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How To Attract The Right Partner by mrghost: 6:50am On Nov 04, 2008 |
In order to find YOUR perfect mate, It would best suit you to ask yourself a series of questions, the answers you give will lead you to a more concrete idea of what is best for you. Sometimes what we want and what me need don’t match up. What you believe will ultimately be your reality and life experience, once we can identify our beliefs and how they shape our lives, we can understand ourselves better. [b]Q1 Do you believe you deserve the best?[/b] Putting yourself down and having low self-esteem means you will only attract a certain type of person, who will keep you down and needs to feed of your insecurity to make themselves feel superior. Q2 Do you love yourself, take care of your body think positively about yourself? People will treat you how allow them to.The more highly you think of yourself the higher your expectations will be. Q3 In finding a partner do you believe in fate, good luck, divine intervention or a bigger plan? List the 3 main relationships you have had in your life, Think about how you met and where you met, Think about the probabilities involved in you having met that person at that time in your life who later became a boyfriend or girlfriend. It happened before it can happen again. to be countinued |
Re: How To Attract The Right Partner by Cipriani(m): 8:45am On Nov 04, 2008 |
@mrghost the best way is seduction and telling a lot of lies ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Attract The Right Partner by mrghost: 1:05pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
You are on your own Q4 How do your beliefs affect your approach to finding a partner? Do you trust in God, the universe, fate your angels or just yourself? Are you relaxed about the situation or desperate? Trusting in something else other than yourself will make the process more positive. Q5 Are you enjoying the moment? True happiness is a state of mind not determined by external circumstances. The happier you are the more people will be attracted to you and want to spend time with you. Q6 Do you have an itch? There is a term called “The seven year itch” every seven years on average we go through major changes, which alter who our ideal partner would be. Think about your past relationships, where would you be today if you had stayed together. Would they be your ideal partner today. You may be going through a transition regarding the type of person you normally go for. If that is the case, being single at this moment will benefit you, as you will be able to identify more clearly what you want. you can also visit http://freedatingtricks(dot)(dot)com to know more don't stay away |
Re: How To Attract The Right Partner by arramyjay: 1:09pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
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Re: How To Attract The Right Partner by 190: 2:37pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
mrghost i like the way u answer stupid people who try and spoil ur thread 4 u, keep it up,im followin ur threads all the way and havnt had any problems wit any of em, |
Re: How To Attract The Right Partner by mrghost: 8:44am On Nov 05, 2008 |
Lesson 3 Q7 What benefits are there of being single? You always win the argument and as Woody Allen says “I get to have sex with someone I love, myself” Being single gives you the chance to find and redefine yourself, quantify your values and determine what you do and don’t want from a relationship. In order to receive something big we need to create space for it. Your next partner should compliment the person that you are, and fill the void that is there, without the void there is nothing for them to move into and fill, so live in positive expectation. No one is perfect and everyone is perfect, having a lasting fulfilling relationship requires give and take, and a lot of love and a bit of lust. The more you love someone for who they are not what they are and what they have the more perfect they will be in your eyes. Finding an ideal mate starts with us knowing what we want and being the best that we can be ourselves. When we have in our minds those two areas and are positive we will be in a place where we can attract our future partner and more importantly realize the opportunities when they come along. Before you think about finding your soul mate find yourself. Finding yourself means, getting to a place where you are happy and positive about life doing the things you want to do, without thinking negatively about your lack of romantic action. This will make you more attractive in everyway Have an idea about the sort of person you would like to be with, don't sell yourself short or be unrealistic [b]Ask yourself "What do I have to offer what are my qualities"?[/b] It starts with you, don't have a mindset of finding a partner to complete your life, a partner should enhance it, Don't put that added pressure onto a prospective partner. You are already complete Don't get desperate, be yourself be natural. The energy of desperation is unappealing to most people; it also portrays a lack of confidence, balance, immaturity and low values. |
Re: How To Attract The Right Partner by mrghost: 10:25am On Nov 06, 2008 |
Have you ever been in a shop and the shop assistant continually harassed you about buying a product, did that forthright mentality endear you to stay longer in the shop and purchase a product, or did it have the opposite effect? Be open with the right people (same and opposite sex) about your situation, don't be aloof and put up a barrier that says "I don't want you to know " let people know that you are looking for a relationship with the right person. Most people are not mind-readers. Practice smiling more especially at the opposite sex, make it a natural part of your day, enjoy the process of finding that ideal person. And when you find that person; Don't try to change them, if you want to change someone change yourself, if they are meant to be with you will both naturally change to compliment each other better. Trust nature in this Allow them time and space to be themselves and make changes in their lives. Being joined at the hip or keeping a diary of their hourly movements will severely strain the relationship and drive them away long term. Don't drop your friends, they will probably still be around when your relationship ends. I am not being pessimistic I am being realistic, if it wasn’t so most people would only have ever had one partner in their life. Love them without condition not with conditions Conditional love will only last a short time. |
Re: How To Attract The Right Partner by igwe11(m): 11:01am On Nov 06, 2008 |
You can't cease to amaze me !! keep it coming!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ONE LOVE |
Re: How To Attract The Right Partner by whitelexi(m): 1:20pm On Nov 06, 2008 |
7 year itch, i like that one ![]() Makes me wonder how 7 year craw craw would feel like ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Attract The Right Partner by mrghost: 11:54am On Nov 07, 2008 |
I believe you are coming along and make sure you apply all those strategies. I bet you are on your way to find your RIGHT PARTNER. Now, THE SEARCH while making your search,You must have this at the back of your mind Men to attract women 1) Take an interest in her Have something else to ask her once you worked out her vital stats and her relationship status. 2) Have an opinion Which extends past who will win the FA cup and the price of beer 3) Have interests (which are varied and can be discussed among the opposite sex 4) A good sense of humour 5[b]) Take care of your body[/b] (Look good feel good and you will be seen as prime husband material (don’t worry husband is a figure of speech) 6) Compliment a women – in moderation To much sugar will not benefit you and she will begin to think you are being insincere 7) Take the lead Don’t leave all the decisions to her ![]() Have a plan it shows ambition and responsibility an added advantage for women who are looking to settle down 9) Have money The more the better Are you a woman. Watchout for Women attracting men |
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