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Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by barackohandso(m): 12:49pm On Sep 24, 2014
glitest: As adviced not only once, but thrice...My advice is that you add some Viagra to his meal or tea/hot drink; Just make sure you follow the instructions as directed..Meaning, don't put too much, cos Viagra does increase a guy's heart rate, and therefore can cause heartattack, which can lead to permament complications, or even death.

Just know you'll share part of the blame if anything bad happens to the man
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by opportunist: 12:50pm On Sep 24, 2014
EpicNigerian:

Abego, make u no go poison ur hubby/bf with viagra o.

Viagra is not an afrodisiac. That is,viagra does'nt make u wanna hv sex.

It is a prescription drug that is used to treat erectile dysfunction or impotence in men.

Viagra does not increase sexual desire nor does it heighten sexual pleasure. It only improves sexual performance by helping the blood circulation to the male sexual organ.That is,it will make d man to last longer during sex,but if d desire isn't there,no matter d amount of viagra u take nothing will happen. Shey u get my point?

Instead,put few drops(2 or 3 drops) of spanish fly in his drink.

Spanish fly is an aphrodisiac in liquid form that encourage and heighten sexual desires in both male and female.You can get it in vetinery clinics or shops.

During my undergrad days na wetin we dey use knack for schl. It dosent even intoxicate.The pesin no go even knw say dem put anything for her drink.

Use Responsibly!!!
I wanna know more about dat spanish fly (for educational purposes undecided
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by izaray(f): 12:53pm On Sep 24, 2014
teeo:

You see women and their thinking, if it's a man that adds something into a woman's drink they would be shouting ra.pe ra pe.

I don't believe the story sha.
Yes na, it won't be a big deal if she rape her hussy na....lol, but is funny some how!
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by barackohandso(m): 12:53pm On Sep 24, 2014
EpicNigerian:

Err....I'm not in support either;but I feel is better than poping viagra in his meal that wouldnt even achieve d desired result.

Moreover,I just also want to clear d common misconception amongs our sisters on d real use of viagra. No harm intented really.

The mere fact that ladies go to this extent is appalling. Imagine if the husband was reading all those 'viagra' comments
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by EpicNigerian(m): 12:57pm On Sep 24, 2014
opportunist: I wanna know more about dat spanish fly (for educational purposes undecided
Hehehehe.If u put fee drops for ur girl drink she fit fight u for sex o....lol
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Exjoker(m): 1:04pm On Sep 24, 2014
Amya:

So you mean to tell me that sex is just for a man's enjoyment aside procreation. Sex is a need in both gender that has to be satisfied to have a happy life.

The man most likely has a low libido far lower that is normal.

And for those who somehow attribute a man's lack of sexual appetite to his wife's desirability, I'm highly disappointed in such sexist conclusion.
Haba try to understand me mana...I first alleged that the man maybe impotent...nd if a man is not able pregnant his wife no mother-inlaw will come to his house to make trouble
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Exjoker(m): 1:13pm On Sep 24, 2014
fruityjojo:
shocked shocked I don't get you at alll! So it's only a man that needs children? In a marriage btw two adults!? Only the needs of one should be considered? Hmmm with some of the comments I read on Nairaland am very much afraid of African men & their mentality cry
It been two years since they got married and they never knew each other acvordin to her. So, what do sugest the woman should do, pack and leave?...I understand women need kids in as much as men do but what if the man isnt able to get her concieve?
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by EpicNigerian(m): 1:14pm On Sep 24, 2014
barackohandso:

The mere fact that ladies go to this extent is appalling. Imagine if the husband was reading all those 'viagra' comments
See...bad people full dis world.You cant just blame only girls/women.

What bout guys wey dey use "date-r.ape" drugs,like molly,rophynol,roochi,flunitrazapam and other dangerous substances they drug and rape girls without their consent.
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by barackohandso(m): 1:28pm On Sep 24, 2014
EpicNigerian:
See...bad people full dis world.You cant just blame only girls/women.

What bout guys wey dey use "date-r.ape" drugs,like molly,rophynol,roochi,flunitrazapam and other dangerous substances they drug and rape girls without their consent.

Ehn I know but it's double standard for ladies. If men do it, it's rape but if women do it, it's because of love
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by izaray(f): 1:32pm On Sep 24, 2014
Baddestguyp: I'be heard that 21 days stuff, I think its true but that doesn't stop me
It doesn't stopped u from doing wat, cha!! der is God oooo..lol
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by izaray(f): 1:35pm On Sep 24, 2014
Nutase: I fit swear their is an 80% chance say her VJ dey smell and d guy no wan embarass her by telling her.
Ladies make I tell una smelly vj dey kill erection including d one caused by viagra.
So, if she like make she give am overdose of viagra once d guy perceive d odour d erection go surrender come apologise to d viagra.
A big lie, pls stop doing woman-wrapping here!
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nutase: 1:45pm On Sep 24, 2014
izaray: A big lie, pls stop doing woman-wrapping here!

How do u know its a lie abi are u talking from experience *confused*
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 2:50pm On Sep 24, 2014
Tymax:
The guy makes sense. tongue
...hehehehehe...

So, you mean what the husband is doing is right...

That also mean the wife should always wait for his ^^ 21 days incubation period before they do the do......hian!!!...No guy can try that with me...

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Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 2:58pm On Sep 24, 2014
barackohandso:

Just know you'll share part of the blame if anything bad happens to the man
How will I be of blame for advising op to read the packaging carefully? shocked shocked shocked shocked sad sad sad sad cry cry cry cry
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 3:26pm On Sep 24, 2014
dytbabe: He don't find her attractive no more
She shld look sexy and stop tying wrapper in the house
She married don't mean she's gotta start looking old
She shld bring out the tiger in him and if that don't work
Put viagra in his dinner and watch him attack u like a hungry hyena
*wicked grin*

USE THE VIAGRA AND LOCK THE MAN IN THE BEDROOM AND WAKA NUDE shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Tymax(m): 3:37pm On Sep 24, 2014
temigracie: ...hehehehehe...

So, you mean what the husband is doing is right...

That also mean the wife should always wait for his ^^ 21 days incubation period before they do the do......hian!!!...No guy can try that with me...
Shebi she loves him? Eeehn, True love waits na grin
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 3:41pm On Sep 24, 2014
Tymax:
Shebi she loves him? Eeehn, True love waits na grin

Please tell me, what will trigger or fuel their love??....Every knows that sex in marriage fuel love...

When there is no fuel in your generator, will it start??...I believe this nigga is hiding something...Maybe he is an okobo....

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Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Tymax(m): 3:47pm On Sep 24, 2014
temigracie:

Please tell me, what will trigger or fuel their love??....Every knows that sex in marriage fuel love...

When there is no fuel in your generator, will it start??...I believe this nigga is hiding something...Maybe he is an okobo....
Do you want to kill the innocent man? That 21 days must complete, Please grin If na woman now, you people will be vexing everywhere as if say na rape. Now the guy needs to recover.

What's wrong with allowing him to recover? Why are women wicked like this?
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 3:56pm On Sep 24, 2014
Tymax:
Do you want to kill the innocent man? That 21 days must complete, Please grin If na woman now, you people will be vexing everywhere as if say na rape. Now the guy needs to recover.

What's wrong with allowing him to recover? Why are women wicked like this?

If nah woman dey behave like this...I ll condemn it....

Within the 21 days he is recovering...Is he producing eggs ni or incubating eggs??....This guy is nt recovering from anything...This is just another flimsy excuse...

Maybe he doesnt like doing the do, maybe he is weak...Maybe his wife is no longer sexy or appealing to him again...

We are not wicked.....We are simply demanding or claiming what belongs to us

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Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by tobiboss(m): 4:27pm On Sep 24, 2014
Nutase: I fit swear their is an 80% chance say her VJ dey smell and d guy no wan embarass her by telling her.
Ladies make I tell una smelly vj dey kill erection including d one caused by viagra.
So, if she like make she give am overdose of viagra once d guy perceive d odour d erection go surrender come apologise to d viagra.
CHISOS!!! grin grin grin
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 4:27pm On Sep 24, 2014
badoh: Hi nairalanders. Wonders shall never end for this naija o. Everyone with his own useless theory that cannot hold water. I worked with a private secondary school in lagos and when ever we are on break, there is this canteen we normally visit to take launch. On this very day, I decided to register as usual @ d canteen. When I got there, I met a colleague of mine who is a female teacher @ the same sch deep in thought. I initially did not approach her cos I thought may be na d usual clash with the principal that is weighing her down. Alas I was wrong. Small time, tears don deh flow frm her face. I was shocked. I summoned courage to approach her and after enough pestering to know what d issue is, she had to open up to me even though it should have been a private matter. Hear her story. She said she jst got married like a year plus and she's yet to conceive. I never even allow her to finish her statement b4 I said na baba God deh give pickin. She said her husband has been frustrating her in d house. Anytime she wants sex frm her husband, he will say d sex go make him go slim, his cheek go go inside as if person deh suffer frm mal-nutrition. And to cap it all, he said, if he has sex once, it will take him 21 days to recover and that if he go like 4 rounds, na 21*4 days be that. I have tried my best to console her I also told her to try and pet d husband in d middle of the night and let him see reason that the theory is fallacy. But pls nairalanders, is it true that if you have sex once, na 21days you go take recover while if na 10 times, it means na 210 days it will take someone to recover lost blood.

why can't you at least spell correctly to show how serious you are.

Hope you are taking English language in the secondary school your colleague works at?
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by barackohandso(m): 4:33pm On Sep 24, 2014
glitest:
How will I be of blame for advising op to read the packaging carefully? shocked shocked shocked shocked sad sad sad sad cry cry cry cry

If it's against the man's wish it's wrong…More like poisoning
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 4:41pm On Sep 24, 2014
barackohandso:

If it's against the man's wish it's wrong…More like poisoning
There is nothing wrong with putting a little bit of Viagra ( spice) in a man's food/drink. ...It only becomes poisonous, if she went above the prescribed/ required dosage.
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by barackohandso(m): 4:48pm On Sep 24, 2014
glitest:
There is nothing wrong with putting a little bit of Viagra ( spice) in a man's food/drink. ...It only becomes poisonous, if she went above the prescribed/ required dosage.

yeah but only if it's not against his wish.
If she's not attractive to him, even a pack of viagra in his drink won't change it, he'll just go do it elsewhere
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 5:01pm On Sep 24, 2014
barackohandso:

yeah but only if it's not against his wish.
If she's not attractive to him, even a pack of viagra in his drink won't change it, he'll just go do it elsewhere
Viagra creates sexual urges/ drive; It makes men do the unthinkable when they get in that position, so as to be relived back to their normal state..It's a given
Have you ever tried a Viagra pill before?. Just do some research on it.
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by barackohandso(m): 5:12pm On Sep 24, 2014
glitest:
Viagra creates sexual urges/ drive; It makes men do the unthinkable when they get in that position, so as to be relived back to their normal state..It's a given
Have you ever tried a Viagra pill before?. Just do some research on it.

It's rather straightforward. Viagra helps for better sëxüäl performance in men, not with the mood. If the man doesn't find the woman attractive, he'll go do it with someone who he finds attractive

And yes I know what viagra is and have used it before
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 5:28pm On Sep 24, 2014
barackohandso:

It's rather straightforward. Viagra helps for better sëxüäl performance in men, not with the mood. If the man doesn't find the woman attractive, he'll go do it with someone who he finds attractive

And yes I know what viagra is and have used it before


I do not believe you have; That's my opinion... Just so you know, I wasn't the first, but the third person who recommend the product to op; That should tell you that the first two people, do also know the effect of the drugs. I still do stand by the advice I gave op ; You do not have to agree with it...Its my opinion, and I am not changing my view on the effect on the drugs..If you really do want to prove your point, then why don't you go after the two other people, and do so.

Its not okay for you to force your views on someone else...Will live in a free world; Stick to yours and I'll stick to mine. End of discussion.

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Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by fruityjojo(f): 6:33pm On Sep 24, 2014
Exjoker: It been two years since they got married and they never knew each other acvordin to her. So, what do sugest the woman should do, pack and leave?...I understand women need kids in as much as men do but what if the man isnt able to get her concieve?
So what if the man isn't able to concieve? She shouldn't worry after-all the man isn't worried so therefore who is she to be worried undecided
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by barackohandso(m): 6:41pm On Sep 24, 2014
glitest:


I do not believe you have; That's my opinion... Just so you know, I wasn't the first, but the third person who recommend the product to op; That should tell you that the first two people, do also know the effect of the drugs. I still do stand by the advice I gave op ; You do not have to agree with it...Its my opinion, and I am not changing my view on the effect on the drugs..If you really do want to prove your point, then why don't you go after the two other people, and do so.

Its not okay for you to force your views on someone else...Will live in a free world; Stick to yours and I'll stick to mine. End of discussion.

I'm not forcing anything on anyone. Your opinion (and the other two handles) are sexist; all from a female point of view, that's why I'm arguing against it, I respect your opinion but you must understand that putting a drug into someone's drink without his/her consent is unethical, no matter what. I wonder how you'd feel if a guy puts a drug into your drink just to have his way with you. That's my point. No holds barred
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 7:30pm On Sep 24, 2014
barackohandso:

I'm not forcing anything on anyone. Your opinion (and the other two handles) are sexist; all from a female point of view, that's why I'm arguing against it, I respect your opinion but you must understand that putting a drug into someone's drink without his/her consent is unethical, no matter what. I wonder how you'd feel if a guy puts a drug into your drink just to have his way with you. That's my point. No holds barred


You're finally saying something worth thinking about...Yes, you do have valid and reasonable points...Thanks.
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by 100Cents: 11:05pm On Sep 24, 2014
The man must be sick or suffering from malnutrition.

Which one be 21 days dry recovery ?
Re: Help! My Husband Refuses To Sleep With Me. by Nobody: 11:26pm On Sep 24, 2014
The man is seriously enjoying himself outside and doesn't love her or is gay!

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