[b]hey guys pls help out, am 25, i had a heart break 2 years ago, and as God will make it i found someone loving again, this guy promised to get married to me,showing all the love and care,i was so used to him that i told told him about my past life and about my baby when i was 19,after some months he told me we can't get married becos of my baby who is now 6.

he said we can only be friends, i almost died if not for my mum, i wasn't really desperate of getting married but i really love this guy and wish we could get married. he introduced me to his friend because he taught i was too nice to let go,initially i taught he was jokin. i met his friend and we carried on, his friend is ready to get married to me even with my baby but to be sincere i can't erase this guy out of my mind,i think about him everyday and do call him always,his friend knows that i have gone out with him before and neglected the past. i think even if i get married i might commit adultry. i'm really confused, i love his friend but not so much. please advise on what i should do. i can't say NO to his friend anymore becos we are already committed to each other.

My dear I'm in the same shoes now but i think the best we both can do is to try and let go and open our hearts to love again and with the grace of God.

Eh yah . . .Its so hard to say goodbye to yesterday . . .

You Just have to try (believe me. i know it ain't easy)but you have to. Life must GO ON after this guy. don't let your past mistake limit your future happiness.

Baby Girl I know how difficult it is to let go of a person you love so dearly, I think its best you let go cuz you are just fooling yourself cuz he vivdly told you you that he can't marry you, the relationship won't last unless you guys can remain friends which I doubt cuz you would be jealous each time you see him with another Girl, Baby Girl you got to let it go,