3cycle: As a lady, sometimes I come across great post by a guy and I fall in love immediately. Most times I try to ignore the poster but I do Remember The username so I summon the courage to follow him and see if I can strike an online conversation before I send a pm but I never succeed.

Just yesterday a young tall guy on Nairaland from Enugu state gave me an all time blow when it was obvious I was trying to woo him, he started with iyanga and walah he ignored me completelyonly for somebody to call me names for making my intention known.
To make matters worst his response was "I don hang boot since last year"
Who says that to a lady bikonu

Do we really have gentlemen on Nairaland?
Can a guy reply pm's of a girl with an open mind?
What are the chances of starting an e romance if a lady were to be the innitiator?
Seun is it possible for us to chat with a nairalander without a third party involved?

LMAO

cantell: see congo!

RuudNisterooy: I think the latter part of your post happens to be the case.

I know that guy well, and he's one of those few i respect on here. He has a way with words, and most of his post resonates deeply with the kinda outlook I've 'bout life.

A guy who's been wooed by ladies before(not once, not twice) will not have that kinda feeling you talked 'bout in the former part of your post. So I believe it's strongly the latter. And @ such the OP is un4tunate sort of.

I believe she'll strike gold soonest tho, since all she wants is just 2 b happy! #4giveMyLongPost

Tallesty1: You say

I'll advice you not to rush into adulthood because it is not fun. It is churlish to speak ill of other people just to prove that you are better than them.

Tymax:
I had a good day. Stressful too, but productive.

Think we should exchange PM's? Not to derail this thread any further.

yehmi01: Dear NL members.

This is to formally inform you that this thread has yielded some positive feedback.

After going through the evidence before me and before this wonderful NL members inclusive of The OP

I am happy to announce the successful ............................ Of Mr Tymax and Ms Kika23.

Please all in favor of this ............................ Say I.

Oga Seun make una dey award ........................... Certificate for this Romance section ohh so people who are ............................... Can get an official backing.



What ever NL has joined to getther

Let no other social media Put Asunder.

Happy ...................... Life.

Sunshinelady: . Forgiven

Elantracey:


lol , I tell you

Tashamania: I'm sorry, why is this thread even on FP sef ? Is it normal for someone to sit down and think of having an e-romance and then say wooing a guy on NL is difficult?
Are you sure OP is okay?
See me commenting on the useless thread sef!
I'm pissed now!

yehmi01:

Please don't get this out of context madam.

Because one guy said No is not a solid reason to generalize all guys.

What if the guy we are talking about here is married. Do you want him to say yes.

Please your statement " blaa blaa blaa I would never be wooing a Nigerian guy! You can quote me" is so on called for.

If you like go and woo a Chinese man for all we care that's you kettle of fish.

Common Girls turn guys down every day and the world has not ended but because one guy turned down one girls naa for reasons best know to him all of us will not hear word again.

Please as I said go and woo Isis self naa you sabi.

Please some of us men are not after Beauty alone but ladies who are sound upstairs.

Adeyeancah: Jesu, you too gan sef pretty o o no be small@ MARIEOLAE

kika23:
Lol...... Alright then

nickz: OP you must be a comedian!!

UjSizzle:

That's where i disagree with you. The in love feeling is very weird. It could be for the way a person looks, speaks, their grooming, way they walk, voice, smile.... anything.

And you don't even need to see them to have feelings for them. Could be a trick of the mind, but the feelings are existent still.

Tallesty1: You say

I'll advice you not to rush into adulthood because it is not fun. It is churlish to speak ill of other people just to prove that you are better than them.

Ceasar1:

@ The emboldened - Do you realize you are taking about the physical part now? It's funny because you never said anything about letters or writing in accordance with the ish here.



See, I can fall in Love with a writer's emotion as perceived when reading but not with the writer itself because we are both strangers. Like the OP's case for example, she only ‘Love’ an outcrop of his personality say reasoning, but not him in whole because he's still a stranger. To ‘Love’ and ’to fall in Love’ are two different things, don't mix those two.

marieolae: she removed it darling

softsparkyy:
Hahahhahahahahah
Now this got me laughing.
How true?

olaxco2f: But why she removed am now?

goalburner:
very true ma'am

softsparkyy:
I will give it a trial.

softsparkyy:
I will give it a trial.

goalburner:
trial?
ar u kiddin

3cycle: As a lady, sometimes I come across great post by a guy and I fall in love immediately. Most times I try to ignore the poster but I do Remember The username so I summon the courage to follow him and see if I can strike an online conversation before I send a pm but I never succeed.

Just yesterday a young tall guy on Nairaland from Enugu state gave me an all time blow when it was obvious I was trying to woo him, he started with iyanga and walah he ignored me completelyonly for somebody to call me names for making my intention known.
To make matters worst his response was "I don hang boot since last year"
Who says that to a lady bikonu

Do we really have gentlemen on Nairaland?
Can a guy reply pm's of a girl with an open mind?
What are the chances of starting an e romance if a lady were to be the innitiator?
Seun is it possible for us to chat with a nairalander without a third party involved?

UjSizzle:
I'm pretty sure we are talking about falling in love and not loving. Love is a conscious act. Falling in love isn't. I could fall in love with a person and still not get around to loving them. I could love a person and still not get around to falling in love with them.
The OP fell in love with an out crop of his personality--reasoning, but doesn't love him as a whole.

Now you define it.