youngwarlocks: while my younger sister keeps receiving guides on sex from my mother, my father didnt tell me any b4 he gave up d ghost...... I just want to knw why fathers dont tell deir sons anytin abt sex. ls it dat it is not neccessary?, fathers, ur views ar very important here..

bennyrazz: Did forefathers teach their sons how to have sex with a woman? no! the only sëx lesson you can get on sèx as a man is from your friends or close colleagues who also got the same lesson from a colleague or a book on it. The whole thing of sèx to a man is allowing your instincts take over when you see a full naked woman on a couch or a bed. Some men will tell you they learnt the whole idea of sex from a girl somewhere or from one crazy aunty or love peddler? the only sex lesson I learnt from my father is "Ben, if you impregnate a girl, just be ready to pack out of my house because the way I see girls flocking around you is not good" my father yells this everyday when I was just 15. I never knew what real condoms were like but one thing I remember was burning my dad's condom stash and my Dad started asking everyone in the house, who took my rubber, who took my rubber? when we ask him to describe the rubber, he just goes mute.

coogar:

duh....because you cannot be impregnated! boys are safe, girls are the endangered species.

cococandy: But they can still get saddled with the upkeep of a baby they don't want.
If my husband doesn't sex educate our boys,I'll do that myself.

thorpido: The 10 footballers on a field can wander around the field but the goalkeeper can't really do that and always must watch the goalpost.
The burden of pregnancy on a teenage girl far outweighs that on a teenage boy.Nevertheless,boys ought to be taught to so they don't mess up some young girl's life.

carefreewannabe:

What about STDs??

Are boys immune?

thorpido: Yea STDs too.More men are presenting with low sperm count so boys have responsibilities too.

carefreewannabe:

Low sperm count is not the only issue.

STDs can kill or leave a person with lasting and serious health issues.

TV01:

Here too; women are more readily infected than men and the consequences typically more far reaching. Nature hasn't cottoned on to notions of equality just yet.


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carefreewannabe: It's true that women are at a higher risk because they can get infected more easily but that does not mean that the risk for men is low and it also does not mean that they are immune.

TV01:
No one has asserted anything you are refuting here and the point you affirm has already been stated.

So simply put; if it's a pregnancy, females are typically left holding the baby, if it's disease, women are more at risk. Hence the inordinate emphasis placed on educating and protecting daughters. We should of course equally educate our sons.

Happy?

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carefreewannabe:

Low sperm count is not the only issue.

STDs can kill or leave a person with lasting and serious health issues.