Most ladies now care-less about happiness in marriage or even consider the fact that u can get married but fail to remain married..Late last yr,a friend of mine was jilted by a lady he has dated for 3yrs plus..the gul is a 22yrs old final yr student while the guy is 24,also in his final yr but diff universities/states.when they started the relationship,the guy told the gul that hes gona come pay her dowry after graduating/securing a gud job which the gul obliged til last yr when she told the guy that she want to settle down before this 2014 runs out and doesnt want a commitment/relationshp unless marriage straight,my guy wept,travelled to meet her in her state twice to beg,kept calling 4 five months but the gul didnt change her mind despite the fact that this guy turned down other ladies who wanted been wit him jst cos of dis gul and has been vry gud to her,financially and otherwise even as a student..funny enough,she is stil very much a spinster and d yr is crawling to an end,part of her might even be regretting her actions cos she stil calls d guy 1ce in awhile to check on him...This leads to my question,is it better to jst get married,hav a rich spouse,answer a man's name or marryin a man that truely luvs u,been hapi and remaining married stil means sumtin to ladies? Thanks pals

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