OK, me and my wife are in our early 30's and have been together since high school. We lost our virginity to each other and neither of us have ever been with anyone else. A while back she told me about a guy she met at work and admitted being flirtatious with him. She felt she needed to tell me. I let it go. The other day, she forgot to log out of her email and I ran across some emails that she had exchanged with this guy. Nothing really bad, just some flirty emails. I confronted her about this and she admitted to being curious about how it must be like to have sex with another man. When I pressed, she admitted her intent was to eventually have sex with him. She is very attractive and I love her a lot. We have 3 kids and have had a happy life together. I must admit, that I also have wondered about this, but have never tried to explore. I don't know if I should let her cheat, so that she can get this out of her system? Will she going to continue? Possibly ruin our lives? Any advice?

What good could come out of your WIFE sleeping with another man? This is a completely selfish act on her part and the whole situation is disrespectful to you, your marraige and your children. So sorry your wife didn't get to sow her wild oats but she's the one who said yes, she's the one who walks down the aisle, and she's the one who took the wedding vows. Honestly, she needs to grow up and know that nothing good could come out of this. Sit down for a minute and really think about what you know your wife is already doing. Does any of her actions not hurt or anger you? Things have already gone to far and I can only see her actually going ahead and sleeping with this guy, if she already hasn't. Cheating is cheating and if she wants to sleep around, then she needs to pack it up and hit the road. Think about your children and the examples that are being set before them. This will ruin your marraige and her flirty emails and actions have already set the ruins into motion. If you do "let her cheat" who's to say it stops at this guy? What if she wants it to be more than a one time thing? Just think about what you're actually asking and look at the consequences to all involved. This is not a healthy marraige at this point. Good luck!

Elantracey: Is he sick? Cheating is just like hard drugs , when you start its very difficult to stop , didn't he even think , what if he find him more interesting ?? What wrong with the woman self ? it even sounds like she's in control of the home , smh

Tallesty1: She is cheating already, you mustn't have sex to cheat.

bigass:

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ledafaze: Just like the story if a very close friend of mine... After having then first child, his young wife told him that he wants to go and play with guys a bit.... My friend allowed her... She left.... Came back... And he still allowed her to be his wife....


I laff... No be story... It happened here in Lagos.

AtheistD: That is the problem with marrying a virgin. At some point they will want to sample other partners