where you want to get to. They’re often seen as the pathfinder of our life. When you stand on the shoulders of those who have gone farther, you see ahead. NB: don’t be too emotional about choosing a Mentor, but instead study him/her and pay attention to his way of life and the words of his mouth. 10. You must have learnt how to say ‘No’ – At thirty you should have learnt how to say No, not yes for everything that comes your way. At this age you shouldn’t be too emotional about everything, hereby saying; how will they see me, what will they say etc. What you should must be concerned about is how will I feel? Never you live on the feelings of others 11. At thirty you ought to have conquered Procrastination- Procrastination is often reffered to as the killer of time. With procrastination, you will never get anything done. Someone once said, procrastination is the lazy man’s apology. Check the poem of the week for more on procrastination. 11. Be free to use your mind- at thirty you’ve got to use your mind. At thirty If your life has not been going well, am sorry you need to check who has been doing your thinking for you, which connotatively means you’ve got to be free from the influence of your parent, peers, Tv, desires etc you must surely live for who you want to be and not others want you to be. 12. You should have your Bank account – Before you clock your thirtieth birthday you need to have a bank account. You shouldn’t be caught in the ‘hand to mouth syndrome’ most common with young people this days. Learn to put together some money together for future use. And if you really preparing for your life ahead, you should definitely have more than one bank account designated properly. 13. Have an Investment – Before you clock your Pearl Jubilee, you should have a good investment. A business is not bad neither is buying of shares which is popularly known and even the cheapest. 14. Develop a stability of character – Be taken for who you are, say what you mean, learn how to keep mute when you’ve got nothing to say. Learn self control 15. Choose your friends – Decide who you want to keep around you. Not everyone around you should be seen as a friend. 16. Learn professional food etiquette- Know how to position your utensils while dining. Learn dining etiquette, while eating with others. Be most courteous while dining with a lady. 17. Define your vision- Before you’re thirty you should be able to define your vision in one sentence. 18. Learn how to drive – You ‘ve got to learn how to drive before you are thirty. At your thirtieth birthday you shouldnt just start learning what the clutch, break is used for 19. You should have the financial ability to feed an extra mouth – Before you’re thirty you should be capable to feed someone else. Irregardless of where you stay, what you earn, you should be able to cater for others before you’re thirty. 20. And finally, at twenty you should have decided your Faith. You should at thirty determined your stance with God. At thirty you should have confessed the lordship of Jesus Christ. You should be born again. Know how to love God, be engage in kingdom service. He’s your help in times of distress, give it all to him. 4 Likes |
Re: 20 Things You Need To Do Before Your 30th Birthday. by Richhommie(m): 3:55pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
Nice 1 Like |
Re: 20 Things You Need To Do Before Your 30th Birthday. by joannes7(m): 7:32pm On Aug 03, 2014 |
Hmmm... Was nervous when I actually saw the post heading. Thought I must have slacked off. Nice to know I check all boxes (maybe still lacking in the procrastination department). Everything about finance and investment was done before I was 20.. Nice one though 2 Likes |
Re: 20 Things You Need To Do Before Your 30th Birthday. by iyeminifie: 12:50am On Aug 04, 2014 |
Wetin happen, pastor sef dey compulsory? Tell dat 2 d muslims, Pagans ,Atheists n Deists |
Re: 20 Things You Need To Do Before Your 30th Birthday. by Niftyrules(m): 10:22pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
iyeminifie: Wetin happen, pastor sef dey compulsory? Tell dat 2 d muslims, Pagans ,Atheists n Deists Of course now, you definitely need a pastor to put you through your life pursuit and most especially when you're planning to settle down either as a man or woman. But note the caution sha. I trust you guys anyway. |
Re: 20 Things You Need To Do Before Your 30th Birthday. by Nobody: 4:38pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
ok |
Re: 20 Things You Need To Do Before Your 30th Birthday. by Icocop101(m): 10:35pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
On point@ Op, but should have been 30 things Lol! |
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