My lady is 18, and i am 6 years older than her, we love each other very much just like Romeo and Juliet. We had a discussion last night, she asked me if i love her very much. I told her that i do love her....buh of cos i do. She asked me to promise her that i am going to marry her, hmm...that was a question that i am supposed to ask her right? I was silent for a while, i didn't give her a reply. Then after some minute, i told her that I'll think about it. she then told me that i wasn't willing to have her as my wife...she cried for a moment, my heart could not bear to see her crying ...as it was heart-touching.

She is asthmatic and scared that she might lose me to another person as 'no one has ever loved and cared for her the way i do'...she says sometimes.
I asked her sometime ago that if i left her that would she go on with life and love someone else....guess what she told me,,she said i would only find out the next day that she drank poison. I was afraid that she might hurt herself because of me....hmm, I'm really confused now that i feel like am only doing her a favor being with her. I'd love to have her as my future wife but I reserve the right to propose marriage as a man. I do not want to feel like i am doing her a favor by taking her as my wife despite she is asthmatic as though i don't even consider that.

She ask me questions like...'What if something happened to her after after we got married, what of the stress of treatment Buh she asked me to promise her of marrying her, so i am damn confused...

She's 18 and you're 6 years older than her. Does this mean you're 24? Because I'm really worried.

yeah

Lov knws no boundaries, go ahead n marry her if u truely her.

Any gender can propose a marriage! But people are making it look like its A MUST for the male to propose

Let me ask you a question? Do you want to marry her?
If YES then it does not matter who propose to who
But if NO. Then there is a small problem

Why not if there is an understanding BTW both parties and u know that the man is mature enough to handle the proposal from the lady in question

Godswillu: Let me ask you a question? Do you want to marry her?
If YES then it does not matter who propose to who
But if NO. Then there is a small problem

Exactly as he said,

i usually say that 'only God knows tomorrow' and she'll just get angry

Blebleswag: Lov knws no boundaries, go ahead n marry her if u truly her.

.... If You truly Love Her.

Don't Thank me. Free Community Service.

Tell her to go to your father and ask for his permission first?

why would u expect an 18yrs old gal to propose to u? seriously

Guy the greatest concession you can make is that she's is kind of person you'd love to marry. Cos that's the truth (according to your Opening post)

Do not ask her to marry you until you're ready. No promises yet.

There's a difference.

kuyola: ...I'd love to have her as my future wife but I reserve the right to propose marriage as a man. I do not want to feel like i am doing her a favor by taking her as my wife despite she is asthmatic as though i don't even consider that.
She ask me questions like...'What if something happened to her after after we got married, what of the stress of treatment Buh she asked me to promise her of marrying her, so i am damn confused...

But this babe is just 18 years old. Why she dey carry marriage for head like this? Don't promise her o.

TrollMan:

.... If You truly Love Her.

Don't Thank me. Free Community Service.

No1 is perfect in anytin, buh tnx.

Blebleswag:
No1 is perfect in anytin, buh tnx.

You still went ahead and thank me?
Wow, you will make a good wife.

TrollMan:

You still went ahead and thank me?
Wow, you will make a good wife.

Ha! Nawo! Hw does dat make 1 a gud wife ni?

Hehehahahahehehehehahahahahahahahehehehe*laffs in hausa*

lirusehn:
I stopped reading when i read the first 5 lines.

Romeo and Juliet?? Who told yu she loves you?

Lmao.

Blebleswag:
Ha! Nawo! Hw does dat make 1 a gud wife ni?

Humility.
Or don't you've it?

TrollMan:

Humility.
Or don't you've it?

Yes I do.

lomaxx: She's 18 and you're 6 years older than her. Does this mean you're 24? Because I'm really worried.

Lomaxx pls can I get your guide to overseas training? johnsongreenspaceATyahooDOTcom Kindly include those texts, I especially need Browse.