Sexting has been constantly given pretty bad knocks for being an accomplice to adultery and responsible for the breakup of many relationships in recent times. But can something good come out of sexting? Can sexting also be a tool to building sexual intimacy between couples?

Technology such as mobile phones and internet has made many couples grow apart, but for some couples it has become a powerful way to enhance their relationship and make them get closer. It all depends on how you choose to use it.

In the increasingly fast paced world we live in, couples spend so much time apart, working, travelling, and pursing other interests that if care isn’t taken they may begin to grow apart. When the relationship starts losing its steam, people are tempted to start seeking excitement outside their relationship, instead of looking for new ways to jumpstart the excitement within the relationship.

Sexting is a playful way of staying connected, a pre-intimacy of sorts that make couples look forward to having a good time together. This could be sending romantic texts, having phone intimacy, exchanging flirty emails, and playing on Skype.

Dr Golland who talks to couples in resolving marital crisis said, ‘I realized that what many of the couples miss is the “flirting” and “playful” experience sexual intimacy used to provide in their lives. I discuss ways to build a warm, connected anticipation for sex in fun and creative ways. Our sexual appetites evolve and change as we age, just as other parts of ourselves do. Feeling sexually desired by our partner is very important, and wanting our husband sexually can’t be underestimated’

She said when she tell couples to start sexting they often laugh at first, but after doing it they usually had a sexual encounter, which of course was the goal!

If you have never done it before, it’s worth a try. From a simple flirty message to an erotic one that would make your spouse tingle. Start sexting with your spouse and see what happens.

copied from www.femmelounge.ng

I come quickly!
I prefer it to the real thing!
No waist pain.

Disgusting habit and actually for teenagers who aren't allowed to have girlfriends and boyfriends do they resort to sexting




any adult into that sh1t needs to get his or her head thoroughly examined

SAMBARRY: Disgusting habit and actually for teenagers who aren't allowed to have girlfriends and boyfriends do they resort to sexting




any adult into that sh1t needs to get his or her head thoroughly examined

Ha!
Na so gay-bashing take start o.
The fact you don't understand it, does not mean you should castigate or denigrate!
It is called 'flirting' or 'heavy petting' via text SMS!
Not everyone is into PHYSICAL ACTS OF SEXUUALITY.
I for one find SEXXXUAL ACTS LESS AMOROUS AND INTIMATE.
Too animalistic.

It is called alternative lifestyle in sexuality.
I loooooooooooooooooooooove DIRTY TALK!
It PUMPS ME UP!!!!!

MEN ARE TURNED ON BY IMAGES. . . WOMEN ARE TURNED ON BY WORDS!

Bottom line:
[size=20pt]DON'T TEXT NU-DE PICTURES TO ANYONE. . . NO MATTER HOW INFATUATED!!!!FALLING OUT OF LOVE/LUST IS FARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR EASIER/FASTER THAN FALLING IN LOVE/LUST!!!!. . . .FACT!!!! [/size]

Then what is sexting @ the red bolded

Kanwulia:

Na so gay-bashing take start o.
The fact you don't understand it, does not mean you should castigate or denigrate!
It is called 'flirting' or 'heavy petting' via text SMS!
Not everyone is into PHYSICAL ACTS OF SEXUUALITY.
I for one find SEXXXUAL ACTS LESS AMOROUS AND INTIMATE.
Too animalistic.

It is called alternative lifestyle in sexuality.
I loooooooooooooooooooooove DIRTY TALK!
It PUMPS ME UP!!!!!

MEN ARE TURNED ON BY IMAGES. . . WOMEN ARE TURNED ON BY WORDS!

Bottom line:
[size=20pt]DON'T TEXT NU-DE PICTURES TO ANYONE. . . NO MATTER HOW INFATUATED!!!![/size]

SAMBARRY: Then what is sexting @ the red bolded

Sending amorous messages. . .sexuaaally explicit messages. . . a form of FORE--PLAY!
It gives you an insight to how sexxxual a person can be before YOU HIT THE BED!

Dr Golland who talks to couples in resolving marital crisis said, ‘I realized that what many of the couples miss is the “flirting” and “playful” experience intimate intimacy used to provide in their lives. I discuss ways to build a warm, connected anticipation for sex in fun and creative ways. Our intimate appetites evolve and change as we age, just as other parts of ourselves do. Feeling sexually desired by our partner is very important, and wanting our husband sexually can’t be underestimated’

When a man touches me. . .without talking to me. . .I FIND IT CRUDE. . . TOO AFRICAN!!!!
I feel a total disconnection! TURN OFF!
When he talks to me. . . MY DIRTY LANGUAGE, I send him IMAGES(NEVER NU-DE IMAGES). . . TO HIS DIRTY MIND!

Then sexxxxxxxxxxxxxx is great!!!!

The difference between great and lousy sexxx is 'FORE-PLAY'!
Gbam!!!!!

That's where littering nl with pictures of nakid men and women mastorbatin and feengareen themselves started including sending sexting messages to the internet by phone repairers.women need to respect themselves. Like my mom will say no one can invade your privacy without your consent. Am just not a fan of such but to each their own

Kanwulia:

Sending amorous messages. . .sexuaaally explicit messages. . . a form of FORE--PLAY!
It gives you an insight to how sexxxual a person can be before YOU HIT THE BED!



When a man touches me. . .without talking to me.
I feel a total disconnection!
When he talks to me. . . MY LANGUAGE, I send him IMAGES(NEVER NU-DE IMAGES). . . HIS LANGUAGE!

SAMBARRY: That's where littering nl with pictures of nakid men and women mastorbatin and feengareen themselves started including sending sexting messages to the internet by phone repairers.women need to respect themselves. Like my mom will say no one can invade your privacy without your consent. Am just not a fan of such but to each their own

You are deviating from the topic.
Perversion is not the topic here o.
This is not about invading privacy.
We are talking about sexuuual communication between NORMAL ADULTS.
I don't think you read the article properly. . . which was meant to be EDUCATIVE TO NORMAL ADULTS. . . .NOT FOR THE PARA-NORMAL/PSYCHOTIC [size=20pt]PRUDES OR PERVS[/size] ON OR OFF NL. . . both unhealthy extremes of sexuality.


It has nothing to do with 'respecting' yourself as a woman. . . BUT EXERCISING A CHOICE BETWEEN MUTUALLY CONSENTING ADULTS!

If someone decides to invade your privacy. . .GROW SOME BALLS AND SHOUT TO THE WORLD. . . 'HECK YEAH. . . DO YA PHOCKIING WORST"!

If you like LOCK YOURSELF INSIDE YOUR BEDROOM. . . AND HAVE SEXXX IN THE DARK BY YOURSELF. . .anyone that decides to invade your privacy will do just that!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmxToZBAGD4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGLaRQAj3mM


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGQ51OoGvfg


HA! SHE WHO LAUGHS LAST LAUGHS BEST!!!! WHO CARES? ONLY JUVENILES AND THE JOBLESS OF COURSE!!!

Lol lollllzzzzz I get you

Kanwulia:

You are deviating from the topic.
Perversion is not the topic here o.
This is not about invading privacy.
We are talking about sexuuual communication between NORMAL ADULTS.
I don't think you read the article properly. . . which was meant to be EDUCATIVE TO NORMAL ADULTS. . . .[b]NOT FOR THE PARA-NORMAL/PSYCHOTIC [size=20pt]PRUDES OR PERVS[/size] ON OR OFF NL. . . both unhealthy extremes of sexuality.[/b]


It has nothing to do with 'respecting' yourself as a woman. . . BUT EXERCISING A CHOICE BETWEEN MUTUALLY CONSENTING ADULTS!

If someone decides to invade your privacy. . .GROW SOME BALLS AND SHOUT TO THE WORLD. . . 'HECK YEAH. . . DO YA PHOCKIING WORST"!

If you like LOCK YOURSELF INSIDE YOUR BEDROOM. . . AND HAVE SEXXX IN THE DARK BY YOURSELF. . .anyone that decides to invade your privacy will do just that!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmxToZBAGD4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGLaRQAj3mM


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGQ51OoGvfg


HA! SHE WHO LAUGHS LAST LAUGHS BEST!!!! WHO CARES? ONLY JUVENILES AND THE JOBLESS OF COURSE!!!

Lol kim turned what was meant to emnarass her to her fame.i give it to her for that
...where is the so called ray jay feeling like badooo.imfact anytime I see him on tv, I don't see a man, I see a low life lousy jerk.sometimes I wonder if he is actually brandy's brother

Kanwulia:

You are deviating from the topic.
Perversion is not the topic here o.
This is not about invading privacy.
We are talking about sexuuual communication between NORMAL ADULTS.
I don't think you read the article properly. . . which was meant to be EDUCATIVE TO NORMAL ADULTS. . . .[b]NOT FOR THE PARA-NORMAL/PSYCHOTIC [size=20pt]PRUDES OR PERVS[/size] ON OR OFF NL. . . both unhealthy extremes of sexuality.[/b]


It has nothing to do with 'respecting' yourself as a woman. . . BUT EXERCISING A CHOICE BETWEEN MUTUALLY CONSENTING ADULTS!

If someone decides to invade your privacy. . .GROW SOME BALLS AND SHOUT TO THE WORLD. . . 'HECK YEAH. . . DO YA PHOCKIING WORST"!

If you like LOCK YOURSELF INSIDE YOUR BEDROOM. . . AND HAVE SEXXX IN THE DARK BY YOURSELF. . .anyone that decides to invade your privacy will do just that!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmxToZBAGD4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGLaRQAj3mM


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGQ51OoGvfg


HA! SHE WHO LAUGHS LAST LAUGHS BEST!!!! WHO CARES? ONLY JUVENILES AND THE JOBLESS OF COURSE!!!

SAMBARRY: Lol kim turned what was meant to emnarass her to her fame.i give it to her for that
...where is the so called ray jay feeling like badooo.imfact anytime I see him on tv, I don't see a man, I see a low life lousy jerk.sometimes I wonder if he is actually brandy's brother

That is what life is all about. You have socio-pyschopaths who only prey on others because of the level of MISERY in their lives. The last thing you wanno do is give them the slightest satisfaction and let them continue to kill themselves on your behalf. No good deed goes un-rewarded and no bad deed goes un-punished!

Amen!!!!

No woman has to give juvenile-MALES the slightest satisfaction of emotional or financial blackmail.
I love the civilized world I tellya.
If na AFRICAN WOMAN. . .SHE FOR GO HIDE LIKE SAY SHE GET LEPROSY. . . for something she had no control of. Is it a woman's fault that a MAN is stuck in the mind and body of a little boy?
Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwa!!!!

*Psst psst psst . . . .kanye hit it last!*



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63URr3SJNjY

I feel you dear
.

Kanwulia:

That is what life is all about. You have socio-pyschopaths who only prey on others because of the level of MISERY in their lives. The last thing you wanno do is give them the slightest satisfaction and let them continue to kill themselves on your behalf. No good deed goes un-rewarded and no bad deed goes un-punished!

Amen!!!!

No woman has to give juvenile-MALES the slightest satisfaction of emotional or financial blackmail.
I love the civilized world I tellya.
If na AFRICAN WOMAN. . .SHE FOR GO HIDE LIKE SAY SHE GET LEPROSY. . . for something she had no control of. Is it a woman's fault that a MAN is stuck in the mind and body of a little boy?
Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwa!!!!

*Psst psst psst . . . .kanye hit it last!*



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=63URr3SJNjY

By the way kim was really cute as an infant. Chaiiii see as kim turned ray to a looser



for Africa The girl will be hiding but those who don't have issues with inferiority complex won't e.g Beverly osu etc.

Kanwulia:

That is what life is all about. You have socio-pyschopaths who only prey on others because of the level of MISERY in their lives. The last thing you wanno do is give them the slightest satisfaction and let them continue to kill themselves on your behalf. No good deed goes un-rewarded and no bad deed goes un-punished!

Amen!!!!

No woman has to give juvenile-MALES the slightest satisfaction of emotional or financial blackmail.
I love the civilized world I tellya.
If na AFRICAN WOMAN. . .SHE FOR GO HIDE LIKE SAY SHE GET LEPROSY. . . for something she had no control of. Is it a woman's fault that a MAN is stuck in the mind and body of a little boy?
Tufiaaaaaaaaaaaaaakwa!!!!

*Psst psst psst . . . .kanye hit it last!*

Kanwulia, I never thought I'd say this...but you deserve a kiss for this post!

lol. Kanwulili.

EfemenaXY:

Kanwulia, I never thought I'd say this...but you deserve a kiss for this post!

Thank you!
I have turned the other cheek for another one!



*na lie. . . .you always wanted to kiss me. . . .but you were too shy*

SAMBARRY: By the way kim was really cute as an infant. Chaiiii see as kim turned ray to a looser



for Africa The girl will be hiding but those who don't have issues with inferiority complex won't e.g Beverly osu etc.

Abeggggggi leave AFRICAN WOMAN COMOT FOR PROGRESSIVE TOK! NA BOKO HARAM FIT THEM FOR SAMBISA FOREST!
Na who be 'Beverly Osu'?


EWOOOOOOOOOOOOO. . . . .
OMG!!!!
Mehn! North West aka NORRRRY GO DEY ALLERGIC TO POVERTY!!!!!
My heart don melt enter my mouth!
I am so happy for this family. . . .for as long as it lasts!
Nothing like living your life.
Inter racccial marriages na the BEST!!!!
I can't wait for 50 years from now. . . . .WHEN ALL THE CHILDREN IN THE WORLD WILL BE MIXED.
GOOOOD BYE TO RACISM!!!!!

Dem don TASTE E MONEY. . . .
Come see TESTIMONY. . . . .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LFBZkWA4dTE

Still on the topic. . . .

Na something dey lead to something.

From sexting. . . .we h-enter invasion of privacy.
From invasion of privacy. . . .we h-enter "let dem say"!

There are many ways to stifle the individuality of others.
We agree that sexting is a form of APPROPRIATE communication for ADULTS.
But the children of nawadays are not left out. . . .
Unfortunately, they are not ready for the consequences. . . . emotionally and psychologically.

But as adults. . . .only a CAD will breach such confidential matters.

The likes of RAY J. . . .the AFRICAN AMERICAN AGBERO!
Unfortunately. . . he was dealing with a woman far superior

Lessons learned. . . GROWN WOMEN SHOULD NOT HAVE RELATIONSHIP WITH 'LITTLE BOYS'!!!!

BLOKOS NOR GO KILL COUGARS!!!!

Nonsense NIGGA! Twa!!!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYTSdAV2lm4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYCO9mo-WS0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCDjiFtXFFA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxfpYU70Xqc


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mu_NPx5Ps_g


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMLXO-PWDTg


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSIxDYCc1bs


Oturugbeke o!
Seeeeeeeeeee SOLID IKEBE.
I love her toned skin!

The 'tub' too small na! No room for 'coming' and 'going'. . . .
WOW!

I loveeeeeeeeeeeee her self-esteem!
I wish more AFRICAN WOMEN WOULD BE LIKE THIS!

That's life!
When the going gets tough. . . .THE TOUGH GETS GOING!!!!

SAMBARRY: By the way kim was really cute as an infant. Chaiiii see as kim turned ray to a looser



for Africa The girl will be hiding but those who don't have issues with inferiority complex won't e.g Beverly osu etc.

Meeeeeeeeeeeehn!
I love that chick called BEVERLY OSU!
The girl na helele!
THE GIRL DEY KAMKPEEEEEE. . . . .

They did not have sexxxx o.
That tube was too damn small AND THE DUDE DID NOT EVEN 'COME'!
She was just 'rubbbbbing' him!

Haba! Soft p-o-r-n!
See solid ikebe!
I LOOOOOOOOOOOVE IT. . . KWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEENU!!!!

ladygogo: lol. Kanwulili.

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeees?

I love her to for her boldness. She's one self confident chic



btw does it mean that you know or hear of the popular Beverly osu till I mentioned the name?

Kanwulia:

Thank you!
I have turned the other cheek for another one!



*na lie. . . .you always wanted to kiss me. . . .but you were too shy*

Lol!

You're too perceptive!

EfemenaXY:

Lol!

You're too perceptive!

Gbam!
. . . .and intuitive!
Haba! I don teeeeeey for this game na.
I don become mind-reader sef.
Once I hear or read words. . . I can tell what is in the persons mind!
It is a gift I have always had.

Lol kanwulia you won't kill me with laugh :what does oturugbeke mean? (

Kanwulia:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxfpYU70Xqc


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mu_NPx5Ps_g


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMLXO-PWDTg


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSIxDYCc1bs


Oturugbeke o!
Seeeeeeeeeee SOLID IKEBE.
I love her toned skin!

The 'tub' too small na! No room for 'coming' and 'going'. . . .
WOW!

I loveeeeeeeeeeeee her self-esteem!
I wish more AFRICAN WOMEN WOULD BE LIKE THIS!

That's life!
When the going gets tough. . . .THE TOUGH GETS GOING!!!!

SAMBARRY: Lol kanwulia you won't kill me with laugh :what does oturugbeke mean?

I don't know how to explain 'OTURUGBEKE' o!
It is an exclamation you make when your mouth nor fit tok!
But I recovered quickly.
I wanted to know who Beverly Osu was. . . .
And what I found on youtube was a SOLID BLAAAAAAAACK NICE IGBOTIC BUTT. . . .groooooooooooooovin' on top one 'PO-TO-KI AFIN' Angelo SA dude so inside one sardine can tub bath like so!

Na you sen me message o!

Chai!
Chai!
Chai!

Diaaarrrrrris SATAN O!

lobatan

Kanwulia:

I don't know how to explain 'OTURUGBEKE' o!
It is an exclamation you make when your mouth nor fit tok!
But I recovered quickly.
I wanted to know who Beverly Osu was. . . .
And what I found on youtube was a SOLID BLAAAAAAAACK NICE IGBOTIC BUTT. . . .groooooooooooooovin' on top one 'PO-TO-KI AFIN' Angelo SA dude so inside one sardine can tub bath like so!

Na you sen me message o!

Chai!
Chai!
Chai!

Diaaarrrrrris SATAN O!