One of my friend reported her husband to her Pastor's wife of this attitude and she was surprised of the replied of the Pastor's wife "mine is even worse"

In my place of work some men complained of getting late to work sometimes due to looking for one thing or the other like socks, belt, tie etc; when their wives have decided not to help them pick it up where they might have off/thrown them the previous night.

My brother is not exempted, am tired of arranging and picking shoes, shirt etc from the living room when his back from work.

I don't know if this is a way of life, tiredness or it is intentional for some men, women also go to work and still enters the kitchen to cook.

So what do u think about this?

Well, I guess its a normal occurence in most homes and families,

In a case where the husband returns from work and pulls off his shoes, clothes etc, and dumps them just anywhere, all cos of tiredness.

LOL

BRB

:-x

i think itz an attitude thingy. i 1da ow those 'most men' wil handle lil details of dere lives. God help those ladies they marry sha. bt if na same marry same, wel .  .  .  

@Poster

What do you expect?

A man that has used his Spirit , soul and body to work allday

By the time he gets home, after suffering the ever sure Lagos traffic

He will prolly be too tired to keep his stuffs.

That were the Wifey/Girlfriend comes in.

You are tasked with tiding up every thing he misplaces at that moment

So basically. . . . .Its your Responsibility ladies.

darefestus:

@Poster

What do you expect?

A man that has used his Spirit , soul and body to work allday

By the time he gets home, after suffering the ever sure Lagos traffic

He will prolly be too tired to keep his stuffs.

That were the Wifey/Girlfriend comes in.

You are tasked with tiding up every thing he misplaces at that moment

So basically. . . . .Its your Responsibility ladies.

because d ladyz r immuned frm d same rigours we go thro, abi? 

Dare - u mean, ladies are responsible

Is it only men that work and suffer traffic?

Its simply bad upbringing.
They r used to their mothers and sisters picking up after them so to them d wife should do d same too.
WOMEN WORK TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think its habit.
And cut across sex.

word up @ nezerst

i support ur notion

na today,i start picking up clothes right from d door,ties u will find it in d toilet,shirts he flings to the sittingroom,one leg of d shoes will be at d balcony d other one he flings to the room,trouser he flings on my face

abeg its not a new thing,mine wen it comes to cooking ,cooks far better dan me,but wen it comes to tidying up the whole place,its diff tori entirely

sm of them do it wen they r alone ,but once a woman comes in,they give it all up for her to continue

Danke:

na today,i start picking up clothes right from d door,ties u will find it in d toilet,shirts he flings to the sittingroom,one leg of d shoes will be at d balcony d other one he flings to the room,trouser he flings on my face

abeg its not a new thing,mine when it comes to cooking ,cooks far better dan me,but when it comes to tidying up the whole place,its diff tori entirely

sm of them do it when they r alone ,but once a woman comes in,they give it all up for her to continue

Exactly what is happening in my house.Tanx to my baby.

kemisuga:

Dare - u mean, ladies are responsible

Is it only men that work and suffer traffic?

Yes and many more!

Who pays for your Aso ebi? Him

Who pays the bills? Him

Who feeds the House? Him

Who pays the kids school fees? Him

All these and many more is enough to make a man tired

Added to the traffic jam!

How do you expect him to be tidy after these wahala

Thats Callous.

LOL.When a man is comfortable enough

with you, he will let you "play" the most important

role in his life;that of nurturer. Just be happy

that the man cares enough to let you take

care of him.

Adussol

Remeber to take your Anti-shock this night o.

All

Abeg where is Chamo?

lol

@darefestus
well i think uv got a wrong view abt this. He shouldn't b untidy because he goes tru all u mentioned above. Its all abt upbringing and attitude. If he has always been tidy, he will keep begin tidy no matter d condition.

He would have to pick it up himself

@Kingsots

Gimme a break!!!

We were all brought up in tidy homes

I for one grew up among women,so i had the best tiding lesson you could ever get

that not withstanding, Tiredness [/b]place its path in [b]tidiness

and what are the causes of[b] tiredness[/b]. . .

Fatigue and stress

On the long run brother - Men are only untidy because we are mostly worn out

Mentally, Physically and otherwise.

PEACE.

I've said this before, and I'll say it again: what are maids for?
Don't get married until you can afford a maid.
And if you do, don't complain. No one is forcing you to pick up the mess.

minute:

LOL.When a man is comfortable enough

with you, he will let you "play" the most important

role in his life;that of nurturer. Just be happy

that the man cares enough to let you take

care of him.

Brilliant post!!!
If every woman out there is like u, the world would be a better place.

MY husband is not so bad but he does sometimes. I don't even complain anymore. When I feel like I pick up when I don't and he is looking for his wallet in the morning I ask him to go look in the pile of clothes he left on the floor.

Seun:

I've said this before, and I'll say it again: what are maids for?
Don't get married until you can afford a maid.
And if you do, don't complain. No one is forcing you to pick up the mess.

Guy!!1

These ladies wont agree with you!

They are scared of maids because of Wichaftery, Husbandsnatching,Kids shagging

Added to Tunfulus thread on "Shagging his maid"

Ladies wont even take that!

they just have to leave with their men!

Only if shes a house wife. Because ill be damned, if i come home from work probably even later than he does, then still have to pick up after him and cook. We would be boxing everyday.

Danke, you said that was normal for you? Well if it were me I wouldn't tollerate that. I would leave it there and the next day he can wonder why he doesn't have any clean clothes to wear to work the next day. I would tell him to go get that tie out the toilet and wear it.

darefestus:

@Kingsots

Gimme a break!!!

We were all brought up in tidy homes

I for one grew up among women,so i had the best tiding lesson you could ever get

that not withstanding, Tiredness [/b]place its path in [b]tidiness

and what are the causes of[b] tiredness[/b]. . .

Fatigue and stress

On the long run brother - Men are only untidy because we are mostly worn out

Mentally, Physically and otherwise.

PEACE.

error factorial!. ladies dnt get tired. no, they r nt worn out.
d least 1 cld do wen tired is jsut pile wateva u put off at a spot n not flingin stuff all ova.

Akinagirl

No wonder you are still single!

minute:

LOL.When a man is comfortable enough

with you, he will let you "play" the most important

role in his life;that of nurturer. Just be happy

that the man cares enough to let you take

care of him.

so who takes care of the women?  

somehow true tho. .there are lots of ways men behave like babies tho, most especially when there is a woman in their lives. Some even to the point when theyve had babies, they compete with thier own babies for attention.

Ladies I say we revolt against men!    

lysaa:

so who takes care of the women?  

somehow true tho. .there are lots of ways men behave like babies tho, most especially when there is a woman in their lives. Some even to the point when theyve had babies, they compete with their own babies for attention.

Ladies I say we revolt against men!    

Hilarious. . . . .

Leave men alone. . . . .If they are too hard and overbearing, u complain.
When they are humble and behave like babies, y'all still complain. . .
Can women ever be satisfied??

minute:

LOL.When a man is comfortable enough

with you, he will let you "play" the most important

role in his life;that of nurturer. Just be happy

that the man cares enough to let you take

care of him.

I hope the non-sensible women out there will read this post and get sense from it.