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Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by shudi(m): 1:30pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
One man food is another man's poison. I will be disappointed not to see this thread on FP soon! |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
Floodgater: Every girl is a wife material, it depends on what(type) you want. But every boy is not a husband material. Everyman is a husband material...depends on wat u want as a woman |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by perry2020(f): 5:21pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Shikin Perry perry so you are looking for an embodiment of all of that in one woman while you will be doing what if I may askAs I said earlier ppls taste n qualities and also expectation differs av got a high standard n des re what I look out for m nt enforcing it on any1 f u read t well u will c "to me""my opinion".diffrent strokes for different folks. It's just an overview to help the person asking the question and whoever is interested in learning.no1 is perfect and as I said earlier u would see traces of des qualities all u need to do is help him or her develop it.pik d one u feel is important and leave d rest for god. |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by perry2020(f): 5:26pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
Godmystrength: Na wa for you o . So you actually took that serious? I need no post on NL to know if he is a husband material or not.I no say u dey wine me now.me sef is kidding u. And about ur question plz write it in full m nt clear. |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Godmystrength: 5:31pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
perry2020:This is what you said perry2020:and this is my question Godmystrength: |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by priest2u(m): 5:37pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
snazzylove: One good way to start is to know the qualities of a non-wife material . For example the poster I quoted just display qualities most men don't want in wife 5 Likes |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by perry2020(f): 5:45pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
Godmystrength: This is what you saidNothing crioz now just dat a wife has to be mur responsible spiritually,economically psychologically,all round. She is responsible for her kids,her home,her husband (at tyms),wen tinz go wrong wif d kids the fingers re always pointed to d wives mostly than husbands. D husband's duty basically is to provide for the family and love them contribute to raising them in a godly way when he is available. U as a married woman don't u have mur responsibilities or duties than ur husband?. 2 Likes |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Godmystrength: 5:46pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
priest2u:then i guess her husband is not among most men then abi? |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Godmystrength: 5:49pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
perry2020:We both have our responsibilities and no one should be over burdened with endless responsibilities |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by priest2u(m): 5:52pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
Godmystrength: then i guess her husband is not among most men then abi?I guess so , most men don't like woman that talk back at them in such a manner whether they are right or wrong #FACT |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by perry2020(f): 6:02pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
Godmystrength: We both have our responsibilities and no one is over burdened with endless responsibilitiesHmmmm re u surecoz I read tru ur story on the counseling thread and shows ur a very supportive wife with responsibilities. |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Nobody: 6:27pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
Every girl is groomed to be a wife material and expected to be one by society. Thats why she's taught to cook, clean,give care etc from home. So the type of material she turns out depend majorly on her groomer and what she is groomed with. Only few boys are groomed to be husband material like provide, love and honour his wife, protect, be there always for family etc but all boys are 'groomed' to be head(that is he can get away with anything, seriously how many boys start their first duty of providing, etc from home). Thus all boys will either end up as the head or headache of the family but few, husband materials. msmon: 4 Likes |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Godmystrength: 6:51pm On Sep 04, 2014 |
perry2020:that i am supportive with responsibilities should not stop him from being same and that is why i am striving to strike a balance. my marriage is not a benchmark for an idea/perfect marriage. |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Haywhymido(m): 12:37am On Sep 05, 2014 |
aisha2: This is where we get into trouble, trying to box everyone into a corner and assume we all like and must have the same thing. No 2 people in this world have the same finger prints same way no 2 people are totally alike.pls where do u spring out 4rm U will make a gud counsellor.U r in d category of dose ladies i wanna marry, ladies dat can think intensively b4 dey talk or text as d case may be.whenever i come across ur comment here seriously u never disappoint.Ur husband to be will be very lucky to av u. 1 Like |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by snazzylove: 1:06am On Sep 05, 2014 |
priest2u:. Eyaaaa |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by raumdeuter: 1:07am On Sep 05, 2014 |
Floodgater: Every girl is groomed to be a wife material and expected to be one by society. Thats why she's taught to cook, clean,give care etc from home. So the type of material she turns out depend majorly on her groomer and what she is groomed with. Only few boys are groomed to be husband material like provide, love and honour his wife, protect, be there always for family etc but all boys are 'groomed' to be head(that is he can get away with anything, seriously how many boys start their first duty of providing, etc from home). Thus all boys will either end up as the head or headache of the family but few, husband materials. I disagree. In the traditional settings, while young girls are groomed to cook and care for babies, the boys are groomed for provision by going to farm or rear livestock. Farming they start out giving him little portions and later increase it. As he enters teenage and adulthood, the father delegates most of the duties to him including decision making at home In the modern family while the girls might still retain the cooking its actually getting blurred since the boys also learn to cook, if the car needs repairs or a spoilt electrical appliance, its the boys that are called mostly. If Generator needs to be fixed its the boys, any thing that involves physical strength most likely the boys would be called first By so doing both are groomed for responsibilities. 1 Like |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by raumdeuter: 1:11am On Sep 05, 2014 |
Wife material differs from person to person and this is evident from the various type of women who still end up marrying In general context it might mean a woman who is not extravagant, who would think of investment over flagrant wasteful spending, WHo would caution the man against such WHo can offer good advise and not just to nod in agreement and rubberstamp everything Who has a source of income that can sustain the family incase of rough time, WHo is upright and not a regular olosho in the street corner Who is respectful to family and elders. Who has a long term goal for her life and that of her family |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by msmon(m): 7:52am On Sep 05, 2014 |
shudi: One man food is another man's poison. Hi moderator, Please kindly move this thread to front page to enable contribute to this popular topic amongst youth. Thanks. |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by msmon(m): 7:55am On Sep 05, 2014 |
Haywhymido: pls where do u spring out 4rm U will make a gud counsellor.U r in d category of dose ladies i wanna marry, ladies dat can think intensively b4 dey talk or text as d case may be.whenever i come across ur comment here seriously u never disappoint.***Ur husband to be will be very lucky to av u***. Who tells you she isn't married yet? |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Godmystrength: 7:59am On Sep 05, 2014 |
Haywhymido: pls where do u spring out 4rm U will make a gud counsellor.U r in d category of dose ladies i wanna marry, ladies dat can think intensively b4 dey talk or text as d case may be.whenever i come across ur comment here seriously u never disappoint.Ur husband to be will be very lucky to av u.she is already taken. thanks for the compliment though |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Haywhymido(m): 8:13am On Sep 05, 2014 |
msmon:n how did u knw she is? Did u attend her wedding ceremony?well, i careless sha. Be it her husband or her husband to be, d dude will be lucky sha ..dazall |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
When you see a wife material you just know. |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by bosun11(m): 12:14pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
before asking that question...are you a husband material ?? |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Nobody: 12:14pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
A God-fearing and morally right one. #Shikena
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Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Lilimax(f): 12:15pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
iwakolewa: If you see her as the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with...then she is YOUR own wife material.So true! Simply because our priorities and values differs as individuals |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Nobody: 12:17pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
100percent cotton |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by rattlesnake(m): 12:19pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
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Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Ishilove: 12:20pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
perry2020:See this long list you typed. Are you a husband material?? |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by kika23(f): 12:20pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
True that.... 2 Likes
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Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Hello, Why you nigerians are scam? Why your mentality is scam? Regards 419.com |
Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by canalily(m): 12:21pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
....that lady that does not take time to make up like this.....and the daughter is very busy watching and learning....like this 1 Like
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Re: Which Lady Is a 'Wife Material'? by chibwike(m): 12:26pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
*yawns* |
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