1.It’s not your job – When a man likes you, it’s obvious…his ____ gets hard
2.It takes the FUN out of the GAME – Friends. Courtship. Dating…and so on and so forth. Know how to play. You can’t court him!
3.It makes you look easy breezy – When dating, no one wants to be LOW HANGING FRUIT or DESPERATE
4.I’m GOING to Bleep HER – Runs through his head…is that what you want? TO GET DISRESPECTED…
5.Don’t Turn Into Halle Berry – David Justice (Love Note), Eric Benet (Backstage Stalking), Gabriel Aubry (Rascist Rundown)
6.You’re too Good for that – Why would you have to pursue what’s falling at your feet and leaving a trail of tears…don’t settle for a man you have to Jock like Jay-Z
7.Better things to do – Like getting courted by people that LOVE & Deserve you More
8.Love don’t Hate – But don’t wait, if he’s not making moves…fill up your time with someone that is
9.Divine Order – If he’s not asking you out…there is a REAL Reason: Gay, Taken, STD…Come on now!
10.Finally: You Don’t Hit on Men, They hit on You – If a man likes you, loves you, and wants more of you…he will drink your bath water, move heaven and earth until angels sing…don’t hate the player hate the game

Stereotypically speaking....YES
But talking of 21st century world of ours.....whatever happens to "WHAT A MAN CAN DO" phrase?

We learn everyday

eemjay17: Stereotypically speaking....YES
But talking of 21st century world of ours.....whatever happens to "WHAT A MAN CAN DO" phrase?

i dont think it applies here......
oh

alow him to pursue you untill he creaps or else
na gold digger u go call am

3cycle: We learn everyday

what did you learn please teacher us
yes teach us lol

robosky02:

what did you learn please teacher us
yes teach us lol

10 reasons not to pursue any Guy
Abi no be the topic again?

ok youre welcome

eemjay17: Stereotypically speaking....YES
But talking of 21st century world of ours.....whatever happens to "WHAT A MAN CAN DO" phrase?

yea...I concur. When you like a guy-go for him. Who knows,he might be your Mr Right. Well the Op is right on some of the point he raised. But only an unreasonable man would disrespect a lady for expressing her feelings to him or try to take advantage of that.

Nobleval: yea...I concur. When you like a guy-go for him. Who knows,he might be your Mr Right. Well the Op is right on some of the point he raised. But only an unreasonable man would disrespect a lady for expressing her feelings to him or try to take advantage of that.

wow..........

KiV...

this is why there are so many single ladies out there. when a lady is 39 and unmarried, Im sure she'll still agree with you

hmmmmmmm
ok what do you do?
is there any way out for a lady

Baddestguyp: this is why there are so many single ladies out there. when a lady is 39 and unmarried, Im sure she'll still agree with you

you go like make woman dey pursue u o

adeowo84:

you go like make woman dey pursue u o

abi just they form make them they cluster around you lol

Nobleval: yea...I concur. When you like a guy-go for him. Who knows,he might be your Mr Right. Well the Op is right on some of the point he raised. But only an unreasonable man would disrespect a lady for expressing her feelings to him or try to take advantage of that.

The thing is, relationship these days is a child's play and the way we are wired(religion wise/society prejudice) is also not helping matters. It takes a well matured guy to actually accord the deserved respect to a lady that took the bold step to ask him out. More often than never,it will got into the guy head and he will start treating the lady like shit, knowing fully well that he has nothing to loose per se'. Afteral,he didn't sweat to get her.

I have been there....and it happens to be my best relationship so far,though we have to call it quite one way or the other because of situation beyond my control.

robosky02:

i dont think it applies here......
oh

alow him to pursue you untill he creaps or else
na gold digger u go call am

Very much applicable bro...a mature guy will play it well, if it happens that he is interested. Am not talking of an opportunist though. You know how some guy will use that opportunity to milk the lady if possible and leave her heart shattered at the end of the day.

Please see original article here:
http://www.poshglam.com/happydating-10-reasons-not-to-pursue-a-man/

Thanks.

ok pursur oh

robosky02:
1.It’s not your job – When a man likes you, it’s obvious…his ____ gets hard
2.It takes the FUN out of the GAME – Friends. Courtship. Dating…and so on and so forth. Know how to play. You can’t court him!
3.It makes you look easy breezy – When dating, no one wants to be LOW HANGING FRUIT or DESPERATE
4.I’m GOING to Bleep HER – Runs through his head…is that what you want? TO GET DISRESPECTED…
5.Don’t Turn Into Halle Berry – David Justice (Love Note), Eric Benet (Backstage Stalking), Gabriel Aubry (Rascist Rundown)
6.You’re too Good for that – Why would you have to pursue what’s falling at your feet and leaving a trail of tears…don’t settle for a man you have to Jock like Jay-Z
7.Better things to do – Like getting courted by people that LOVE & Deserve you More
8.Love don’t Hate – But don’t wait, if he’s not making moves…fill up your time with someone that is
9.Divine Order – If he’s not asking you out…there is a REAL Reason: Gay, Taken, STD…Come on now!
10.Finally: You Don’t Hit on Men, They hit on You – If a man likes you, loves you, and wants more of you…he will drink your bath water, move heaven and earth until angels sing…don’t hate the player hate the game

OP is a very imature person.

OP, tell that to underaged ladies. A single lady in 30s will curse you for
this

jhydebaba:
OP, tell that to underaged ladies. A single lady in 30s will curse you for no his

to be candid you only show in green light and let him traficate until he has space to park

robosky02:



to be candid you only show in green light and let him traficate until he has space to park

It's important for the man to pursue the lady, men take advantage of women that are easy or pursue them. A man must go after the woman and court her or take her for granted. Men take for granted what they have gotten too easily. A woman that pursues a man will never have the upper hand that's needed to keep that man and build a lasting relationship.