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Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by cococandy(f): 11:49pm On Aug 27, 2014 |
Oh she's good like that and you found it expedient to open such a thread. What were you expecting if not insult and abuse on her person. Well you got it. The trolls are here. They have only known HOEs all their lives so they feel cool to call yours a hoe too. Enjoy. ebujany: For those asking...Am a graduate,am working and b4 she left for camp,she was the considering type.she never puts pressure on me wen it comes to money or sum other things most ladies want infact,she will rather give to me than take from me.(Which i dnt like).she's a very good girl and like i said she's not a hoe.i just think she's getting distracted or stressed up.i read in a book that all ladies gets paraniod wen they dnt have enuf sleep.anyways,i just dey look am |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Opiosko: 12:24am On Aug 28, 2014 |
cococandy: You seem insecure and pushy.Don't mind him jare. Just a 3wks period of events and he is mad already. It's not as if babe has concluded her registration and refused to visit home/him. Just observe the tone of the article, it's just too selfish nd childish. Op is paranoid. We can only imagin what the poor babe has been going through, I would not wish my dear sister to be with such a pathetic loser. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by F117A: 1:02am On Aug 28, 2014 |
As you can see,these hoes aint loyal. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by EmmyDe25(m): 7:10am On Aug 28, 2014 |
Mikocake: I've 101 problems and gurl is none of them..I wish I've this kind of problem, I'll gladly move on but the kind of problems I've now smh..GOD PLEASE HELP ME!!Ariana Grande's remix. |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Dreyl(m): 7:13am On Aug 28, 2014 |
cococandy: Oh she's good like that and you found it expedient to open such a thread. What were you expecting if not insult and abuse on her person. |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Eberex(m): 7:43am On Aug 28, 2014 |
cococandy: Oh she's good like that and you found it expedient to open such a thread. What were you expecting if not insult and abuse on her person. Just what I was thinking. If you already know she is a good girl having gone out with her, you should have had a second thought before coming out here to air her dirty linen. I don't know how strong your trust for her is during your relationship, but if it was there then you are still suppose to hang on and don't just conclude in a haste. Personally I don't think you have lost her. Take it as a holiday between you two. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Ladycloud(f): 8:14am On Aug 28, 2014 |
godfreyakpoguma: True but dat dosnt mean she can't love one person don't care abt oda guys.her choice |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by joeldy26: 9:02am On Aug 28, 2014 |
ebujany: Hi guys..pls i have a very serious problem.....chie bro..but nah tradition nah,such iz life.iz bond 2happen.No woman No cry..your's nah small case slf.fear them |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by dejavski(m): 9:55am On Aug 28, 2014 |
Apparently one fresh Otondo took her heart away .... that's life bro just move on....there are more then 4billion one waiting for u to run into their arms |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by godfreyakpoguma(m): 10:44am On Aug 28, 2014 |
Ladycloud: her choiceok |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by donami(m): 1:25pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
I had a friend whose case was the same as the poster and after her service year she came back running after him, bt he did not take her back, even after months of her begging and she still wishes she had him today after 2 yeaRs. He has since moved. |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Durchess(f): 1:28pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
10 missed calls? So? U cnt just conclude nw, 4 d fact dt she told u abt ds ICT guy doesn't mean she z fuckin him except say ur gal no sabi hold herself. Gv her sm tym nd mk sure u c her afta d 3wks, if u still hv doubts then move on. No b by force |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Westlife2013(m): 1:29pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Give her space. Dnt call her. Take ur mind off, women are like shadow if u run after them dey run frm u bt when u run away frm dem dey run after. My ex left me for a rich guy and 2months she is back beggin for anoda chance. It is well bro |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Durchess(f): 1:30pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Sm guys jz assume its every gal dt open dia legs anyhow for 3wks orientation camp 4 dt matter. Mtshceeeww. Ur feeling insecure dts y ur crying hia. If thz no trust in d relationship then leave d gal abeg, abi ur babe na fowl 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Nobody: 3:22pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
cococandy: You seem insecure and pushy.I wonder how I always manage to stumble on your posts; they reek of silliness, honestly. I conclude that you are neither here nor there because when a guy shows no concern, you lots claim he's irresponsible and doesn't care. When he shows care, he becomes INSECURE cococandy: That's because you already have the mindset that camp is an immoral place hence you're hounding her.what do you expect him to do with his girl in that kind of environment? If you love someone, you'd want to protect that person by all means. So sad that that's what you lots call insecure. cococandy: Pls leave her be.how about a pls call me back message or a flash to acknowledge his calls? cococandy:very soon she'll start complaining that the new guy doesn't even call her. What did she do to the one that showed concern. When such women end up marrying jerks who beat them, they come on nairaland narrating the event without pointing out how blind they were to the traits before marriage. What annoys me is that some set of wicked spiritual people will be using the opporrtunity to hate men, even the innocent ones 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by cococandy(f): 6:15pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
TribalEAST: I wonder how I always manage to stumble on your posts; they reek of silliness, honestly. I conclude that you are neither here nor there because when a guy shows no concern, you lots claim he's irresponsible and doesn't care. When he shows care, he becomes INSECURE Get help. That's all |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by MidieMeliss(f): 8:09pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
You want my advice. Please wait for her to come around for a while. She's just a little bit distracted by the events unfolding in camp. She'll most definately come around. Besides, if you guys are meant to be, you'll eventually end up together. |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Westlife2013(m): 6:57am On Aug 29, 2014 |
Na wa o....this guy asked for advice and nt insults, geez!!!! Smh |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by ayando(m): 7:13am On Aug 29, 2014 |
No be man dey straff them? We have men n women who lose their senses and that is the true. @ poster, sorry for the loss cos the true is a gal/guy that truly loves will find time out to call. Me too serve abeg Ooº°Ú Ú°ºoo. Discipline is the key! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Eberex(m): 7:50am On Aug 29, 2014 |
MidieMeliss: You want my advice. Please wait for her to come around for a while. She's just a little bit distracted by the events unfolding in camp. She'll most definately come around. I don't like the statement ''if you guys are meant to be, you'll eventually end up together'', to me it sounds like a way to console oneself and take the rubbish that is going on without doing nothing about it 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by HARDDON: 7:13pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
professore: The best thing on earth that u can do is this STOP CALLING HER,if she comes back..good,if she does not come back..better 'if she comes back, good?' like crzly? op, go do thanks giving bro! let d guy hv d sneaky sh%yt of a gurl. if she can be gotten by so little a tilt, she is mos def too cheap 4 ya! tomorrow, an alhaji wud roll arnd, promise her a ride, n she wud dump that guy too! God has a way of revealing d wolves in ships clothings . don't even think about it, move on. broken r/ship, they say, is better than a broken/failed marriage |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by professore(m): 9:32pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
HARDDON:The Op did not follow her to the camp to see with his eyes that she has been gotten,so she might just be reacting based on the stress she's going through at the camp,who knows?u?so let's learn how to give advice properly. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Nobody: 11:24pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
professore:which stupid stress?na only am go 1st go camp,my gf went to Jos to serve,no network in d camp,yet she walks miles everyday to give me a call,pls stop tellin me she is busy,are u tryin to tell me she does not charge r phone,dat same time could be used to call her man if she is d norm,well trained lady |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by professore(m): 11:34pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
[quote author=Benz4pimp]which stupid stress?na only am go 1st go camp,my gf went to Jos to serve,no network in d camp,yet she walks miles everyday to give me a call,pls stop tellin me she is busy,are u tryin to tell me she does not charge r phone,dat same time could be used to call her man if she is d norm,well trained lady If she is the well trained girl,hmm,she would not treat her man that way no matter her experience at the camp,u made a valid point there.But still we should be patient sometimes,if she comes back,it is up to the op to accept her or say no to her. |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by HARDDON: 11:47pm On Aug 29, 2014 |
professore: huh? what did I just read up there? r u a learner or a road side professor that never saw d four walls of a citadel of leaning let alone experienced NYSC camp? what stress r u referring to? first two weeks of camp r d most stressful , after that, itz jolly ride apart from d useless lectures . know what d best time is? the last few days. d only stress u get @ ppa is that of reg, thereafter fun fun fun... only a gullible soul would fall for that stress crap excuse u try to spin for her. the cheap thing is gone , d earlier d better he realise 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by texazzpete(m): 7:09am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Lmao @ people using 'camp stress' as an excuse. If there's stress, who is supposed to be the best stress reliever? Is it not the boyfriend that she should be able to talk to to unwind? There is no level of 'camp stress' that will not leave you with some hours of idle time in mammy market or in the rooms. I'm beginning to have a serious suspicion that most of the people babbling about 'camp stress' haven't yet gone through nysc. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by HARDDON: 7:34am On Aug 30, 2014 |
Durchess: Sm guys jz assume its every gal dt open dia legs anyhow for 3wks orientation camp 4 dt matter. Mtshceeeww. oh spare us the 'rash those 3 weeks r like 3 months! don't know y ladies can't just call a spade a spade, u lot must always find a way to coin round it. he calls, she doesn't pick, doesn't call back, nor beep nor nothing. gurls that truly Luv theirs guys wen in camp, after d day's rigors, always call to spend time with him. no matter what. they feel lonely so dey always wano hear his voice. so many r/ships r broken while in camp. deal with it. n her case is even worse cos if she has been d good gurl, n suddenly d leech released , seeing d other flip of s coin, she is bound to bounce ! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by HARDDON: 7:53am On Aug 30, 2014 |
texazzpete: Lmao @ people using 'camp stress' as an excuse. now thatz some1 who has actually experienced camp life ! nice tots! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Durchess(f): 10:21am On Aug 30, 2014 |
HARDDON:Bliv me bro u hv trust issues or probably breaking relationships ws ur specialty @ camp. 4 Christ sake u guys kip goin on nd on abt gals sleeping around @ orientation camp we all ain't d same. Someone hs done it b4 or ppl r still doin it doesn't mean d poor gal is doing it. |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Nobody: 2:29pm On Aug 30, 2014 |
Durchess:my question is U serve at all?or dem give u waiver?abi d camp wey u go,na moon e dey? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Nobody: 3:28pm On Aug 30, 2014 |
aggiel: Op just give urself some space, stop calling and stop sending text messages, its heartbreaking when the one person u love stops picking ur calls, ignores ur sms, or worst still finally picks ur calls and talks to u in a disapproving or rude manner. I don't know why it's so common this days in relationships, one of the partner gets so distracted with work, success, stress, money and suddenly feels the other partner ain't worth talking to, and let pride get in the way.talking from experience? Hmmmm... Been there bro and encountered just the same. I used to be a regular caller... But when I moved on, she never believed I could stay for weeks without a call. I have learned to adjust when need be, especially when my calls, sms etc are not being appreciated. Omo, you no go believe say na person wey constantly call fit stay like 1 year with you hearing his voice. I did that in 2013-early 2014... On a lady I used ask out. The day I called, she didn't believe her ears. Mid way into the conversation, she even thanked me for calling. I called her for few more times and stopped. It's been over 5 months now and I haven't spoken. The best way is just get busy with your own problems and you will hardly know if anyone exist. |
Re: My Fiancee Went To NYSC And Changed by Nobody: 3:31pm On Aug 30, 2014 |
Durchess:Harddon has a point... You are the one missing it and probably doing so for mischievous reasons. I never dated any girl while at NYSC sha... The only one tried do yanga and I face my work till I left. I don't waste time to move on when the need arises... No time ma'am. I got much important things that need my attention. 1 Like |
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