A colleague of mine shared this story of hers with me,and I thought to share with other people too,most especially women.

She's been married for close to four years,they were crazy,madly in love and I can attest to that,she no dey gree make we hear word for office always going and on about the hubby,at least,it's obvious she loves the husband.

But then,they had issues,she was never intimately satisfied with him,she said she always complained to him , she as a young wife,wanted a romantic husband, who will show her love in and out of the bed,kisses,hugs and public display of affection, but the guy just doesn't know how to,all he does is to buy her gifts,buy gifts for their son,not stay out late and try as much as possible to spend time with his wife and son....but she said she wanted more...

Our se.x life was very dry and boring

she said, when they were dating, there was no limits to their intimate adventures, and so it was part of the reasons she fell in love with him,but once they got married,he was always tired,she had no reason to believe he was cheating, but felt he no longer cared for her or love her.
She would complain and try out so many things but he just won't pay attention to all she did, she decided to start watching porn,she became addicted to it,he even caught her severally, and he didn't say anything,she said she started feeling starved of se.x ,she was frustrated.

Three years after she was married,a new guy moved into the flat upstairs, very fine guy she said,but also married with more kids than two,they ran into each other at a super market, and exchanged contacts,and then became very good friends, the guy was having many issues with his wife,she felt there was something wrong with the wife cos the guy seemed like a perfect gentle man,she said the guy used to complain of so many things about his wife...that she wasn't romantic, she didn't like going out,she didn't like se.x,they could go for months and not have se.x....so she thought to herself, wetin I dey find,another woman dey take am do shakara.

And then their relationship moved from the friendzone to something else, they had shared many intimate talks,she found out she was very attracted to him and she liked him very much,they started going out,first date, second date,third date,she was doing all this with a lot of guilt as she had never cheated on her husband, but,she kept hearing from everyone that if her husband couldn't satisfy her,she needed to help herself.

Then one day they planned together not to go to work,she dropped her son at the daycare and went back home to look se.xy for him,he went back home after making sure that his wife had gone to her place of business.
They met in her apartment. ...and what happened next, you all know...as we all opened our mouths in the office and we were looking shocked....she shocked us further by bursting into tears. ....

She said she had never been so ashamed and disappointed in her life, the guy had the smallest member she had ever seen,and that he he didn't last up to 30 seconds.
The deed had already been done,she said it was as if God wanted to punish her or give her a reason not to cheat again...

choi,my hand dey pain me o..will be back,abeg,make una no yab me as una like,it's a true confession from someone I know,and she doesn't mind me sharing it here. ..

So,what brought forth her story, a lady was going on and on about how her hubby no longer satisfy her and how she's shy to talk about it and she's considering cheating,that was how we started arguing and the story started. ..

Now,she says,when her hubby was on leave it was then she saw the man she married, he had never been on a very long leave like that before, and so all the things she used to complain about just disappeared, it was as if someone talked to him..now she said she went to church and confessed to God and also asked for forgiveness, that she will never cheat on her husband ever again.

What do you guys make of this?

The grass is greener on the other side but it doesn't it is more nutritious. She should live with it and it serves her right.

iwakolewa:
She said she had never been so ashamed and disappointed in her life, the guy had the smallest member she had ever seen,and that he he didn't last up to 30 seconds

he had the smallest member she had seen but she still screwed him regardless? your colleague is a criminal - she ought to be put against the wall & pelted with decomposed eggs.

This story is common,i have seen and heard many of them.

We must not forget that we only humans,no one is above mistake but for me 4 years in a marriage is too small to start feeling frustrated to the point of sleeping with a neighbour.She should have been a little more patient or come up with as much ideas to help her hubby.

Why i am saying this is because,her hubby never cheated,never fail on his responsibility as a provider and a father.So she should have be patient.

Now what has she benefit from it?and this is just because the man thingy is small and did not satisfy her either.What if he did,na so person will just destroy her marriage.

edwife: This story is common,i have seen and heard many of them.

We must not forget that we only humans,no one is above mistake but for me 4 years in a marriage is too small to start feeling frustrated to the point of sleeping with a neighbour.She should have been a little more patient or come up with as much ideas to help her hubby.

Why i am saying this is because,her hubby never cheated,never fail on his responsibility as a provider and a father.So she should have be patient.

edwife, so you think this was a mistake?

how old is this woman? 12?
so you really think she cried cos of her guilt? hell no - she cried out because the reward did not match the risk. if the neighbour had a pole between his legs & the endurance of a camel, you think this woman would be confessing to adultery?

coogar:

edwife, so you think this was a mistake?

how old is this woman? 12?
so you really think she cried cos of her guilt? hell no - she cried out because the reward did not match the risk. if the neighbour had a pole between his legs & the endurance of a camel, you think this woman would be confessing to adultery?

Coogar,you spoke in my mind before i edited my post.!She wanted him,and only confessed because the guy did not meet her demand. yes,but it still a mistake on her part,a very bad decision.
She should live with it,i can't imagine that she will still see the neighbour for a very long time.

coogar:

edwife, so you think this was a mistake?

how old is this woman? 12?
so you really think she cried cos of her guilt? hell no - she cried out because the reward did not match the risk. if the neighbour had a pole between his legs & the endurance of a camel, you think this woman would be confessing to adultery?

You are absolutely right, it wasn't a mistake, from the story she was only disappointed not remorseful as far as I'm concerned.

freecocoa: You are absolutely right, it wasn't a mistake, from the story she was only disappointed not remorseful as far as I'm concerned.

thank you freecocoa
i trust you, if a colleague tells you this kinda story, na slap you go give am.

edwife:
Coogar,you spoke in my mind before i edited my post.!She wanted him,and only confessed because the guy did not meet her demand. yes,but it still a mistake on her part,a very bad decision.
She should live with it,i can't imagine that she will still see the neighbour for a very long time.

it's not a mistake!
she walked into it eyes wide open. 1st, 2nd & 3rd date. where was the guilty conscience then? if it was a one night stand, then i can agree but this was premeditated. she dropped her kid in school & came back home to look sëxy for the neighbour.

to look sexy for the neighbour.

coogar:

thank you freecocoa
i trust you, if a colleague tells you this kinda story, na slap you go give am.



it's not a mistake!
she walked into it eyes wide open. 1st, 2nd & 3rd date. where was the guilty conscience then? if it was a one night stand, then i can agree but this was premeditated. she dropped her kid in school & came back home to look sëxy for the neighbour.

to look sexy for the neighbour.

oK Coogar,it was not a mistake per se.But why are you emphasizing on the fact that she had to look sexy for her neighbour?

edwife:

oK Coogar,it was not a mistake per se.But why are you emphasizing on the fact that she had to look sexy for her neighbour?

ann summers, victoria secrets, amala/ewedu & the exotic beef she's never served her husband since she married. the fact that it even happened on her matrimonial bed......honestly, this woman should be treated worse than a war criminal.

coogar:

ann summers, victoria secrets, amala/ewedu & the exotic beef she's never served her husband since she married. the fact that it even happened on her matrimonial bed......honestly, this woman should be treated worse than a war criminal.

,why did she not go to his house,why hers?Some women don't have fear in them.ewww

This story is comedy
can you imagine a small-willied man making that much mouth?

edwife:

,why did she not go to his house,why hers?Some women don't have fear in them.ewww

to be fair to her, it's safer in her flat. she's the one downstairs. worst case scenario, the neighbour has the back door as the escape route.

if she had gone upstairs, it then means she would have to jump from the first floor if something happens. this woman is smart! i think they should make her the NDLEA boss.

coogar:

to be fair to her, it's safer in her flat. she's the one downstairs. worst case scenario, the neighbour has the back door as the escape route.

if she had gone upstairs, it then means she would have to jump from the first floor if something happens. this woman is smart! i think they should make her the NDLEA boss.

ahahha how many titles will you give this woman?This woman will suffer today in the hands of coogar.
(War criminal,NDLEA boss...what next?)

Mtcheeeeewwww!!!

A very good story, just badly written...I doubt it really ended like that

What is with all this shitin shitin threads here and there sef




very annoying story with people who are not self respecting entering marriage. Msheewwww



that's how one oponu was asking if it's ok to sleep with a married man without breaking his home.if you know your pheneese or vagina cannot be put under control why marry.no wonder pastors dey buy private jet in nigeria


very religious yet godless

edwife:

ahahha how many titles will you give this woman?This woman will suffer today in the hands of coogar.
(War criminal,NDLEA boss...what next?)

she's a war criminal for tendering such a poor excuse. imagine a married man in her shoes with the same pitiful excuse.

She would have gone for second round. Infact oga might have ended up wit a third pregnancy that didn't belong to him.

coogar:
. if the neighbour had a pole between his legs & the endurance of a camel, you think this woman would be confessing to adultery?

Ha. Na dem make mouth pass.
'If I handle you eh'
If I this..
If I that...


Not speaking from experience o

alutacontinua: This story is comedy
can you imagine a small-willied man making that much mouth?

coogar:

edwife, so you think this was a mistake?

how old is this woman? 12?
so you really think she cried cos of her guilt? hell no - she cried out because the reward did not match the risk. if the neighbour had a pole between his legs & the endurance of a camel, you think this woman would be confessing to adultery?

that's what I was thinking too

coogar:

edwife, so you think this was a mistake?

how old is this woman? 12?
so you really think she cried cos of her guilt? hell no - she cried out because the reward did not match the risk. if the neighbour had a pole between his legs & the endurance of a camel, you think this woman would be confessing to adultery?

that's what I thought too

cococandy: She would have gone for second round. Infact oga might have ended up wit a third pregnancy that didn't belong to him.

hahaha!
let's give her some credits - she must be using condoms.

coogar:

thank you freecocoa
i trust you, if a colleague tells you this kinda story, na slap you go give am.



it's not a mistake!
she walked into it eyes wide open. 1st, 2nd & 3rd date. where was the guilty conscience then? if it was a one night stand, then i can agree but this was premeditated. she dropped her kid in school & came back home to look sëxy for the neighbour.

to look sexy for the neighbour.

It's like you don't know what stolen moments are like.
Condoms may be forgotten in the hurry to do it before oga comes back.

Again not speaking from experience

coogar:

hahaha!
let's give her some credits - she must be using condoms.

cococandy: It's like you don't know what stolen moments are like.
Condoms may be forgotten in the hurry to do it before oga comes back.

Again not speaking from experience

this was well-planned
read the story again. there have been several dates before the d-day. this woman is too smart not to have protected herself......she made sure the venue was in her flat. had her husband walked in on them, she woulda done what potiphar's wife did.

iwakolewa:
that's what I thought too

why didn't you say that to her face? i am sure she will repeat the act if another neighbour moves upstairs.

yet again, anoda female gives credence to d controversial maxim dt ''dere r no gud or bad gals anywhere. Females jst r females''.......

Na d hubby i jst pity. He go dey wrk to provide 4 him family, nt knowing dt a sharp guy'll av bin tapping his wife on a regular basis.

Say dis guy nor do steady nor mean anoda no go come for duty once work resume again..

coogar:

thank you freecocoa
i trust you, if a colleague tells you this kinda story, na slap you go give am.



it's not a mistake!
she walked into it eyes wide open. 1st, 2nd & 3rd date. where was the guilty conscience then? if it was a one night stand, then i can agree but this was premeditated. she dropped her kid in school & came back home to look sëxy for the neighbour.

to look sexy for the neighbour.

As in, slap shege comot from her eyes, yeye woman .

Mtcheeeewwww!!!
Akuko Mike Ejeagha

Well, she just needs to find a new guy to cheat with. But this time she must make sure the new guy is "tried, tested and trusted". TTT.

Abeg that woman will continue cheating for a looong time!

SAMBARRY:



that's how one oponu was asking if it's ok to sleep with a married man without breaking his home.

was that on nairaland?