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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by destante(f): 7:17pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
dapsy4u2: . Then can we meet at the cornercorner kor, angle ni |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Saecula: 7:19pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
moonraker: Guy you are spewing gibberish by saying that the opinion of friends dont matter. So if you are Igbo, you mean you can easily marry a northerner if your family and relations are against it by saying 'that their opinions don't count'? The poster equally made it clear that ordinarily she wouldn't mind but that the feeling is not slick. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Britzdon(m): 7:22pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
OlamiB:easy nah...why must u open im nyash for public? manage him and stop complaining |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Saecula: 7:34pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
tattystv:your case is not the rule but an exception. Its akin to citing Bill gates as one othe drop outs that made it. What about the innumerable drop outs who never made it? Yes you made it ultimately and were also gracious enough to remember the woman in your life when it was bad. What about those who stuck with their bfs and they later didn't make it. Or whose bfs later made it and dumped them? Or are you citing your case as the ideal one. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Sanguine(f): 7:38pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Honestly OlamiB, if I knew your so called boyfriend, I'd have called him to come read this crap...and let's see if you guys would continue dating... sheybi na ordinary #100 dey make una fight. Yeye dey smell! |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Saecula: 7:44pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
FLYGERIAN91: i particularly know of a lady who broke up with her fince because he was broke and settled for a wealthy guy.... A few years later when she was married to the wealthier guy, she usually saw her husband home at 5pm or 6 depending on when he finnished work but on a particular day, he was working really late and the lady got worried and decided to go check her husbands place of work to knw what kept him. On getting there, she walked into the company's premises, called her husband on phone and he asked her to come into his office..... On getting into the reception area, on the wall were three picture which were that of the president of nigeria, that of the delta state governor and in the middle, was the picture of the broke fiance she left because of his financial status. On seeing this, she went to her husbands office and asked who owned the company and he called the name of her ex fiance who she dumped because she couldnt be by his side in his most trying times....... now, the wealthy man she married was a Personal assistant to her broke fiance all thanks to the business he was saving up for while they were dating.... He started by selling palm oil on small scale which barely brought him any gains but gradually his hustle expanded and kept expanding until he moved into oil and gas..... She could do nothing but weep for not standing by him in his times of trial..... This is pure balderdash. Very phoney and puerile. Why use an exception as the rule. What about broke guys that were dumped and they never made it but wallowed in abject poverty? Or is it only those that later became tycoons that you saw? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Enahi(f): 7:45pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Jenams: u r nt married to him hence ur nt his responsibility! Ur parents shud be blamed for ur pitiably poor predicament! get a job n take ur mind off his salary, is he workin for u? #nonsenseAre you sure you are ok or you probably have to read my comment again. Don't quote me again,don't have time to be part of your nonsense. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Enahi(f): 7:48pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Vessi:You must be sick in the head, don't quote me again dickhead. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by dapsy4u2(m): 7:50pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
destante: corner kor, angle ni. In d corner lies an unread notification. Let's know what angle to approach it from...... |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by UnimkeAk(m): 8:01pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
All I hv 2 say is: This likes that you pple are sharing on this thread.. THE IS GOD OH! |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by charlesng: 8:02pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
BROKE MEN IN THE HOUSE SHOWING THEIR COLOURS.... 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by destante(f): 8:03pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
dapsy4u2: . In d corner lies an unread notification. Let's know what angle to approach it from......nice word play I guess |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Enahi: You must be sick in the head, don't quote me again dickhead.Take it easy We realize truth hurts. Wretched poor wh0re
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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by delishpot: 8:06pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Krak: So ladies cant work for themselves and make money again. Why must you always depend fully on your boyfriends or husbands? Biko no vex o, did your mom take care of herself while married to your dad? No be insult o, na just question based on your comment. The last time I checked, husbands provided for their families including wives( unless he was broke and cant afford to care for his wife) and had the respect accorded to bread winners. Hian, I wonder where society is leading us o when husbands now believe that they owe their families no financial responsibility. Anyway, when most boys grow into men, this opinion will change. Biko ladies, if your broke bf isnt treating you right, if he is too demanding and has a noose around your neck take a break from him. Get your head examined by you and ask yourself what you really want. Bf diff from husby o. A demanding bf will be 100 times worse after the wedding. Dont let people tell you otherwise. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by cyzor(f): 8:07pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
No lady here has talked about insecurity. Broke guys are so insecure. Talking with them makes u feel like ur walking on egg shells, u have to watch ur every word else they would think ur insulting them. Its soooo stressful. I'm still I'm d rship cos I still love d guy and worse is dat I really don't no why I love him still. OP is right, I would like to marry d guy but I can't marry him broke. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by dapsy4u2(m): 8:08pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
destante: nice word play I guessword play ke? Just check am jor and do the needful |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by amosdrizzy: 8:08pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
valdes00: What's the similarity btw this type of girls n prostitutes? some girls/b*tches are gold DIGGER |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by lovelyronke20(f): 8:12pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Am sure are u that he really is broke, you don't know if he has money but he his spending it on someone else.. Just saying.. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by andyanders: 8:49pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
In fact ladies, must you guls be dependent on a guy for something?A stingy person is a stingy person be he rich or poor. I have seen a very rich guy that cannot even take care of himself with the millions with him. Have seen some poor guys who are willing to give out their last. To the subject herein, op should just look at the character of her own boyfriend and measure him and not to say guys. Ladies should stand up and make themselves and no man can just treat you anyhow.It is just what you want you get. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by destante(f): 9:51pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
dapsy4u2: word play ke? Just check am jor and do the needfulisokay |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by bongolistik(m): 9:59pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
I tuk tim 2 read d 24 pages nd found out dat d OP mite be a very 9ce gel bt quite obstinate on her part, meaning she wuld be quite dificult 2 tek advice dat can evn enhance her future. Despite comin out to pour her aclaimed loved bf esteem on d floor, d OP failed 2 undastand dat som tins ar beta off nt discusd in public nd mindles dat d bf could also see dis thread nd get fuly disapointed in her. But d OP has stubbornly tried to justify evry statement she made includin doz she made in errors. Well everybody wit dier own palava, wht u sow, u shal reap. By d way, wr is prettythicksme, has she gotten back 4rm d hole wr she came out 4rm? Her 4kup ws well taken care of. I hate pompose ppl be it male or female. She ws well served. Next time she wil knw dat humility is virture nd nt 2 com d form one thick madam 4 here, meanwhile who knws if it is garri and groundnut she wil sip dis 9t 2 bed. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Fphotographer(f): 10:05pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
gede7744: op l like u. u are too factual.after she builds herself to become a complete entity as u put it, you wil now bring up the theory that women are not meant to have more finances than men so therefor she is not a suitable mate.... omo guys dont even know what they want. the say one thing and mean another |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by DaBullIT(m): 10:08pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Talking about boring relationship = being self centered and comparing yourself with others Your friends will not respect him = you care about what people say of your relationship, besides, if you present him in a respectable manner, not always complaining, your friends will respect him He will always disgrace you = You care about what he appears to be , not what he really is , you literally are dating for your own status quo , for the social implication He commands too much respect = You do not want to be controlled / submissive because he's broke He will naturally be stingy = You expect him to give you everything you want, but you still aren't satisfied/not comfortable about his Financial status. automatically , you want him to do what other guys are doing for their girls This post goes back and forth round and round and settles back on other previous posts on NL, Women always want men to provide everything for them Admittedly being broke is bad, but being rich shouldn't be why girls should date guys |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by luvola(m): 10:13pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
destante:why nah .pls nah destante:why nah .pls nah |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by macof(m): 10:21pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Unless she's a prostitute I don't see why a man should be the one spending the money while she only sits, eats and gets bleeped |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Vessi: @Destantes, now here's a gud ol wordplay. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by rightflank: 10:45pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Op, you're unconsciously looking for reasons to break up with Oga Baby. Plus, you talk too much. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by rightflank: 11:15pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
prettythicksme: so you are telling our man should not take care of us if they have the money or whateven though a lady is working a man should also give I can never go into a relationship whereby my husband will not give me money even though I have mine. what you saying is not right okayFunny how you mention "husband" now, and not "boyfriend". You are not your boyfriend's responsibility, but your husband's. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by sharon395(f): 11:53pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Princecharmin: ur dp says it all!....materialistic humanmy dp child,what do I expect 4rm a princecharmin dat is cryin ova 3k pls u need 2 grow up nd bcum a kingcharmin by den u wil reason well.broke prince |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by moonraker(m): 12:35am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Saecula: lol mad man calling another person mad. Go thru my response again. you will see that i clearly stated that ultimately, the decision is hers and not her friends. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by deavicky(m): 12:36am On Oct 02, 2014 |
prettythicksme: chaii broke guys they can bleep heaven yet they don't have money to take care of the thing they bleep.I have friend that date them so annoyingsee ur mouth na broke guy fit u.cos u fine reach person wah me go even spend money on. Try reduce the size of ur lip. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by deavicky(m): 12:41am On Oct 02, 2014 |
OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one |
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