Surround yourself with good people. People who are going to be honest with you and look out for your best interests.
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Beware of abusive personalities who try to isolate you from family and friends and dominate your life. These control freaks are smooth talkers. They are convincing and persuasive Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hydes. They represent themselves one way publicly but behind closed doors ~they transform!! If you manage to escape them, they will beg and plead to get you back. They may even try to convince you that they will change or that they are sorry. It’s a lie. They will never really change. It’s just a ploy to get you back in their icy grip.

Life is too short to allow yourself to be abused mentally, emotionally or physically. These people are dangerous. The longer you stay with them
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