Guys and their craze for sex. Girls should be mindful of guys they call friends. Any guy that's not related to you by blood, is capable of asking you for sex or sleeping with you. And girls should also mind the kind of favors they ask from guys. Cos, most guys don't do things for free. Just like what happened to a girl recently, who had to travel to another state to write her post UTME exam. Having being promised a place to spend the night by a male friend of hers, she had gone to write her exams without any worries. Only for the guy to take her to an hotel instead of the initial arrangement of taking her to his family house to spend the night. Guess, the guy did that on purpose so as to sleep with her.

She said after the guy told her there weren't space for her to sleep at his family house, they had to lodge together in an hotel. Only for the guy to start pestering her for sex in the night. And telling her to atleast compensate him for all the help he rendered to her (learnt he took her out for lunch, and also bought her some things after her exams). She said his actions that night really shocked the girl, and that she had to do all her best to resist the guy through out the night. And according to her, she didn't allow him to sleep with her. And that immediately daybreak came, she quickly left the hotel for the motor park and back to her base. She felt being just a friend, the guy wont ask her for sex, and that it wont do her any harm to sleep in the same room with the guy. Well, I guess she now know better. And whether they did it or not, its only them and God that knows what transpired between them behind closed doors. But to others and those working in the hotel, she and the guy lodged and slept together in the same room, till day break. Shikena!

Girls need to be very careful, and should stop taking unnecessary risks. Most guys like sex alot, and can do anything to sleep with any girl. As a girl, if you don't have a place to stay whenever you're going out of your base either for an interview or for an exam. Try and see if you could get someone to help you with a place to stay either with her female friend or a responsible relation in the town you're going to. But if you can't get such assistance, then try and hold extra cash to lodge in a safe hotel alone, for your own good. Don't accept any offer to stay with any so called sister or aunty introduced to you by a male friend, if the guy stays in the same town. Cos, its very possible for the guy to later sneak in to sleep with you or demand for sex, even with the full knowledge or assistance of his so called sister, cousin or aunty you're staying with. Atimes, they might not really be his real relatives, but friends who might be willing to assist him take advantage of you later.

Most guys can do anything or connive with others just to sleep with a girl. Most girls aren't that lucky. Especially when going to write Jamb, post UME, GCE or do interviews outside their base. Bad boys usually capitalize on such opportunities to 'chop' girls (take advantage of her), in the guise of helping her...Some girls have been raped or thrown out in the middle of the night for refusing to sleep with a guy. Girls need to be careful.