we all have been pressurized by friends in one way or the other to do things which we lack the courage to do under normal circumstance. sometime this peer pressure have make or mar us in one way or other by helping us overcome our fears and also make us to do something odd.
I am a guy of 25, a final year student and the director of external affairs and information SUG in one of the state polytechnic in southeast. in my first year in school i entered into a relationship with a girl who happen to be my first love, I loved her with every fibre of my being but the relationship lasted for about a year and about 7 months due to individual difference which is not my fault. Since then initiating a new one has been so difficult for me and this is 3 years now since disengage from my previous relationship, all the girls I have come across or which I have approach for relationship have always turn down my request and now all my friends both male and female friends especially my female friends keep making jest at me as not being man enouge to approach a lady for relationship or having a girl friend without knowing the effort I have made to find love. sometimes it make me feel am just unlucky when it come to relationship and am someone that have high taste for the finest thing I don't settle for less. Mind you am not searching to impress my friends.
My co-nairalanders what should I do. is it that am unlucky when it comes to relationship. One of the sweetest feeling in this life is to love and being loved.

Your future is at stake. That girlfriend you are gallantly looking for will not pay u salary in 5, 6yrs time

r u tryn to impres ur frends/peers or wat? luk concentrate on hw to be successful afta skull,make money n d rest wil be history.neva try to imprss any one in dis life, alwys do wat makes u happy. is gud to be a sucessful man at ur yong age n every one wl want to be wit u even dat ur gal dat left u.

#ayamtalkingfromexperience#

boy friend i fell your pain buh the truth is that we all have our moments. Am just a man of few words so lets go head on to my take on this:
1. Step up ur game
2. Try letting thoughts of ur ex outa ur system
3. Vibrate the right positive thoughts to the wold: what i mean is, as we all know dat we live in a world governd by our thought. So always learn to send out the right signal because it's lyk a gabage in gabage out tin.
4. Always try wearing a smile and be a little nicer dan u fink u were
5. Stop seeing urself lyk dat one unlucky guy buh every woman dream man
6. Try wooing those ladies who talk slick about you who knows they it might be sayin" i love you buh your too dump 2 see it"

thanks dear. @ samear