PURPOSEFUL PREPARATION WHILE WAITING. ( Singles Special)
Delay in getting a marriage partner has thrown many young women into state of frustration and negativity. In fact, some have concluded, like lot's daughters, that there is probably no man for them: Gen 19:31 And the firstborn said unto the younger, Our father is old, and there is not a man in the earth to come in unto us after the manner of all the earth: But is this really true? No! The scripture says: Mat 19:4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
That means there is a man God has specially prepared for you. The scripture cannot be broken. Whatever God has said is always and ever true. But while you are waiting and trusting the lord for the best partner he has for you, there are things you must busy yourself with. There are things you must put in place to make you a virtous wife/husband indeed.
1. Spiritual life
The spinsterhood/bachelorhood period affords you the opportunity to develop yourself spiritually. You dont know what lies ahead of you. But through consistent prayer, you can prepare yourself, straighten every crooked path and destroy every evil arrangement of the devil. Pray for a good and godly husband/ wife Prv 20:6 Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find? There are lots of false brothers/sisters out there who have left the way of uprightnessand righteousness but are on the lookout for chaste and godly sisters as wife/godly brothers as husband. It is only in the place of prayer you can prevent such people from crossing your path. Never be tempted or pressured to go for just anyone because time is running out.only the best is good for you. As a mother/ father to be spend quality time in praying for your future home and for godly children. Pray that your children will be a blessing to your home, the church and the society. Also spend quality time reading the bible and other seasoned books.
2. Social life
Take time to work on yourself, especially your character and your attitude towards people. Someone said: ' When.wealth is lost, nothing is lost; when health is lost, something is lost; when character is lost, all is lost. Your conduct towards people will determine how people will relate with you. Place value on people. Deal with anger and irritable spirit. Show love to people. Be sociale. Relate and interact with people. Learn: how to cook varieties of meal, relate and cope with your in-laws, finance management in the home,
3. Academic or Vocational Pursuit.
Do not think you have reach your peak. Enrol into professional programmes and examinations you can enrol for in other to broaden your knowledge. You can also get yourself busy by attending vocational training institutes like catering school, computer training centres.
4. Physical preparation
Pay attention to your health and maintain good personal hygiene. Feed well, exercise your body and have a positive view of life. Dress properly and modestly. Dressing shabbily will keep people away from you ; dressing provocatively will attract unwanted people to you. Start getting useful household items like cooking utensils, cutleries, bedding, clothing materials etc.
Above all engage in the service of the master.

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Hey op,
U didn't tell us u culled ur post from the christian women mirror magazine of d deeper life.

I really need to get my glasses changed!

I think say na "purposeful PENETRATION" I read o!

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