What does unconditional love mean? The dictionary defines it as love that is expressed without any limitations, conditions or expectations. When you love someone unconditionally, you don’t expect any payback or favors. You love them even when the feeling is not mutual. The best real life example of this kind of love is the love that exists between a parent and a child


Unfortunately, the subject of unconditional love within a marriageis a tricky one. Some Christians, believe that they should love one another unconditionally, just like Christ loves them. This is true to an extent. After all, marriage vows do mention loving each other “for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health” till death do you part



The trouble with this argument, however, is that marriage is not unconditional. When you married your spouse, you promised to love each other in the face of circumstances beyond your control. The expectation is that the two of you will do everything in your control to make your marriage work. This means that you cannot harm your spouse intentionally and expect him or her to reciprocate with unconditional, consequence-free love.


In fact, completely disregarding reality can be dangerous, especially in the face of serious relationship problems such as abuse in marriage. It can impede a couple’s ability to deal with problems in the marriage.


For these reasons, the love that couples experience in marriage is best described as boundless love and not unconditional. Boundless love does not depend on external circumstances, and therefore, it endures even when external circumstances are against.

However, it does not disregard external circumstances.
The main difference between these two kinds of love is that boundless love acknowledges obstacles and strives to overcome them. It is based on the knowledge that your emotions towards your spouse may change depending on external circumstances but that doesn’t mean you don’t love him or her anymore.


You shouldn’t feel bad for having negative emotions such as anger towards your spouse. They are not an indication of how much you love your partner. They are just obstacles that you need to overcome on your way to a happy marriage. This is the meaning of love.


Genuine love doesn’t need to be blind or unconditional love. It doesn’t have to interfere with your ability to make rational decisions in the face of danger such as abuse. It also doesn’t mean that you have to suppress negative feelings


Mike Tuckeron
www.tobechispeaks.

Where can i find this type of love? such love dont exist

Only if you are a fool in love!
Love must have 'conditionalities'. . . . .or you are playing with your life!

Kanwulia: Only if you are a fool in love!
Love must have 'conditionalities'. . . . .or you are playing with your life!

Seconded

Kanwulia: Only if you are a fool in love!
Love must have 'conditionalities'. . . . .or you are playing with your life!

madam but Jennifer Lopez said love don't cost a thing na

SAMBARRY: madam but Jennifer Lopez said love don't cost a thing na

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Any man who wants submission should be ready to have unconditional love for his wife

SAMBARRY: madam but Jennifer Lopez said love don't cost a thing na

Yet she don marry 3 times! How much the DIE-vorXes cost?

Kpor!
Kpor!
Kpor!

I don wake o!
Easy work lasssssh night!
Off for 5 days!!!!
My H-Agnostic GAAAAAD!!!! I di kwa tooooooo mussssssh na H-America!!!!!

H-enemies for NL don quench for NL and OGUN state finish!!! No advert for NL. . . . Bodi and blokos dey pepper somebarry!

Blessed art the unemployed!!!!

MUCHECHECHECHE

hmnnn I saw the stunt you pulled in the adeboyes thread

KanwuliaJara:

Yet she don marry 3 times! How much the DIE-vorXes cost?

Kpor!
Kpor!
Kpor!

I don wake o!
Easy work lasssssh night!
Off for 5 days!!!!
My H-Agnostic GAAAAAD!!!! I di kwa tooooooo mussssssh na H-America!!!!!

H-enemies for NL don quench for NL and OGUN state finish!!! No advert for NL. . . . Bodi and blokos dey pepper somebarry!

Blessed art the unemployed!!!!

MUCHECHECHECHE

SAMBARRY: hmnnn I saw the stunt you pulled in the adeboyes thread

I finish Seun aka ahnie-Tpia with eim GWOR-GWOR AdePOOPOO dia nor be small! And the spirit came over me!
MUCHECHECHECHE
2 pages of correct rofo rofo plus BAN from the IJEBU goat meat called SEUN himself!

The ATALAKPA-LAKPA OGUN-Shrine rejected sacrificial azzzzzze!

We go see who go f'O'rst quench for this NL ke!

Terror jam TERROR!
Amen!!!!

I guess....i will know soon

No

What does that even mean?!

Hold on! Let me find out.

SAMBARRY: madam but Jennifer Lopez said love don't cost a thing na

the same Jennifer Lopez is still searching for love after like 2 billion relationships

anything is still possible

Yes

Unconditional love in naija? *yawns nd goes bak to sleep*

.

Love with all your heart but don't forget to take your brain with you!

love is Blind

mmm....i once had an argument with someone over this love topic.

he said that it is possible for someone to love a person without giving the person much respect.


is it possible?

if it is then i guess that is what is missing in the story above. respect!

if it aint then


i don't know sha, the topic is quite confusing at times.



what do i know sef am not married

My love for you strong kokoroko

kanwulia is back

Uncon-what?
In fact, there are more terms and conditions involved.

Unconditional love only truly exists in a Parent-child relationshiop. It is not really practical in marriage.

Husband: I will 'unconditionally' love you as long as you keep the home clean, make sure i get my food to time, keep slim and sexy, retain the libido and prowess of a 20 year old.......

wife:......as long as the bills are paid, you stay faithful, never beat me......

Whether we see them as conditions or not, they are conditions.

I'm not married

I believe it does.

People whn dey run aftr luv!!! Everything in dis world has a condition....

@op

IN OMAWUNMI's VOICE

if u ask me...
Na who I go ask