It happened that i've been dating this girl for sometime now. She was a virgin (21yrs), but not the churchy type though. Our relationship had been more on a formal level. Recently, we started getting involved romantically. We'd hug, kiss, fo.ndle and smooch each other. As the days went by, we graduated into full-blown pre-intimacy (f*replay), in which one could org*sm.

This has been the norm for over six months now. Infact, sometimes, she initiates the act, as she usually gets the come more than i do. Last week, when i finally demanded that i needed to penetrate, to feel a taste of her, she grudgingly consented.

I thought we were lovers and would mutually enjoy the act. To my surprise, a day after the incident, she started acting funny, saying things like: i've finally succeeded in using her; bla bla bla. To be frank, I didn't have the intention of jilting her, but ever since she started reciting the "use and dump rhetorics", i've got pensive.

What exactly is the problem with girls? at what age do they outgrow this immature complex?

It's not about age buh personal decision. If she wants to grow up, she will.

She was prolly used and dump before you met her, don't blame her. continue your love for her and try not to fall into the category of "all guys are the same".

Usually, I find it repulsive. It reeks of insecurity or even manipulation especially when a lady goes on and on about it. It's like a war cry usually touted by the small-minded ones.

Sadly, she may never outgrow it. This is what obtains when a lady is raised to play the victim just because of her gender. They just love chanting it every chance they get- use and dump ko, use and flush ni.

Rubbish.

U cant blame her, it seems after you av tasted d kitten, u stopped doin sumtins that u usually do b4....

Don't like ladies who exhibit this habit of ringing '' use and dump' bla bla bla to your ear especially after you got laid... Way back, I was dating a lady lik that, days turned weeks and weeks turned months.. There was a day we were having a nice time 2geda.. I was about bleeping her when she dropped the bomb.. She was jst telling me the law of Moses if I drift away after the sex and I was lik WTF !! Onto say I wan bleep ?.. I got discouraged and I wear my boxers sharp sharp

valdes00: U cant blame her, it seems after you av tasted d kitten, u stopped doin sumtins that u usually do b4....

I mean, after a day. I was welcomed with loads of nags, as though i had killed her relation. I was still recovering from waist pain and body aches, resulting from the ordeal (she's way bigger than me, especially at the booty-side).

I oughtta have been the one complaining, i lost strength, sp*rm, etc. But, i didn't

Tymax: Usually, I find it repulsive. It reeks of insecurity or even manipulation especially when a lady goes on and on about it. It's like a war cry usually touted by the small-minded ones.

Sadly, she may never outgrow it. This is what obtains when a lady is raised to play the victim just because of her gender. They just love chanting it every chance they get- use and dump ko, use and flush ni.

Rubbish.

My brother, it's annoying!

sweetsensation1:

I mean, after a day. I was welcomed with loads of nags, as though i had killed her relation. I was still recovering from waist pain and body aches, resulting from the ordeal (she's way bigger than me, especially at the booty-side).

I oughtta have been the one complaining, i lost strength, sp*rm, etc. But, i didn't

U lost strenght indeed... Lolzz

valdes00:
U lost strenght indeed... Lolzz

before nko. Na me do most of the knacking