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Stopping Your Man From Cheating by femmefatale: 9:46pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Came across this on a blog: *Keeping a man faithful is not as difficult as it may appear at first. For starters, most of them want to be true to their spouses, but for that extra boost to ensure fidelity, try these steps. *Respect him as you would want him to respect you *Remind him from time to time why he's your man . In other words, take the time to make him feel special as if he's the only one in your life. Tell him how handsome he is every now and then. *Validate your man on a daily basis. Whether he works outside of the house, is currently unemployed or a stay-at- home Dad, (if you're married) your man still needs to feel like a man. You know he is, make sure he knows it as well. *Appreciate all the things he does for you . It doesn't matter whether those things are big or small, they are worth, at the least, a thank you. *Spice things up every once in a while. Tell him your fantasies, listen to his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance. Live, Love and Laugh. Laugh often with him, not at him. Tell him a joke that you think he might like or clip out comics from the newspaper and place them on the fridge, send text or e-mail messages. *Listen first, and then talk. Let him finish what he has to say before you interrupt. Ask questions if you're not sure about what he said. Do not go with the general notion; all women are nags. Make a difference. Listen more, talk less. *Be his biggest supporter! Men don't like to admit it, but they need reassurances as well. Showing him that you support him and are there with him through day to day struggles will help to ensure that he doesn't have a need for someone else to fill that need. *Don't lose your own self respect. Stop blaming him for everything and understand that some things are beyond your or his control. Feed him. Men love when a woman cooks for them like mum does. You don't have to cook exactly like her but, it's the action that counts. Women claim men are dogs but remember if you feed a dog he will never leave home!!! *Hold and Cuddle your man, his day can be just as bad as your day. Remember they are big kids and when they got upset when they were younger, mums held them close. *When leaving him alone make sure he has everything needed. Remember you are already dressed and ready to go and he is capable of getting those things. It also shows you care about his needs or wants as well. *Don't ever baby him. He will pull away from you. He needs to feel like he's the provider. If you're married, take the family budget to give him what he likes. It's the effort that counts. *Work on yourself. Learn to appear neat and appealing to tour man at all times. Take your time to get those kinky and sexy undies, night wears and dressing that will make him want you more. Remember, if a man has all he needs in a woman, he will never go looking for another. Be everything your man wants. Dear NLders, how true is this piece? Personally I believe, he who wanna cheat will cheat regardless of how hard u try to be d best in everything. 1 Like |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Crocz(m): 9:55pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Hmmm...like only you know how to do all those things pass,...you wanna stop a womaniser or cheater (can't see the difference thou), all you've gat to do as a lady is "EMPTY HIS BALLS"...cos sex does not interest a man with empty testicles....a wise woman once told her daughter: 5 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by ABIOLAXYZ(m): 9:59pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Nice article but there is just one thing I know,no one care can decide or stop a man from doing what he wish but if a lady throughly show him love and affection he will forever respect her feelings. 3 Likes |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by femmefatale: 10:08pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
ABIOLAXYZ: Nice article but there is just one thing I know,no one care can decide or stop a man from doing what he wish but if a lady throughly show him love and affection he will forever respect her feelings.My opinion exactly, no matter how best/hard a lady tries to keep her man, he still goes out dre 2 seek more satisfaction. Whn a guy wanna cheat, drez nothing d gf/wife does dat wil keep him frm doing so. Lailai. 4 Likes |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by femmefatale: 10:12pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
![]() ![]() Crocz: Hmmm...like only you knows how to do all those things pass,...you wanna stop a womaniser or cheater (can't see the difference thou), all you've gat to do as a lady is "EMPTY HIS BALLS"....a wise woman once told her daughter: |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Gman4real(m): 10:12pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
The truth remains that no man we like to keep eating one soup. At least if u eat egwusi small, u go try ogbono soup or banga soup. My people, no be so? |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by cocoberry(f): 10:37pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Men generally r polygamous in nature! I have made up my mind dat my man will definitely cheat, BUT......... make I no hear, make I no see, just chop clean mouth! As old as my father is, he's cheating on my mum not to talk of young, vibrant, sweet, handsome dude! Abeg make I hear word! 2 Likes |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by ABIOLAXYZ(m): 11:07pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
femmefatale: My opinion exactly, no matter how best/hard a lady tries to keep her man, he still goes out dre 2 seek more satisfaction. Whn a guy wanna cheat, drez nothing d gf/wife does dat wil keep him frm doing so. Lailai.True Talk 1 Like |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Ezibless: 11:13pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
#sighs. When i have my man,he wouldn't cheat on me 1 Like |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by clemigho(m): 11:54pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Gman4real: The truth remains that no man we like to keep eating one soup. At least if u eat egwusi small, u go try ogbono soup or banga soup. My people, no be so?Eating from 1 pot is healthier spiritually & physically than eating from numerous pots... Who tell u say 1 pot no fit prepare varieties of soups & delicacies for both s/he; dats y u need to spice-up ur relationship by being creative & innovative with lots of serving menus. cocoberry: Men generally r polygamous in nature! I have made up my mind dat my man will definitely cheat, BUT......... make I no hear, make I no see, just chop clean mouth! As old as my father is, he's cheating on my mum not to talk of young, vibrant, sweet, handsome dude! Abeg make I hear word!That is fallacy, not all men are polygamous. hmmm... can ur cheating hobby chop & clean mouth thoroughly without some of it staining u ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by femmefatale: 12:01am On Sep 06, 2014 |
clemigho:Hmm..... I seriously wanna blive dre r men who blive 1 pot can make dem varieties of meal. To be honest, av neva met such a guy either in my personal experience or even frm friend's experiences. |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Shaakasi(f): 12:13am On Sep 06, 2014 |
Ezibless: #sighs. Muhehehe in olamide's voice 'story for the gods' 99% of men cheat and its saddening rili ![]() |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by clemigho(m): 6:50am On Sep 06, 2014 |
femmefatale: Hmm..... I seriously wanna blive dre r men who blive 1 pot can make dem varieties of meal. To be honest, av neva met such a guy either in my personal experience or even frm friend's experiences.The fact dat u've not met such a man does not rule out their existence... dre r 1M +1 men dat r contended with eating 4rm 1 pot |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by clemigho(m): 6:56am On Sep 06, 2014 |
Shaakasi:did u say 99% ![]() tnx goodness dat we ve 1% of men dat do not cheat. So y can't d 1% be ur own ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by jnrbayano(m): 7:04am On Sep 06, 2014 |
clemigho: That's how they decide their fate with word of mouth, when it becomes reality, they start to run from pillar to post. 1 Like |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by jnrbayano(m): 7:07am On Sep 06, 2014 |
cocoberry: Men generally r polygamous in nature! I have made up my mind dat my man will definitely cheat, BUT......... make I no hear, make I no see, just chop clean mouth! As old as my father is, he's cheating on my mum not to talk of young, vibrant, sweet, handsome dude! Abeg make I hear word! You just fell my hand with this. How could you just wished yourself that? Who told you all men are promiscuous? Incredible! 1 Like |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by phlemzy: 7:15am On Sep 06, 2014 |
Shaakasi:Hmm..dats overblown. |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by femmefatale: 7:22am On Sep 06, 2014 |
clemigho:I am not ruling dir existence out, av just nt met dem yet. I wud, in fact, luv 2 av 1 of d few faithful guys available as my hussy sef. Yoruba wud say, orisa je n pe meji obirin ko si(in oda wrds, no lady wud b hapi 2 av her man shared wt her). Nd until I meet such guy, my opinion of men regardn dis stil stands. |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Houseofglam7(f): 7:26am On Sep 06, 2014 |
If he likes, let him cheat, if he likes, let him be faithful, he just shouldn't bring home no damn souvenirs...... like a baby, or Gonorrhea......else I may put a bullet through his cheating, two timing skull myself! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by askakim(m): 7:47am On Sep 06, 2014 |
@houseofglamour.. Are you kiding with this bullet tin? |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Ezibless: 8:01am On Sep 06, 2014 |
Shaakasi: I won't dispute that. The only thing is that the remaining 1% would be mine. Ah aff FAITH ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Shaakasi(f): 2:23pm On Sep 06, 2014 |
clemigho: Duuuhhhh Byeee |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by mapist(m): 11:36pm On Sep 07, 2014 |
cocoberry: Men generally r polygamous in nature! I have made up my mind dat my man will definitely cheat, BUT......... make I no hear, make I no see, just chop clean mouth! As old as my father is, he's cheating on my mum not to talk of young, vibrant, sweet, handsome dude! Abeg make I hear word! I v neva cheated and will NEVA do. |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by cocoberry(f): 11:41pm On Sep 07, 2014 |
Good for u! Keep it up, it will save u plenty stress. mapist: |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by mapist(m): 11:45pm On Sep 07, 2014 |
cocoberry: Good for u! Keep it up, it will save u plenty stress. Lol..been single for a while..tho,i v been cheated on but,i dont intend to revenge. |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by bigtalla(m): 2:54am On Sep 08, 2014 |
phlemzy: Hmm..dats overblown. if 99% PERCENT OF MEN CHEAT BUT 99% of ladies claim they are in a relationship, then QUESTION: Who (or what) are these 99% of men cheating with? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by roymary: 2:57am On Sep 08, 2014 |
Its no rocket science! Do not let a week pass you by without sucking this dck to expulsion ! ![]() |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by femmefatale: 5:54pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
mapist:Hmmm......tell me dat again. Why do I find dat hard 2 blive? Well mayb u r just starting. |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Nobody: 6:27pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
femmefatale: Came across this on a blog: yeah a cheat might actually not repent but i think this blog is actually on point tho ...if there is love,communication ,respect i don't see why it would be difficult to make a man love his woman more...cos i blv my wife should be my best friend,my paddy,my queen, my sister,my moms(sometimes),my babe,my pet(sometimes),my muse,my lover,my btch,my lady,my personal freak(for me alone or somebody dies from multiple gun shot wounds... truly speaking wetin man dey find again for woman....speaking for myself sha ![]() ![]() |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Nobody: 6:30pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
Ezibless: #sighs. Don't be tooo sure. BTW, you sounded like you've got something, maybe like hidden ropes, all ready to restrain him. ![]() |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by femmefatale: 7:26pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
runnazz:Easier said....wait till u r in d shoe nd let's see hw u wear it. |
Re: Stopping Your Man From Cheating by Nobody: 7:37pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
femmefatale: Easier said....wait till u r in d shoe nd let's see hw u wear it. blv me with those qualities i wouldn't need to cheat on my wife cos its going to be hard to when we are that close in almost every way...i know i'll wear the shoes just fine when i get there...but for now am still free to have all the fun while i can. |
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