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11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by argon500: 2:18pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
we can’t deny that there are some fundamental differences between men and women – from how we are socialized to the chemical and hormonal differences that naturally occur. Thus, I thought it appropriate to follow up with a post on the difference between dating a girl, vs a woman. Again, many points on this post would apply if you switched the genders around. A boy is attracted to girls. A man is attracted to women. Now, this has nothing to do with the actual age of a person. I’m referring to maturity, life vision and stage of life. In fact, some people regardless of their age, will never really grow up. Also, this isn’t to say that a woman won’t ever have “girlish” or immature tendencies or vice versa. This post refers to one’s maturity and most points would also apply if you switch the genders as well. If you are a boy, then expect that you will attract only girls. However, if you are a man (independent, knows your worth and value, has a strong moral compass, is considerate and an able communicator and doesn’t let insecurity dominate your psyche), then you should be dating a woman. And if you can’t spot the difference just yet, here are some pointers. 1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased, upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a child when she didn’t get her way with her parents. This often consists of screaming, pouting, giving the silent treatment, being passive aggressive and/or punishing. A woman still feels the emotions of being upset/displeased, but has cultivated the skill of responding versus reacting. She comes to the table as an adult, and communicates clearly what is bothering her. 2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and believes people should treat her like so. She is entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore expects more than she appreciates. A woman, has standards (what she holds herself to) not expectations (what she projects on to others). 3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her currency and basis of value. A girl may be so used to feeling validated through her looks and sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases her value on her intelligence, her strength, her integrity, her values, her contributions, her humanity. 4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial strategy. A woman plans to be financially independent – she banks on… herself. And if she so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where it makes sense for her partner to be the primary breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the expected life line. 5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack and scarcity. She competes and will even tear down another in order to secure resources or a mate. A woman helps other women. She knows that there’s plenty enough to go around and takes the high road of integrity to get what she wants. 6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything domestic and is proud of the fact that she cannot cook or clean. A woman understands that being domestic is not a duty, but understands that it is one way of taking care of herself and others. She also understands that in the event she wants to create a family, having a person in the household who can contribute domestically is important. 7. “A girl wants attention, a woman wants respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A woman wants to be adored by one.” -anonymous 8. A girl does not respect her body. She has not yet understood that her body and heart are sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of how she treats it and who she shares it with. “A girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe collection as her prize possessions. A woman cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah 9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the type of human she wants to be, the example she wants to leave and the vision for her life. She has put thought into her values and what she stands for. A girl has not established her moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent. “After spending time with a girl, you feel exhausted because she takes more than she gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel invigorated, because she empowers you with possibility, and a passion for life.” – N. Mah 10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes superficial qualities above anything else. Here is an example of how this checklist may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6 feet tall, rich.. This is the checklist of what a woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent, kind, good communicator, emotionally available… Now, a lot of these differences require taking the time to know someone to figure out if the apple of your eye is indeed a mature woman, or someone with an immature mindset. However, one of the quickest filters that you can notice from the beginning is this: 11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn’t. Additional, A girl jumps from one social circle to another, making fast friends that don’t last. A woman values her deep friendships and nurtures that bond with time, gratitude, energy and thoughtfulness. 3 Likes |
Re: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by TRADELYN: 2:20pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
* Researching...* |
Re: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by tmanuelle(m): 3:28pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
On point |
Re: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by Nobody: 3:41pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
...simply put,a girl s still growing n has a high tendency of making lots n lots of mistakes......a woman is matured n has lots of experience cos she has learnt lessons frm her mistake while she ws a girl....a girl grow to b a woman.....u dont just bcome a woman just like dat.......we pass thru d girl stage....it now depensd on how many yrs it takes for us to remain a girl.... 1 Like |
Re: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by argon500: 6:52pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Are you guilty of the above post? temigracie: ...simply put,a girl s still growing n has a high tendency of making lots n lots of mistakes......a woman is matured n has lots of experience cos she has learnt lessons frm her mistake while she ws a girl....a girl grow to b a woman.....u dont just bcome a woman just like dat.......we pass thru d girl stage....it now depensd on how many yrs it takes for us to remain a girl.... 1 Like |
Re: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by Nobody: 6:59pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
argon500: Are you guilty of the above post?...lol....to tell u d truth,youngman.....i might av done some of dos listed points once b4......but rememba.....wen i was a baby,i behve like a baby...wen am old,i bhave like an adult.....just speakn for d female folks.....d problem with u guys s dat u generalise n make unneccesary assumptns alot.... |
Re: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by argon500: 7:04pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
How about a grown up woman still behaving like a girl? temigracie: ...lol....to tell u d truth,youngman.....i might av done some of dos listed points once b4......but rememba.....wen i was a baby,i behve like a baby...wen am old,i bhave like an adult.....just speakn for d female folks.....d problem with u guys s dat u generalise n make unneccesary assumptns alot.... |
Re: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by Nobody: 7:06pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
argon500: How about a grown up woman still behaving like a girl?....she s still a girl...she nids to grow up....sometyms age s just a numba....d earlier d transition frm girl to woman d beta.... |
Re: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by argon500: 7:15pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Now you are talking. It is not about girl/woman, it also affects some men.. They really need to grow up temigracie: ....she s still a girl...she nids to grow up....sometyms age s just a numba....d earlier d transition frm girl to woman d beta.... |
Re: 11 Differences Between Dating A Girl Vs A Woman by Nobody: 7:21pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
argon500: Now you are talking. It is not about girl/woman, it also affects some men.. They really need to grow up...exactly.... |
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