~Sauron~:

Puh-leeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaze.

u r one

~Sauron~:


Look around u and tell me you don't hiss at the way some women portray themselves in public.
Some women are like little sluts with the way they are ready to bare it all.
Going commando these days is even hailed as "AWESOME"
Since when did going out without undies makes a woman unique??
Mother Theresa would be turning in her grave now.

I don't belong to that category.
As long as the assets are covered. . . . .tightness is nuthing.

back to square one,hannibal u r not reading my post like i said a woman does not have to dress nude or half nude before her man wil complain

c'mon hannibal u know this,if d woman is looking really good,the mans heart will be in his hands until she comes back home
sm will even want to know what and how many people spoke to her on d way,no man dare looks at their wives if not death

Cristalz:

*rolling my eyes*

Yet anutha Battle of the Sexes thread.

Its a 50-50 thing. One can't just generalize here because it depends on the individual(s) in question. Some men are possessive,some are not. Some women are possessive,some are not.

Y'all will just go on and on with this and end up right back where you started,as usual

Hehehe, just getting on Hannibal's nerves.

jeni_kadi:

u r one

I am not one, ask DeepZone if u don't believe me.

back to square one,hannibal u r not reading my post like i said a woman does not have to dress nude or half nude before her man wil complain

I am not in that category.
However, i am not denying the fact that some men don't scrutinise their babes. . . . . Many men do this but the % compared to women is nuthing.

c'mon hannibal u know this,if d woman is looking really good,the mans heart will be in his hands until she comes back home
sm will even want to know what and how many people spoke to her on d way,no man dare looks at their wives if not death

Any man with such mentality should not be called a man.
He is a wuss and if u check very well, he won't have BALLZ.

stillwater:

Hehehe, just getting on Hannibal's nerves.

My nerves?? Nah!!!!
You are a tad unfit to get under ma skin.
Are u possessive?

~Sauron~:


However, i am not denying the fact that some men don't scrutinise their babes. . . . . Many men do this but the % compared to women is nuthing.

says who?how many men do u see wear their wedding rings dis days,sm of their wives complain,while some just take it like dat

but d day d woman will leave d house without her wedding ring,nobody will sleep dat day,the man will even set the house on fire with his talks

abeg forget matter

jeni_kadi:

says who?how many men do u see wear their wedding rings this days,sm of their wives complain,while some just take it like that

but d day d woman will leave d house without her wedding ring,nobody will sleep that day,the man will even set the house on fire with his talks

abeg forget matter

Wedding rings compared to UNDIES??
Come on. . . . . .Why would a woman leave her matrimonial abode without her thongs??

stillwater:

lol, when I write, I don't talk about myself but just what I see/hear from other people's relationships
They feel threatened that's why they dictate the kind of clothes their women should wear and not because of "some appalling dress sense".
Lol, jeans and buba? what's wrong with that?

U don't see anything wrong with Jeans n Buba??
Why do u complain then when your man looks like dennis the menace anytime you are going out??

~Sauron~:

My nerves?? Nah!!!!
You are a tad unfit to get under ma skin.
Are u possessive?

Yes I'm possessive to my cakes and chocolates  

its a pity how some people turn the truth upside down,
just to make people believe they are wise.

They said that the women always say the last word in every argument.
Every other thing a man said after that is the beginning of another argument.

~Sauron~:

Wedding rings compared to UNDIES??
Come on. . . . . .Why would a woman leave her matrimonial abode without her thongs??

heheheheh hannibobo e be like say u drink ogogoro today ,u no understand d topic again
the topic is about "who is more possesive"  so there r alot of factors surrounding that
wedding ring is one:a woman cant leave her house wtout the ring ,if not the man will will see his grave
clothes:a woman cant leave her house alone looking good,if not wahala
a man cant look at their babes if not wahala

In the world of romance, one single rule applies: Make the woman happy.

Do something she likes & you get points. Do something she dislikes & points are subtracted. You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played. Here is a guide to the point system,



Simple Duties
You make the bed, +1
You make the bed, but forget to add the decorative pillows, 0
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets, -1
You leave the toilet seat up, -5
You replace the toilet-paper roll when it's empty, 0
When the toilet-paper roll is barren, you resort to Kleenex, -1
When the Kleenex runs out you shuffle slowly to the next bathroom, -2
You go out to buy her spring-fresh extra-light pantyliners with wings, +5
But return with beer, -5
You check out a suspicious noise at night, 0
You check out a suspicious noise and it's nothing, 0
You check out a suspicious noise and it's something, +5
You pummel it with a six iron, +10
It's her father, -10



Your Physique
You develop a noticeable potbelly, -15
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it, +10
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to loose jeans and baggy Hawaiian shirts, -5



Finances
You spend a lot of money on something impractical, -5
Something she can't use, -10
Such as a motorized model airplane, -20
And she got a small appliance for her birthday, -40



Driving
You lost the directions on a trip, -4
You lost the directions and end up getting lost, -10
You end up getting lost in a bad part of town, -15
You get lost in a bad part of town and meet the locals up close and personal, -25
You know them, -60



The Big Question
She asks, "Do I look fat?", -5
(Sensitive questions always start with a deficit)
You hesitate in responding, -10
You reply, "Where?", -35



Communication
When she wants to talk about a problem, you listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression, 0
When she wants to talk, you listen, for over 30 minutes, +5
You listen for more than 30 min. without looking at the TV, +10
She realizes this is because you've fallen asleep, -20

Social Engagements
You stay by her side the entire party, 0
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college drinking buddy, -2
Named Tiffany, -4
Tiffany is a dancer, -6
Tiffany has implants, -8
When mingling, you hold your mate's hand and gaze at her lovingly, +1
When mingling, you introduce her as "the ol' ball and chain" and pat her on the rump, -5
When your mate points toward a hot-looking woman and asks you if you think she is attractive, you say, "Yes, but nowhere near as attractive as you", +1
When your mate points to a woman and asks if you think she's attractive, you say, "Yeah, but she's lousy in bed", -6
That woman is her sister, -90
You have one drink, and that's it, 0
You have more than a few & perform the tango with a poodle, -2
You have a lot of drinks, vaguely remember being fingerprinted, -18

Saturday Afternoon
You go to the mall together, +3
You go to the mall, drop her off at the entrance, then park the car, +4
You go to the mall, drop her off at the entrance, then drive to a sports bar, -2
You spend the day shopping for furniture and pretend to like it, +3
You spend the day shopping for furniture, and nap on a sectional, 0
You spend the day at a wholesale club, buying in bulk , +3
Most of it chips and beer , -6
You tackle a large household project, such as painting the den, +15
Or refinishing the floors, +16
Or rewiring the basement, +17
Or adding a second floor, +18
Or setting up a Nerf Ball hoop over the bathroom wastebasket, -6
And you're tickled pink about it, -15
You visit her parents, 0
You visit her parents and actually make conversation , +3
You visit her parents and stare vacantly at the television , -3
And the television is off, -6
You spend the afternoon watching college football in your underwear, -6
And you didn't even go to college, -10
And it's not your underwear, -15

Her Birthday
You take her out to dinner, 0
You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar, +1
Okay, it is a sports bar, -2
And it's all-you-can-eat night, -3
It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colors of your favorite team, -10
You go to a nice, pricey restaurant & hire a guitar player, +3
You go to a pricey restaurant, hire a guitar player and get up and sing, +4
If you stink, +2
If you're not half bad, +5
You get up and sing a Barry Manilow song, and you're escorted out to much applause, -2
You give her a gift, 0
You give her a gift and it's a small appliance, -10
You give her a gift and it's not a small appliance , +1
You give her a gift, and it isn't chocolate, +2
You give her a gift that you'll be paying off for months, +30
You wait until the last minute and buy her a gift that day, -10
With her credit card, -30
And whatever you bought is two sizes too big, -40

Thoughtfulness
You forget her birthday completely, -20
You forget your anniversary, -30
You forget to pick her up at the bus station, -45
Which is in Newark, New Jersey, -50
And the pouring rain dissolves her leg cast, -60

A Night Out With The Boys
Go out with a pal , -5
And the pal is happily married , -4
Or frighteningly single , -7
And he drives a Mustang, -10
With a personalized license plate (GR8 N BED), -15
You have a few beers, -9
And miss curfew by an hour, -12
You miss curfew by an hour and you didn't call, -20
You get home at 3 am, -30
You get home at 3 am smelling of booze and cheap cigars, -40
And not wearing any pants, -50
Is that a tattoo??, -200

Her Night Out
You stay home while she goes out with her annoying friend from work, +5
She goes out with her annoying work friends, and she comes home late, +10
You wait up, +15
She goes out, comes home late and drunk, and you put her to bed, +20

A Night At Home
You watch TV together, 0
You rent a movie, +2
You rent a movie and it's SENSE & SENSIBILITY, +3
It's SENSE & SENSIBILITY and you stay awake throughout, +5
It's SENSE & SENSIBILITY and you fall asleep, -1
It's SENSE & SENSIBILITY and you fall asleep and drool, -2

A Night Out
You take her to a movie, +2
You take her to a movie she likes, +4
You take her to a movie you hate , +6
You take her to a movie you like, -2
It's called DeathCop 3, -3
Which features cyborgs having sex, -9
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans, -15

Flowers
You buy her flowers only when it's expected, 0
You buy her flowers as a surprise, just for the hell of it, +20
You give her wildflowers you've actually picked yourself, +30
And she contracts Lyme disease, -25

jeni_kadi:

heheheheh hannibobo e be like say u drink ogogoro today ,u no understand d topic again
the topic is about "who is more possesive"  so there r alot of factors surrounding that
wedding ring is one:a woman can't leave her house wtout the ring ,if not the man will will see his grave
clothes:a woman can't leave her house alone looking good,if not wahala
a man can't look at their babes if not wahala

I know the topic is about "who is more possessive" but i was just trying to tell you there are cases where men are justified with their queries.
No man would allow his woman to go out there looking indecent without acting crazy.
I don't want ma buddies to laugh at me abeg. . . .
When women dress properly, the level of possessiveness would decline.

stillwater:

Decency is of varying degrees. What is decent to you, might be indecent to another.
I wear my short skirts and still consider myself decent. I wont stay with someone that would giving me frowning stares when I want to go out.
However, are you telling me she didn't dress like that before hooking up with her? As I said before, CHOOSE WELL!!!
Your example is just plain nasty, any reasonable womann should know that.

Nobody would give u frowning stares if u look decent enough.
There's nothing wrong with short skirt but please don't start covering up when the wind speed goes crazy.
Don't be scared to pick your pen up if it drops. . . . . .

Which example?

The dirty thong thingy

case closed

stillwater:

The dirty thong thingy

Are u disputing that??
Stilly. . . . . .be sincere!!!
How many times have u told me some women should be jailed for indecent exposure?

I'm not disputing that it's indecent. But didn't you see all her flaws before hooking up with her?

stillwater:

I'm not disputing that it's indecent. But didn't you see all her flaws before hooking up with her?

I did not. . . . .
We met in the Church.

That's not a good reason. As old as you are, you ought to be aware that the devil also goes to church. Bite me!!!

stillwater:

That's not a good reason. As old as you are, you ought to be aware that the devil also goes to church. Bite me!!!

I am not a witchdoctor. . . .
How do i tell which is which?

Read your bible, pray everyday, stop dissing people and you're good to go.

stillwater:

Read your bible, pray everyday, stop dissing people and you're good to go.

Noted!!!

Definitely em broads. . . . .

In the olden days maybe the men but these days its women abeg

people what are we talking about.
ladies are more possessive

more response,

hello.

both groups

what ?

iice:

Men are more possessive. Women tend to go psycho.

women are more possesive