streetzdreamz: lols mine aint shyness,its an extreme quietness,m as quiet as f*ck,ts like i'l die if i start talking,bout making friends ion need em so i practically enjoy my solitary lifestyle,a lady was so curious backden in school dat she walked up to me n asked if i was born mute or m just ok wit isolating myself,wen i replied her she was so surprised dah i cud talk,i prefer making frnds online dan getting a real frnd outdia.

Effizle: . Author pls?

lastchild: Please can any igbo in the house translate "ogbanje" to yoruba language, its urgent please

Sorry 4 derailing the topic

pasqal09:
Why? Don't tell me you're shy

Arva:
I'm not shy....why should I be ?

Skryptchex: I tink being shy is not dat bad. It all jxt boils down to each persons 'temperament' nd wat some of us dont realize is dat diz temperament vitually affects evrytin we do in life. From sleeping to eating to even flirting sef.
The one tin im good @ out of all doze tins mentnd is d one of phone flirting....i can neva be boring while chatin on fone. But if u c me one on one, u wont like me cos i wont talk dat much nd u would ave to do all d talking.
Not proud of tho, jxt ave to b workin on ma weakness nd build on ma strength also (if dat makes any sense).

Seenyo: If i have a second shot at life, i'll NEVER BE SHY again cos shyness robbed me of lots of rare/invaluable opportunities, it makes most female folks perceive me as being arrogant while very few undestands my trauma... tho i'm fighting it but victory's far 4rm certain!

wendy406: ABIKU

tr3y:

All introverts are not shy people but all shy people are introverts.

AfricanApple: I don't even know what's with this flirting of a thing, all my life, I've never gone outta my way to flirt with someone. it just doesn't ever occur to me to do dat

AfricanApple: now i know dat do not judge a book by its cover is very true. on d contrary I'm a very quiet person, I'm also shy but I'm already learning how to overcome d shyness.
thanks anyway

sambluesky: ARE U TRYING TO TELL ME AM SHY? OK I AGREE BUT NOT ON BED

ibietela2: I am one of them o

bedfordng: that is the spirit.shyness does makes one loose out from valuable opportunities and info.read this book "why you act the way you do".its a nice novel

pasqal09: 1. Silent Witness
Shy people will gladly take part in a conversation with their crush, but only as far as listening goes! You might notice that a shy person will never ask questions or delve deeper into your personality or interests - they just simply don't have the courage! Shy people will instead satisfy their curiosity by asking other people about you, or by checking out your social media pages for more information.


2. Cell Phone Flirting
You probably realize by now that shy people aren't too great with the whole "flirting face-to-face thing". Another trick shy people use to flirt with is their cell phone or computer. They will find it extremely easy to be flirtatious over text message or via a chat session, but as soon as you see them in person they act disinterested or pretend they didn't see you just to avoid any awkwardness.


3. Favour Galore
Have you got a shy friend who seems to always go out of their way to help you? Looks like this friend might have a little bit of a crush on you! Shy people will often do favors for the person they like, however they will mask these favors as simply "just trying to help out / be nice". To shy people, this is flirting.


4. The Friends Blanket
Shy people seem so confident and sure of their feelings towards their crush whilst they are with their friends, but then as soon as it's just one-on-one time with their crush, they become all shy again! Shy people will often use their friends as a safety blanket, so if you find they act disinterested or distant while they're alone with you, this just means they find it hard to flirt without the back-up of their friends.


5. Laughing
We've all come across someone like this - the person who laughs at absolutely everything! Often this laughter is a nervous laugh from a shy person, who feels that if they laugh at everything their crush says or does, then it will come across as flirting.


6. Starring
Shy people sometimes even work up the courage to stare at their crush - gasp! The only problem with staring is that it has a 50/50 chance of being successful. Either the person being stared at will think it is a compliment because they find the person staring at them to be quite attractive, or stranger-danger alarm bells will ring in their head and they will find it creepy.


7. Stalking.
While some shy people can only work up the courage to send a friend request on Facebook to their crush, others take it a little step further and may come across as being "stalkerish". This often includes multiple 'likes' of photos, statuses, wall posts, etc. The biggest hint that you've got an avid, but shy, fan on your hands? When they like your photos or statuses from years ago...

pasqal09: 1. Silent Witness
Shy people will gladly take part in a conversation with their crush, but only as far as listening goes! You might notice that a shy person will never ask questions or delve deeper into your personality or interests - they just simply don't have the courage! Shy people will instead satisfy their curiosity by asking other people about you, or by checking out your social media pages for more information.


2. Cell Phone Flirting
You probably realize by now that shy people aren't too great with the whole "flirting face-to-face thing". Another trick shy people use to flirt with is their cell phone or computer. They will find it extremely easy to be flirtatious over text message or via a chat session, but as soon as you see them in person they act disinterested or pretend they didn't see you just to avoid any awkwardness.


3. Favour Galore
Have you got a shy friend who seems to always go out of their way to help you? Looks like this friend might have a little bit of a crush on you! Shy people will often do favors for the person they like, however they will mask these favors as simply "just trying to help out / be nice". To shy people, this is flirting.


4. The Friends Blanket
Shy people seem so confident and sure of their feelings towards their crush whilst they are with their friends, but then as soon as it's just one-on-one time with their crush, they become all shy again! Shy people will often use their friends as a safety blanket, so if you find they act disinterested or distant while they're alone with you, this just means they find it hard to flirt without the back-up of their friends.


5. Laughing
We've all come across someone like this - the person who laughs at absolutely everything! Often this laughter is a nervous laugh from a shy person, who feels that if they laugh at everything their crush says or does, then it will come across as flirting.


6. Starring
Shy people sometimes even work up the courage to stare at their crush - gasp! The only problem with staring is that it has a 50/50 chance of being successful. Either the person being stared at will think it is a compliment because they find the person staring at them to be quite attractive, or stranger-danger alarm bells will ring in their head and they will find it creepy.


7. Stalking.
While some shy people can only work up the courage to send a friend request on Facebook to their crush, others take it a little step further and may come across as being "stalkerish". This often includes multiple 'likes' of photos, statuses, wall posts, etc. The biggest hint that you've got an avid, but shy, fan on your hands? When they like your photos or statuses from years ago...

kenex4ever:
Who is d authur? Where can one get it?

darlingnuel: What you did... eh? I call it Foolhardiness! Rashness! Thoughtlessness!

bedfordng: absolutely true.not all introvert are shy but all shy type are introvert automatically.just like fine and beauty,not all fine ladies are beautiful facially but all beautiful ladies are fine.extreme shyness is a diseases.will not even wish such to my enemy

bedfordng: introvert,that is also another attributes of being shy.or you wanted to say extrovert.you should get this book called "why you act the way you do" www.nairaland.com/6883/why-act-way-tim-lahaye

AfricanApple: yes na, I've seen people that I like in fact I've had crushes(weird word) but flirt? hell no I can't.