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How To Put The Spice Back Into Your Romance. by waylee90: 3:18pm On Sep 11, 2014
Romance is literally like a drug, it's rapturous. During the beginning stages of falling for each other, the brain releases chemical compounds that make us feel so great that there are really no words to explain it.

However, in the same way a drug abuser builds up a tolerance after some time, that warm and fuzzy love feeling starts to change as well. Sooner or later, the sizzling fire of love begins to burn down to a scarcely glowing ember.
What happened to the spark? Where is the heat you experienced so clearly in the beginning? It's still there, you only need to stir the fire.

What should you do when the butterflies in your stomach stop fluttering? All couples get to a place where their romance begins to get "comfortable" and the fire starts to die down. While you might feel like you're caught in a rut, it does not have to be like that. Here are some solutions to get the fire back in your love life:

1. Talk with Each Other
For your relationship to do well, both of you must be in a position to open up to one another on every subject in your daily life.
Even when you can't readily fix a problem, you're displaying great courage by unveiling what's happening with your feelings and thoughts. It demonstrates faith.

One of the biggest culprits in destroying a partnership between two people is closing the door to communication. How are you going to fix an issue if you do not know what it is?



2. Show Appreciation
It is the little things in your life that mean a lot. Recognize and value each and every little thing you do for one another whether it is pressing his trousers or holding the door open for her. Show one another respect and courtesy exactly like you would for a friend or stranger.

3. Keep Each other Guessing
It's always exciting to put a bit of mystery in the mix. Astonish your sweet heart by showing them another aspect of your personality they didn't know was there. How fun is that? That may really kindle a fire...

4. Carefully Tease Your lover
Whether the two of you take a short respite to cause you to miss one another, or send hot texts all day long, it is a method of teasing (pre-intimacy) that will lead to a wonderful enchanting night.

5. Become spontaneous - Don't Be Self Conscious
Nothing will stoke the flames of love faster than letting your inhibitions go wild. Men love this. In reality, most guys desire an angel by day and a devil at night.Do not be scared to show him this side of you - you know, your inner Goddess? Let it out, he'll never be the same. Just be yourself.


Some Few Extra Tips :
Reminisce
Remember the old days when you could not keep your hands off one another? Talk about that memory and discover what happens. Sit down, talk, and laugh about the times you spent in the beginning. When you were first falling for each other. Do not forget why you fell for him in the first place. *covers face* This part is always so interesting o.

Never Stop Dating
Reserve a special night a few times a month for the both of you to do whatever you enjoy but without distractions from anyone. It can be as basic as sharing some together at a nice spot/restaurant or going to the a movie together depending on your pocket/budget because you don't necessarily have to spend a fortune before satisfying and making your partner happy- so long as you are together and having a great time.

Always Be Intimate on Every Single Level
Intimacy isn't just physical, it's emotional as well. A standard, hectic day is likely to drain the intimacy from life. Put it back, it is critical. Staying close to your partner emotionally is just as critical as engaging in a physical intimate encounter.

Keep your Connection
Slow your way of life down enough to look into your partner's eyes and say a genuine "I love you". Take the time to hug and kiss and show each other genuine attention. Just when was the last time you looked into your soulmate's eyes and told them just how much they mean to you?

These tips are going to bring you incredibly closer to the one you love and get the fire back into your romance. Perhaps you should try them?

Source : http://www.thatloveblog.com
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Re: How To Put The Spice Back Into Your Romance. by Nobody: 3:44pm On Sep 11, 2014
Did it worked for you? I wanna Know.

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