Good morning Nairalander, can someone marry a lover u have been dating for few years and not really from your tribe,
considering religious and cultural implications. Let us discuss merits and demerits of this union.

Bakersfield: Good morning Nairalander, can someone marry a lover u have been dating for few years and not really from your tribe,
considering religious and cultural implications. Let us discuss merits and demerits of this union.

I'm not a tribal person but I'm definitely religious.

First of all it depends on the individual and his/her family problems(called it problem cos tis one definitely)...
I as a person don't believe all this shld be criteria for marriage except the religion aspect, cos I dnt wanna start having issue with my wife as to why she must convert to christianity, dnt have tym trying to convert someone who refuse to convert during dating and courtship...
But as for tribal shiii, I think that shouldn't be any issue at all, I can marry anyone I wish to cos my family aint against my decision at all. But if u re frm a family or places which kick against it, I think u shldnt try it for any reason or else ur village juju go pursue u wherever u go... Aint notin like family support during marriage #myopinion

Along as she's a christian, yeah

No crime in that.

I really don't care about tribe but I hold religion very strong.

Am married with kids from a different tribe,though we are both Christians,no regrets so far bro.The problems with non-tribal marriages are basically religious issues,aside that,tis the best.

FrankySnow: I really don't care about tribe but I hold religion very strong.

cinderellla:
I'm not a tribal person but I'm definitely religious.

Maybe you both should go into monastery.
Especially you franky..

FrankySnow: I really don't care about tribe but I hold religion very strong.

Like your submission, but educate us more on the religious aspect to enable young lovers to learn how to tolerate each other.
From my personal experience, I am from South West (Yoruba) and my wife from the South East Imo-State (Igbo) to be precise. We both had two boys and two girls from marriage spanning 20 years now. She is a Catholic and I attend a pentecostal church.
We lived happily together and the relationship is based on trust and mutual respect for each other. Today, my wife is a friend, mother, hard working woman, and a reliable and trustworthy adviser to me.

TrollMan:




Maybe you both should go into monastery.
Especially you franky..

Why did you say especially me?

Have we met before

Bakersfield:

Like your submission, but educate us more on the religious aspect to enable young lovers to learn how to tolerate each other.

For me I can marry a man from any tribe but can't marry a non christian. I will marry a Christian and preferably a man who shares my faith (catholic)......

FrankySnow: Why did you say especially me?

Have we met before

Yea, I've meet so many Frankys.
You could possibly be one of them, I don't know.

FrankySnow: Why did you say especially me?

Have we met before

please ask him again

TrollMan:

Yea, I've meet so many Frankys.
You could possibly be one of them, I don't know.

This one wey you say especially me I hope no problem

KiddaBlingzz: please ask him again

Don't care if ye Chinese, Mayan, Brit, Indian any of them fuckin tribe in the 7 continents, down to the north pole. If you gat it we definitely nookin up.

FrankySnow:

This one wey you say especially me I hope no problem

No, no problem.
Is that kindda guy your body guard?
He looks really pissed.

Bakersfield:

Like your submission, but educate us more on the religious aspect to enable young lovers to learn how to tolerate each other.
From my personal experience, I am from South West (Yoruba) and my wife from the South East Imo-State (Igbo) to be precise. We both had two boys and two girls from marriage spanning 20 years now. She is a Catholic and I attend a pentecostal church.
We lived happily together and the relationship is based on trust and mutual respect for each other. Today, my wife is a friend, mother, hard working woman, and a reliable and trustworthy adviser to me.

Like I said before I can marry a man from any tribe but can't marry a non Christian. I can marry a christian from any church but would preferred a man who shares my faith (Catholic) reason being that I would not want a case where by problem will arise as a result of our different churches and all.

Normally when a man marries a woman she moves from her Church to his church (please quote me wrong if I'm wrong), except the man allows her to continue her church just like you did Sir.

Marriage I believe is all about maturity, trust, respect (mutual respect) and understanding. Just like you sir, both you and your wife understand each other and till date your love is still standing strong in respective of your different churches from what you posted.

Hmmm, me dey admire your marriage o and I pray for something better. Na happy home all of us dey find.



BTW you should be educating me and not the other way round sir.

TrollMan:

No, no problem.
Is that kindda guy your body guard?
He looks really pissed.

Lol. He is not pissed and he is not my body guard.

You can contact him and kelvinGraphics for tips on woman weappering on nl, they are good at it.

FrankySnow: Like I said before I can marry a man from any tribe but can't marry a non Christian. I can marry a christian from any church but would preferred a man who shares my faith (Catholic) reason being that I would not want a case where by problem will arise as a result of our different churches and all.

Normally when a man marries a woman she moves from her Church to his church (please quote me wrong if I'm wrong), except the man allows her to continue her church just like you did Sir.

Marriage I believe is all about maturity, trust, respect (mutual respect) and understanding. Just like you sir, both you and your wife understand each other and till date your love is still standing strong in respective of your different churches from what you posted.

Hmmm, me dey admire your marriage o and I pray for something better. Na happy home all of us dey find.

Good submission. But you need to look before you leap. There are no core values in the society again and most people go into relationship out of pity without a clearcut positive attitude and agenda. My advice to you is to set a standard for yourself. I know ladies and women are ruled by emotions not logic most of the time. Draw a scale of preference and retreat if not working.
(TACTICAL WITHDRAWAL).
Love, trust, mutual respect and understanding is the bedrock of any relationship from time immemorial.
I strongly suggest or advice you marry your BEST FRIEND to make your relationship STRESS FREE. Good luck

Bakersfield:

Good submission. But you need to look before you leap. There are no core values in the society again and most people go into relationship out of pity without a clearcut positive attitude and agenda. My advice to you is to set a standard for yourself. I know ladies and women are ruled by emotions not logic most of the time. Draw a scale of preference and retreat if not working.
(TACTICAL WITHDRAWAL).
Love, trust, mutual respect and understanding is the bedrock of any relationship from time immemorial.
I strongly suggest or advice you marry your BEST FRIEND to make your relationship STRESS FREE. Good luck

Thank you sir. You just gave me a present.

Bakersfield: Good morning Nairalander, can someone marry a lover u have been dating for few years and not really from your tribe,
considering religious and cultural implications. Let us discuss merits and demerits of this union.

tell us your story and allow the councilors handle your case...

I can marry a christian, pagan (traditionalist) and a Muslim as long both of love and understands ourselves

MissBritney: No crime in that.

Are you very sure of what u are saying or u are the type that at end tale end of the young man's expectation words like baby am sorry my parents saywe can't marry that they want me to marry from my religion

Me no fit cross river niger ooo.

I no get that beans to risk my papa n mama they go long distance, cross niger bridge say na lover I dey go marry..

Cooler to stick to your Own kind abeg.

I don't care much about religion just don't carry it for head.

Once you they reason rational/logical then no problem.

i can marry from any tribe(my gal is from delta self) but i cant marry a non-christian...NEVER!

FrankySnow:
You can contact him and kelvi.nGraphics for tips on woman weappering on nl, they are good at it.

I know you are proud of them but I'm not anything like them Mz... so I prefer we leave it at that. I can be very irritating.

BTW, Do you derive any Joy in back tracking.

TrollMan:

I know you are proud of them but I'm not anything like them Mz... so I prefer we leave it at that. I can be very irritating.

BTW, Do you derive any Joy in back tracking.

I just told you all they are good at that's all abi na bad thing I do?

FrankySnow: I just told you all they are good at that's all abi na bad thing I do?

Honestly, I don't remember asking you where/how to get tips on woman wrappering.

You decided to extend the courtesy of telling me that.
Why should you do that? Unless perhaps I'm doing a bad Job.

TrollMan:

Honestly, I don't remember asking you where/how to get tips on woman wrappering.

You decided to extend the courtesy of telling me that.
Why should you do that? Unless perhaps I'm doing a bad Job.

I did that because you asked if he was my gate man, I answered you simply and told you what he does and what's the crime in that? nor be you ask ni?

Oya sorry I told you what he is good at is that OK? please let it slide.

thank you.

There's obviously nothing wrong with intertribal marraige except individual sentiments and opinions which is to each his own.