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Dumping A Girl: Your Opinion? by mikeljims(m): 8:36am On Sep 04, 2014 |
Av seen lotta threads wia ladies are lamenting of being dumped. Don't you think the term "dumping" is a silly term basically heard from African/Nigerian Ladies coz it's hard to see or read a white girl whine about being dumped, she cud be hurt abt the relationship being over but not about having se*x with the guy. Or maybe there is a different meaning to the word "dumped" apart from what I thought it to be which is; having bedmatics with your girlfriend and skipping out of the relationship afterward. I think ladies get this feeling because they attach too much price and prestige to sex other than a mutual expression of your present desires. You 4*ck coz ur are hor*ny not becuz u need to do anybody a favor and I suppose you both enjoyed the feeling! So why get the Ill feeling when you are done and the guy is gone for one reason or the other...let unless you thought you are bedmaticing to keep em. Love is not se*x, More se*x wudn't secure ur relationship. So next time you get down with em, leave behind that old idea and try seeing it as a kind of exercise dat comes along with being in a relationship. U go to a Doc wen u are sick, A mechanic wen u aving car troubles, a BF wen u are hor*ny. no special attachment, wen your earlier Doctor is no more available, you move on to another hospital wit no ill feeling. I think the term "Dumping" is a sort of mind slavery!!! the less importance/prestige you attach to it, the less hurt you feel when it's over; this is the case with guys we rather enjoy the act and the orgas*m that follows than whine about the name and idea behind it. Ladies and Gentlemen what do you think? |
Re: Dumping A Girl: Your Opinion? by Emmafrancis: 8:43am On Sep 04, 2014 |
Two bottle of beer for u @OP |
Re: Dumping A Girl: Your Opinion? by Nobody: 8:51am On Sep 04, 2014 |
Ladies are not guys we are not the same in this aspect we are wired differently. There is a reason prostitutes get paid most times sex is hardly just fun for a woman so deal with it. 1 Like |
Re: Dumping A Girl: Your Opinion? by mikeljims(m): 9:04am On Sep 04, 2014 |
andromida: Ladies are not guys we are not the same in this aspect we are wired differently. There is a reason prostitutes get paid most times sex is hardly just fun for a woman so deal with it. And there is a reason sugarmummies pay boiz for sex! sex is I'm dealing with it ![]() |
Re: Dumping A Girl: Your Opinion? by Nobody: 9:10am On Sep 04, 2014 |
mikeljims: Yeah i said just fun most times for women there are always other reasons even if she does not know it.....yet. Sugarmummies you said right? Young and old men pay prostitutes and one way or the other sweet chics as well. Which hot young chic has to pay a man for sex? Yeah deal with it. |
Re: Dumping A Girl: Your Opinion? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
mikeljims: Well for me, first and foremost I don't like using the term "dump" after or before walking away from a relationship. Every relationship must not lead to sex but must be dictated by ur body languages/feelings for each other. F***king d hell out of each other doesn't really mean one party was USED because they both contributed by trussing each other in d process of reaching their respective peaks hence, I would say it was mutual.So it would be highly unfair for one party to think he or she was used and DUMPED. Note: This term could be accepted when one of d parties to d whole bedmatics/chops.com is a confirmed player. Then the other person has every reason to feel used if their initial purpose was to be together. I stand to be corrected. 1 Like |
Re: Dumping A Girl: Your Opinion? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
mikeljims: Funny enough these are the girls who take dumping seriously Its probably a heartbreak that brought about this post |
Re: Dumping A Girl: Your Opinion? by akwemose: 6:03pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
When someone says dey were dumped..i dont think that necessarily means sex...its nt alws the case....could be d aspect of d commitment,time etc u ve wasted bfr getn dumped...ma opinion tho |
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