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Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by hotangel2(f): 5:36pm On Sep 21, 2005 |
Oh hell no! i aint joking. i am drop dead serious. Just that i cant type now.. cos i gat to go to class. Will u stop replying already.! |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by NSNA: 5:49pm On Sep 21, 2005 |
and we live life' |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by goodguy(m): 6:09pm On Sep 21, 2005 |
If Lizzy is actually serious, then I guess she's got to be checked (medically and spiritually). But seriously now, as u grow older Lizzy, u'll come to understand the fact that open marriage is arrant nonsense. It's not even worth calling a marriage. From what u are saying Lizzy, I think u feel marriage is all about sex!, sex!! and sex!!!. For God's sake, other things will have to be considered also. Afterall, you are going have children with ur husband definitely. How do u expect ur children to feel when they know about ur escapades? HOW DO YOU EVEN EXPECT GOD TO REACT TO SUCH? As far as I am concerned, sleeping with a man who is not ur husband is wrong. Pure Adultery! whether your husband approves it or not! As far as God is not in support of it, even when ur husband totally agrees with you, God will surely frown at such! |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by dablessed(f): 7:12pm On Sep 21, 2005 |
goodguy: True say goodguy! Well said. Lizzy, you amaze me atimes, just tell me you're kidding. You cant be serious that open marriage is sane. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by hotangel2(f): 7:31pm On Sep 21, 2005 |
I'm still tryna get it. I dont get why y'all up on me. Open marriage is good. Both of you will deffinitely take care of your kids. It's just that you'll test different patners. The finances, taking care of the home and kids will still be your job. You'll act as parents and as married couples do. just that you'll be free to try different patners without saying to yourselves "you cheated on me". |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by goodguy(m): 7:41pm On Sep 21, 2005 |
Seems to me all u are thinking for now is "the freedom to test other guys". But as I said earlier, as u grow older, u'll understand |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by Ka: 11:34pm On Sep 21, 2005 |
So marrying one's kin is legal in China? I never knew! No, it's not (and has never been) legal. I don't know how goodguy got hold of this information. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by Scorpio(f): 12:17am On Sep 22, 2005 |
D hell i won't! it's way better if we get a divorce than allowin some woman lay hands on my husband. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by hotangel2(f): 12:20am On Sep 22, 2005 |
Selfishness. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by Scorpio(f): 12:26am On Sep 22, 2005 |
This one is not a matter of selfishness, it's just about keepin wat's mine. I personally will not allow any other man lay hands on me, y shud my husband even conceive the idea of an open marriage? it's not healthy! |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by hotangel2(f): 12:28am On Sep 22, 2005 |
Who say's it's not healthy. Combining the "sex-ability" of every man together is sooooooooo healthy. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by Scorpio(f): 12:35am On Sep 22, 2005 |
To each his own, just play safe. as for me, there ain't no way i'm havin it. he's either bringin it home to me or i'm not havin it at all! i don't want to know about other guy's/men sexuality, if i wanted dat, i wouldn't have gotten married in the first place. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by angelak(f): 10:31am On Sep 22, 2005 |
This world is crazy! Guys why don't you admit that you will love your wives to practice closed marriage while you guys can secretly practice and enjoy the open marriage system. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by gina34(f): 3:08pm On Sep 22, 2005 |
Open marriage is no marriage. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by hotangel2(f): 4:18pm On Sep 22, 2005 |
Says you. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by sammykola: 9:32am On Sep 23, 2005 |
This is something serious. On personal view I would not indulge in such marriage. The african setting does not appreciate this and since I stayed my life in africa, the culture of africa has been in me. It is good for husbands who cannot keep their 'thing' zipped. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by jumfol(f): 11:30am On Sep 23, 2005 |
Marriage is honourable and bed undefiled that is what the bible says. Adultery is adultery, even if it is done with the consent of your spouse. You have broken the vows. Jumfol |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by lalaing: 11:40am On Sep 23, 2005 |
good luck 4 smith and his wife but 4 me it would not happen or i will kill u b4 u know it |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by whiteshark(m): 11:53am On Sep 23, 2005 |
I did some more digging and I think this gist is really true oh. http://www.realitytvworld.com/index/articles/story.php?s=1001905 |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by goodguy(m): 12:27pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
Ka:So I heard. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by angelgab: 1:50pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
in africa contex is a taboom,if both re not mad why must such take place when u r in love |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by FOD(m): 2:17pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
Seems we've gat enough religious guys in the house. On a serious note, it shouldn't be thought of, let alone practised. I would never welcome such a consideration. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by ace2ice(f): 3:30pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
Well....i think i like the idea tho. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by hotangel2(f): 4:26pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
That's the spirit Ace. There's totaly nothing wrong with it. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by vexxy(f): 5:02pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
I just don't get why one would marry if one was still interested in putting his/her hands in other's cookie jars. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by Seun(m): 5:09pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
To have legitimate kids? Tax benefits? More respect from the society? |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by hotangel2(f): 5:22pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
vexxy: One marries because you just wanna marry. Marriage isn't compulsory.. but it's advisable. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by vexxy(f): 5:24pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
Why would having legitimate kids be a reason? No one sees your lack of being married equalling illegitimate kids. Maybe back in the 40's but certainly not in these times. You may get tax benefits from being married but you'd spend your money on "the other person." How is that helpful? I hardly doubt that cheating on your wife "whether agreed to or not" can give you more respect in society. If anything it makes you look like a "double minded man" and you know that a double minded man is unstable in all of his ways. How can he be trusted? |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by vexxy(f): 5:27pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
hot-angel: People don't understand the gravity of marriage. They treat it like it's any other kind of on again, off again relationship which it's not. You should get married for a better reason than "Just because I want to." That's why so many marriages fail today. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by hotangel2(f): 5:36pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
Hmmm.. What can i say? You marry just because you want to say "i do" and have someone that's permanent beside you. |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by goodguy(m): 5:43pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
ace2ice: I thot Lizzy was the only sick person on nairaland |
Re: Like Will Smith, Would You Consider an Open Marriage? by vexxy(f): 6:32pm On Sep 23, 2005 |
You can have a permanet person beside you without getting married. Your parent's, for instance, will be permanently beside you. Your other family members, good (genuine) friends are just examples. Marriage goes far beyond just having a permanent buddy claimed by a ring. |
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