kepal99: Naija aint easy, d streets aint funny buh seriously U want an angel as a gf U shld be ready to make her look and feel like an angel always. Buh d girls make una still try understand o

on point bro

gede7744: op l like u. u are too factual.

but have u considered d fact that some ladies/women are created to be richer than their husbands/ (or in ur case bf)

if u are born to be richer than ur husband and u refuse to maximize ur potential all because u believed that men are born to be a sole provider u are cheating on urself and u will definitely be miserable


my advice- maximize ur potential. don't wait for any man to complete u. be a complete entity. any other jara is appreciated

shalom

No one was born to be rich. We all ave d same 24 hrs. Work hard for ur money. Don't belive in alredy planned destiny before birth

This is the major cause of divorce in our society today. All the ladies i have dated never for once demanded anything from me, they werevery supportive, caring and always proud of me, despite the fact i have nothing to offer, today i thank God for them, their encouragement as really lifted me to be successful in life. I will affirmably say it is irresponsible ladies that date or marry a guy because of his money. Guys wise up, go for ladies interested in your potentials not the so called WHORES.

dablazor: I have a friend, back in the day this brother is f***cking broke, he is really broke, he started dating this new lady around 2011, and things just changed for him, he got a lucrative job, next thing he got a nice ride.. he owe it all to his gf, they got married last year, when he talks about his wife? u would wanna dump ur gf without thinking bout it.
Girls need to know, if he aint all set, u bn set should make him set. he is a man and ur his woman, make him if he aint made, and if u cant do that, then lay single waiting for the seasonal senator to f**ck u and leave u alone every night to be with his own family, nothing good comes easy.

Nice story. I love your story. Remember op is still with her boyfriend of 3yrs and no where in her post did she advice a girl not to date a broke guy. Honestly if you asked that woman her experience of dating that her husband when he was broke she if she is sincere she will tell you that it wasn't easy.
I have dated a broke guy myself and my dear it wasn't easy at all. Imagine taking a walk with your boyfriend and a car pull over in front of you guys to toast you thinking he is your brother. You trying to give your boyfriend help or money he will bluntly refuse because he wanted to be the man, Him being insecure all the time afraid you are going to leave him for a better guy, lying most times to save face, then the most annoying one is his sisters beefing you thinking you are eating their brother's money simple because you look good. Imagine a scenario where a boyfriend broke her babe's phone simply because it was a gift from a friend.

I hate broke PROUD guys.

Ilovenigeria:
It's not about sense of entitlement its about reality and fact. Go back to my post and this time read very carefully then you will realise I wasn't referring to only boyfriend/girlfriend relationship alone.

Having a broke and LAZY guy as a brother can be frustrating talk more of a boyfriend or husband .

who said anything about lazy here. you aren't looking for a hard working guy; you are all searching for a rich dude. to you broke=lazy. but in reality not all broke guys are lazy.
my main point however is what is your contribution in the relationships you've been in?

Gooci:

i like this question...........

this is why I said I won't talk to any woman until am financially okay. I hate to be insulted. Gilrs of this days can't put up with you if u ain't financially strong. Believ me, that gilr will leave that boy for another rich guy when he comes. That's our values system here. There is no love in Nigeria without money. Why should a girl put the happines of their friends first before yours? Instead of you to stand up and help your man to get it (money ) all, you are there talking what I don't know. So broke guys don't deserve to be loved right? God help us all.

Poverty is a disease. NL guys need 2 change their mentality

OlamiB:
Who is this one? That ur gf is dating Ɣ☺u for money doesn't mean every girl is like her ok? I have been with my bf for close to 3years now nd I haven't spent his 10k, if the relationship is based on money, I would have left even before the first 3months.

babe, abeg just tell yourself the truth. ..the relationship don tire, u re just looking for an escape route.....mind, dont expect to reap where u didn't sow in the future. ..

OlamiB:
Who is this one? That ur gf is dating Ɣ☺u for money doesn't mean every girl is like her ok? I have been with my bf for close to 3years now nd I haven't spent his 10k, if the relationship is based on money, I would have left even before the first 3months.

girl,dont mind these guys. I can understand you. God will provide for you and your bf. Stay with him and u should both work hard.

Ilovenigeria:
Nice story. I love your story. Remember op is still with her boyfriend of 3yrs and no where in her post did she advice a girl not to date a broke guy. Honestly if you asked that woman her experience of dating that her husband when he was broke she if she is sincere she will tell you that it wasn't easy.
I have dated a broke guy myself and my dear it wasn't easy at all. Imagine taking a walk with your boyfriend and a car pull over in front of you guys to toast you thinking he is your brother. You trying to give your boyfriend help or money he will bluntly refuse because he wanted to be the man, Him being insecure all the time afraid you are going to leave him for a better guy, lying most times to save face, then the most annoying one is his sisters beefing you thinking you are eating their brother's money simple because you look good. Imagine a scenario where a boyfriend broke her babe's phone simply because it was a gift from a friend.

I hate broke PROUD guys.

broke or not broke. ....rich guys can also be very insecured, nature will always take care of itself

keyzid:
That's bullshit ma'am. When he knew he ain't gonna takup responsibilities, why did he get married to her? BTW, I hate guys like that. . I'm this type of guy that don't consider spending for your gf a necessary act. She has her parents. Lemme pay her bridal price and get her from her parents. Then, I will start spending on her. Incase she wants a divorce in the long run, I will be justified to get all my wasted money on her back. Shikeynah.

Choiii sharp wicked boy!

But are you telling me that all these irresponsible men started it all of a sudden? I have seen men ignore their immediate and extended family
Anyway I am a girl that likes spending on anybody. girlfriends, boyfriends, friends of friends, family infact anybody around me.
If you are my boyfriend and dont wanna spend on me fine but aleast show me you care about me and people around you. At least when we are finally married people won't accuse me chopping your money alone.

ugwum007:

broke or not broke. ....rich guys can also be very insecured, nature will always take care of itself

At least you understand my point.

ugwum007:

babe, abeg just tell yourself the truth. ..the relationship don tire, u re just looking for an escape route.....mind, dont expect to reap where u didn't sow in the future. ..

Three good years and she hasn't tried already?
And who told you she is tired cos I didn't see that anywhere in her post.

OlamiB:
Tnk u

hmm!

over-dependency syndrome is a cankerworm which has regrettebly, continued to eat deep into the fabrics of the female gender.

Whilst I am in no way downplaying the importance of having a financially dependable man in any relationship, any girl/lady/woman in this century who relies squarely on her partner as a potential means to financial cum social empowerment, is to say the least, perpetually improverished.

The OP is undoubtedly a classical example of the pitiable life expectancy of most Nigerian ladies: graduate from any institution, of any course of study, with any grade, get married to a rich/made man, have children, have grand-children, and possibly great-grand children, then die happily.

Givemejoy: Shut up! why is Kim Kardashian with Kanye West, Beyonce with Jay-z and others..... Women like money, did I say like? Love money., which serves as a security for them.

u re one of the bad grapes in our society today.

Arsenate: who said anything about lazy here. you aren't looking for a hard working guy; you are all searching for a rich dude. to you broke=lazy. but in reality not all broke guys are lazy.
my main point however is what is your contribution in the relationships you've been in?

Normally I would have ignored you but let me just tell you this...IF YOU GUYS THINK THAT LADIES HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER IN A RELATIONSHIP THEN YOU GUYS SHOULD PLEASE STOP GOING AFTER THEM.
That your girlfriend contributed nothing except her pussey does not mean that all girls are same.

Ilovenigeria:
Three good years and she hasn't tried already?
And who told you she is tired cos I didn't see that anywhere in her post.

u won't see it.....u all re looking through d same window so will see d same thing

striktlymi: Aren't you a broke girlfriend?

This made me laugh.
Oldboy you wicked o-o.

Tomjazzy2:

Whilst I am in no way downplaying the importance of having a financially dependable man in any relationship, any girl/lady/woman in this century who relies squarely on her partner as a potential means to financial cum social empowerment, is to say the least, perpetually improverished.

The OP is undoubtedly a classical example of the pitiable life expectancy of most Nigerian ladies: graduate from any institution, of any course of study, with any grade, get married to a rich/made man, have children, have grand-children, and possibly great-grand children, then die happily.

What a wonderful way to life and die happily wowwwww.

U are emphasizing dt u luv ur bf n u r not dating him cos of moni buh wah u jxt did shows u dnt luv him n u r seeing his brokeness as an issue whch ur words shows u r nt contented wit a bit...wat angered me most is sayin its sad wn ur bf cnt get ur frnds stuffs,is ur man workin cos of ur frnds...y wuld u tel him 2 gt dm gifts ,dm dy wed?ptchewwww...u had beta strt thinkin of hw to gt urslf good houses n cars in future...

ugwum007:

u won't see it.....u all re looking through d same window so will see d same thing

I guess you are looking through the door.

.

segend:



guy, pity the op na. lol..........imagine her complaining about 500 naira, should she even be dating

the OP is even worst than broke....N500 is ur problem

loswhite: are your friends not enjoying the bleeping? Are your friends taking care of the thing dat does the bleeping? If no, y then do you expect the bleeper to take care of the bleeped

This guy is crazy! LOL

Ilovenigeria:
I guess you are looking through the door.

lol......something like that

Tomjazzy2: over-dependency syndrome is a cankerworm which has regrettebly, continued to eat deep into the fabrics of the female gender.

Whilst I am in no way downplaying the importance of having a financially dependable man in any relationship, any girl/lady/woman in this century who relies squarely on her partner as a potential means to financial cum social empowerment, is to say the least, perpetually improverished.

The OP is undoubtedly a classical example of the pitiable life expectancy of most Nigerian ladies: graduate from any institution, of any course of study, with any grade, get married to a rich/made man, have children, have grand-children, and possibly great-grand children, then die happily.

You guys are accusing this poster wrongly
She has a good heart, she only shared her mind. She is still staying with the scarcity of money, she was only wishing that he can improve for his own good too and for them to look good and comfortable. We humans all like good things, the way the Kardashians moved from loving rich black basketballers to rich black musicians right now, the rich footballers may be the next target. lol.
The funny thing about good hearted ladies like these is that they are left with the poor guys while the sharp ones that really love their men rich gets away with the wealthy men. Love is funny sha.

Ilovenigeria:
Choiii sharp wicked boy!

But are you telling me that all these irresponsible men started it all of a sudden? I have seen men ignore their immediate and extended family
Anyway I am a girl that likes spending on anybody. girlfriends, boyfriends, friends of friends, family infact anybody around me.
If you are my boyfriend and dont wanna spend on me fine but aleast show me you care about me and people around you. At least when we are finally married people won't accuse me chopping your money alone.

Lol. You're right though. And to be sincere, if a guy is broke, he shouldn't lack caring and being ambitous. Everything must go hand in hand. + Your bf must be lucky on those worlds I bolded.

ugwum007:

broke or not broke. ....rich guys can also be very insecured, nature will always take care of itself

Yeah you are right. but only the rich one can ask you " what is that boy even giving to you that I can't offer you?" a broke guy can never ask you that.

The day my broke boyfriend asked me that question both of us ended up laughing He was a great guy by the way.

OlamiB:
Who is this one? That ur gf is dating Ɣ☺u for money doesn't mean every girl is like her ok? I have been with my bf for close to 3years now nd I haven't spent his 10k, if the relationship is based on money, I would have left even before the first 3months.

. Y u come dey complain in d 1st place. U just dey contradict ur-self. Send me a PM,lemme spoil u with money,provided u are good on bed.

segend:

Guy, she is not worth your time, just let her be. Have gone through her posts also, i could only smh.

even without checking out the LovePeddler claiming to be someone's lovely gf, her post is just a mirror of herself......her kind have nothing to contribute to our society. ..d bad grapes

Ilovenigeria:
Yeah you are right. but only the rich one can ask you " what is that boy even giving to you that I can't offer you?" a broke guy can never ask you that.

The day my broke boyfriend asked me that question both of us ended up laughing He was a great guy by the way.

this is the only sensible thing u ve wrote today