i called my girlfriend twice she busied the call and immediately switch her phone of without reason. After 2 hours i called her again she didn't pick it, 10mins later i called her with another number she picked it and started giving silly excuses.
If you were me what will you do? advice please no insults, thanks. I NEED FEMALE COMMENT MORE!

Delete that number, as a guy u need not to put all ur eggs in one basket

Give her a second chance..... just one benefit of doubt

Smh!

You _fucked up when you kept calling. You should have waited for her to call back to explain why she ended your calls. Now that you're the one calling, you have no choice than to probably forgive her.

Just one-day issue and you're already spilling your beans here?
Whatever happened to privacy and talking things over.

Dump ha,datz wat she wants.

@OP
what were the exact excuse she gave you? and what did you say/do when she fed them to you? what does she need to do for you to understand that you are bothering her?

Question 1- is she actually your girlfriend??

Babamide: Question 1- is she actually your girlfriend??

hmm hmm na my mama, see question!!! wat are you trying to say?

DONT CALL HER AGAIN!!

Read the handwriting on the wall. Find another babe. This one has left you.

Oops!
You don enter one chance and na engine you siddon.

Una quarrel before?...anyway sit down and have a rethink..before the incident of her phone call behaviour, what was the last thing you said to her? What was her response? Re examine your last discussions with her. There you will find the answer u seek.

You don't have a girlfriend!

@OP! Just as the saying goes... There's no smoke without fire! Can you honestly tell this house what transpired between the both of you lately? Probably you must have pissed her Off and didn't show remorse! Truth is some ladies are naturally like that! And most do that coz they know you'll always come back begging! Especially when she knows you love her truly! As for me the worst thing a Lady can do to me is NOT PICKING UP MY CALLS or BUSYING IT! My Girl was actually doing that to me until I strongly rebuked her from it! She dares not pick my call again no matter the misunderstanding! Again, another thing we need to find out is weather she loves you as much as you do? Coz THE POWER OF ANY RELATIONSHIP LIES IN THE HANDS OF WHOEVER CARESLESS! now from this quote, if she doesn't love you as much as you do, that means you'll always be the one crying and killing yourself for the survival of the relationship! Na she go dey do shakara for you and go dey form boss!!! In my own case, I'm the BOSS and CAPTAIN of the ship! Initially, I was under her mercy! But the good thing is we have mutual love for each other!!

Officially dumped!

I have also gone through this similar situation and her reply was she dosent know why she treated me like that and this was not a one time occasion. However,I viewed it as a game and play alone. To me a man has d knife and d yam so just play along if u can but if u can't tell her and let her go and free urself from worries.
Just view ur relationship as an experience even if she dating someone else apart from u relax and walk away to someone who would treat u better

I have also gone through this similar situation and her reply was she dosent know why she treated me like that and this was not a one time occasion. However,I viewed it as a game and play alone. To me a man has d knife and d yam so just play along if u can but if u can't tell her and let her go and free urself from worries.
Just view ur relationship as an experience even if she dating someone else apart from u relax and walk away to someone who would treat u betterI have also gone through this similar situation and her reply was she dosent know why she treated me like that and this was not a one time occasion. However,I viewed it as a game and play alone. To me a man has d knife and d yam so just play along if u can but if u can't tell her and let her go and free urself from worries.
Just view ur relationship as an experience even if she dating someone else apart from u relax and walk away to someone who would treat u betterI have also gone through this similar situation and her reply was she dosent know why she treated me like that and this was not a one time occasion. However,I viewed it as a game and play alone. To me a man has d knife and d yam so just play along if u can but if u can't tell her and let her go and free urself from worries.
Just view ur relationship as an experience even if she dating someone else apart from u relax and walk away to someone who would treat u better

Houseofglam7: Oops!
You don enter one chance and na engine you siddon.

Dude that so call Girl friend
was serving other man

GoodFaith: Dude that so call Girl friend
was serving other man

there is what we call trust dude

Ebubest: there is what we call trust dude

TRUST?
If you trusted her you will not be here asking for help

Como dey kna k anoda pako!

GoodFaith:
TRUST?
If you trusted her you will not be here asking for help

I'm asking 4 help doesn't mean i don't trust her.

If you love her keep trying.

I am talking from my own experience. She did worse things than this. Later she became glued to me like Evostik.

You can work on any woman and convert her to your own. She will start seeing other men like wood.

Though its a painful and long process

Ezedon: Delete that number, as a guy u need not to put all ur eggs in one basket

It is not easy like that when dealing with a promising lady who is still playing with you..

okparaugo:

It is not easy like that when dealing with a promising lady who is still playing with you..

can you explain the part you said she is playing you!

baralatie:

can you explain the part you said she is playing you!

Guy, very fine girls play on men o. Because they have many toasters and many options.

Even after a girl confides in you that she took special interest in you right from the first day and you were dulling, it is not yet Uhuru, she can still phuck your neighbor. You have to keep working on her..

She was probably in a bad mood... send her an SMS asking for her Bank account details, she'll call and apologize..... Lol, just kidding....

Truth is, there's no smoke without fire........

okparaugo:

Guy, very fine girls play on men o. Because they have many toasters and many options.

Even after a girl confides in you that she took special interest in you right from the first day and you were dulling, it is not yet Uhuru, she can still phuck your neighbor. You have to keep working on her..

if it is not panadol it can never be like panadol.
it means if the gal no be your own clear her comet your way!
simple!you don't have her time.