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The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry. by jumxix(f): 11:40am On Sep 21, 2014 |
1. The girl you date does not want to meet your family or friends, she wants you all to herself.The woman you marry wants to know your family and friends. She knows without them, you would not be where you are, and who you are today. 2. The girl you date is overly worried about her nails been done all the time, her eyelashes looking in a certain style, and being beautiful for her peers. Her physical beauty is important to her.The woman you marry is not overly worried about her nails being done. Instead, she is worried about being beautiful for her man, even if that means wearing no makeup. She focuses on her internal beauty and character building, because she knows real beauty comes from within. 3. The girl you date only cares about her career and her vision for life. She comes before the relationship, and does not make her future plans with you in mind.The woman you marry cares about your career and your vision of life as well as her own. She knows you also have a plan, and works together with you to achieve the goals you both have. The marriage is her priority. 4. The girl you date loves the financial cushion you can provide. She also expects something back whenever she gives.The woman you marry wants to build a financial cushion with you. She believes that two heads will always be better than one. When she gives, she does not expect anything back. 5. The girl you date believes she knows everything.The woman you marry is open to learning something new, and knows there is always room for improvement. 6. The girl you date is scared to tell you her deepest secrets.The woman you marry will share her deepest secrets with you, even if it means losing you. She trusts you, and shares everything with you. She knows honesty is always the best policy. 7. The girl you date does not get excited about marriage and children (even if she wants to have some one day). The woman you marry gets excited about marriage and starting a family with you. 8. The girl you date shows her cleavage all the time.The woman you marry is more modest because she knows her attributes are for your eyes only. 9. The girl you date is not concerned about cooking for you.The woman you marry loves not only to cook, but chooses delicious and healthy meals. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach after all, right? 10. The girl you date is overly concerned about how long you will be around, and how she can keep you.The woman you marry is not too concerned about keeping you because she knows you want to have a future with her. She is mature enough to know you can never force someone to stay and that you each have to choose each other every day, again and again. 11. The girl you date is not willing to compromise with you.The woman you marry is willing to compromise, and sees compromise as a necessity for a healthy marriage 12. The girl you date thrives on constant attention from you.The woman you marry mirrors your affection and thrives on providing you with the love, support, and respect you need. 13. The girl you date tries to change who you are and compares you to her ex.The woman you marry accepts you for who you are and will not compare you to her ex. She knows you are the best and that you cannot change another person no matter how hard you try. 14. The girl you date has to be entertained.The woman you marry is someone you can have fun with, relax, do activities, or do nothing together and still enjoy each other’s company. |
Re: The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry. by Mention(m): 11:56am On Sep 21, 2014 |
Ok |
Re: The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry. by Nobody: 12:46pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
@OP the girl you date is "possibly" the woman you will EVENTUALLY marry......... marrying someone without dating her is one of the biggest mistake a man can do. |
Re: The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry. by Nobody: 7:49am On Sep 22, 2014 |
@OP. Well, you're very right. But you should also realize that both are totally different. Marriage and dating is obviously not the same. I hope you know this. In other words, getting married without prior dating is counterproductive because of lack of understanding. You need to know your future husband very well and your future husband needs to understand you too. In addition, a woman who does not know how to handle pressure in life, may not withstand the test of marriage. These tests come in different ways. Notwithstanding though, we all need proper reorientation and focus. All in all, I think the upbringing of a child plays important role in the process of adolescence. For instance, "The Nigerian Home Movies", The Ghanaian Home Movies, just to mention a few. Unfortunately, young people want to try out new things everyday. Parents should train their kids properly. The media has been so delusional lately. They also should be mindful of what they project. Because juvenile delinquency brings a lot of moral degradation in the society. They should not lure young people into thinking that what they watch on television or read is morally right. |
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