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Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pickabeau1: 1:58pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Saw this article and was wondering with the growth in online channels, erotic literature and life styles occasioned by two working parent households Any comments?
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Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by leshluap(m): 2:07pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Seen! |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by Nobody: 2:07pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Saw this article and was wondering with the growth in online channels, erotic literature and life styles occasioned by two working parent households Not in Nigeria 6 Likes |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pickabeau1: 2:10pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Yes i know its not in nigeria I asked can it happen in the foreseeable future We have guys who are getting disinterested in females same with ladies who dont want to take on the mantle of marriage and be a wife What do u think Odilafta: |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by Nobody: 2:16pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Yes i know its not in nigeriammmm.... Yes it can It will help in controlling overpopulation in the world 6 Likes |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pickabeau1: 2:18pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
funny... bluelover: mmmm.... Yes it can 1 Like |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by Nobody: 2:22pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: funny...lol! But on a serious note it would Change the 'must marry' mentality of nigerians and focus them into other things other than marriage and sex. Ps: I'm not saying marriage and sex is bad. But its overrated 2 Likes |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by bellong: 2:23pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
bluelover: mmmm.... Yes it can I saw your mention in a post sometime ago but the post was already deleted before I got to read it. Hope everything is alright with you? Sorry Pick for derailing this early... 1 Like |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pickabeau1: 2:25pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
bluelover: lol! But on a serious note it would Yes you may be right But it could lead to a soulless sexless society 2 Likes |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by Nobody: 2:27pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
bellong:no problem. Yeah, am a bit okay. Just trying to live normally. I saw your pm but I forgot the email pasword, I guess you didn't see your mention in my diary Thanks for your concern. |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by Nobody: 2:31pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1:lol! People are the cause of this, everyone keeps talking about sex sex sex. The more you keep emphaising on it the more it denrates and losses it value. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pickabeau1: 2:34pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
bluelover: lol! interesting perspective Dont u think that is the end game of all th 'talk' as u put it once sex is demystified and it means nothing especially within the context of a dedicated relationship or marriage say, why do we need to commit to anyone at all What do u think |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pansophist(m): 2:36pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
I am not surprised about this in anyway, we are living in an era where you really do not need anyone for sex. I have seen many girls that told me that that they really do not need men in their lives, they prefer to climb higher in their career path and gratify their intimate desires through other means, adopt a kid and have a stress free life. Many people are beginning to see partners as something that doesnt ''worth the stress'', giving up their privacy, changing their names, getting pregnant for a marriage that might not even work at the end. I live in a country where many of the young girls have Dildos and different kind of sexual objects in their home. Many of them even prefer it compare to their boys who are predictable in ''action time'', they can have sex with their toys as long as they want until they are satified. They can as well select the colour of toys they want (black or white d!ck), the length, the width, the type (e.g Phalic), the usage (e.g strap on) etc. We are having more increasing numbers of people coming out as Lesbian, Gays, Pansexual etc and this further enforces the tendency of people sexually gratifying themselves without the need to pass through degradation trying to convince a significant other. More People are watching porn and jerking off with it, more people are beginning to patronize prostitutes, social excluded individuals, shy individuals, lunatics, people with micro penis, physically disabled and disadvantaged mofos are also resorting to other means of having sex. Not surprised at all. 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by bellong: 2:37pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
bluelover: no problem. alright... but a bit okay? Seems some of your worries are still unresolved? Didn't see mention in your diary. Will check out your diary.... Take care 1 Like |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pickabeau1: 2:38pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Another interesting perspective a question though.. why will d process of cultivating relationships be seen as degradation pansophist: I am not surprised about this in anyway, we are living in an era where you really do not need anyone for sex. I have seen many girls that told me that that they really do not need men in their lives, they prefer to climb higher in their career path and gratify their intimate desires through other means. |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pansophist(m): 2:43pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Another interesting perspective Depends on the individual you ask, the answer will definitely be different. I have a Dwarf friend that confided in me that since he was born, he has never had a girlfriend not to talk of having sex. He told me that nobody wants him, that his height is enough reason to be disqualified, he wont even get a date or even a chance to talk to them and mind you, he is 33. Take Nigeria for example, a country where LGBT rights are not recognized, a country where coming out as homosexual can lead to mass beating and eventually roasting, how will they be able to satisfy their intimate need? Like I said earlier, depends on the individual. People in such circumstances will just prefer to buy a toy, watch porn and have fun in the comfort of their home without having going to pass the stress of society. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pickabeau1: 2:45pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Ok.. i see your point Let me call another philosopher/writer/i dont even know ... MizMyColi pansophist: |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by MizMyColi(f): 3:21pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Ok.. i see your point Before I say anything, the underlying cause of the issue raised @Topic is pure, unadulterated SELFISHNESS Well Beau, Pansophist is right in his own rights. The opinions I'm about to express are solely mine and isn't intended to disrupt anyone's thought process in this regard. I'm prolly the president of the school of thought that there is a spirit in man, the inspiration of the almighty gives him understanding - of what is right, of what is wrong, of what should be, of what shouldn't be. Without being bigoted nor patronizing, I have to state that it irks me and everyone whose conscience is still alive, the spate at which right is suddenly becoming wrong, at a geometrical rate and wrong's suddenly becoming right, at what I'd call speed of light. Excuse me, That people no longer have the time for sex/fulfilling their marital obligation, hence turning to _erotic literatures, intimacy gadgets, online __Pronography and their likes doesn't make it the right thing! That's Selfish! I mean, I hate to sound insensitive, but hey, the fact that things aren't the way I'd ideally expect them to be in my place of work for example, doesn't mean I should stop putting in my best or become so complacent, there'll be consequences, the same can be said of a marriage situation. Marriage is an institution........ You never graduate from it. Ideally, no one hates marriage. People who do must have had battering experiences. And whether we accept it or not, true love, in its truest and unadulterated form will continue to be in fashion as the innermost yearning all, even of the best men and women haters ever liveth/walked planet earth. The reason is simple, Love is our nature, Love is our default setting. Ask Indian Movies Producers What am I saying in essence? That something has become a trend doesn't mean we should form a bandwagon and consciously/subconsciously go along with it. Let the ideals of marriage as we know it be upheld. Let there be mutual partnership/benefits ESPECIALLY mutually rewarding sex between human beings, not toy and human being or human being and electronics. Where there are storms (like this topic), let's stay together in the marriage and weather it. Let's throw out other options. Let love and compassion prevail, in all our dealings. You can never go wrong following this path. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pickabeau1: 3:31pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
MizMyColi: I agree it all comes down to Self Iniqiuty shall abound and love wax cold...
At the bolded....Yes in some cases Others.. people just stop trying
I agree with the bolded Thanks for taking time out [size=4pt]You can share this post but not the laughing smileys you were shring over d weekend..dia is god ooo[/size] 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by MizMyColi(f): 3:34pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Done. and Noted @TheEmbodened. |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pansophist(m): 3:48pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
MizMyColi Your post makes a whole lot of sense, but it exclude individuals that are not ''normal'' in the social definition of normality. I gave previously an example about the plights of homosexuals living in Nigeria or even dwarfs, or people with some kind of deformity that makes them unwanted by the majority, what hope are there for them? In as much as it is not illegal and hurts no one, let them do their thing, its not our job to define morality on their behalf. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by MizMyColi(f): 4:02pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pansophist: MizMyColi I've always maintained that no truth is absolute. Which is why I clearly stated that those were my opinion. What I consider right may be wrong to another and viceversa. Besides, except I missed the memo here, the topic seemed to be addressing the majority of married/cohabiting males & females. Different Strokes Different folks Ultimately, it is what it is. |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by Nobody: 4:28pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
bellong:yeah something of that sort Alright thanks you too pickabeau1:yes people should stop talking about it too much and giving it so much credit than it deserves. Everyone is different,it's not compulsory you get married or go into a relationship. Its a matter of choice,some see sex as an important thing in their relationship while some don't. I repeat it again sex itself is overrated. There is more to life than sex and relationships. pansophist: MizMyColiyou are blessed for this post! Everyone should be free to do whatever they want as long as they are happy! P.s: whatever they want as long as it is not affecting anyone negatively or extremely evil e.g murder |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by coogar: 4:31pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Saw this article and was wondering with the growth in online channels, erotic literature and life styles occasioned by two working parent households sėx is overrated - people are starting to realise that fact. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by bellong: 4:34pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
bluelover: yeah something of that sort I sent you a mail... 1 Like |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by Tallesty1(m): 4:39pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Hmmmmmmm |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by 5minsmadness: 4:46pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Yes i know its not in nigeria Its very possible. I can't remember when last I had that crazy urge to be with a member of the opposite sex. As in toasting levels. Why go thru all that drama when I can whip up a stash of my favourite ripherup videos ?? Soon marriage will be a thing of the past and test tube/ designer babies will be the norm. It will be like Sylvester Stallone's Demolition Man, when you want to have sex you just plug in. No messy fluids No fear of unwanted babies No STDs except maybe computer viruses. I know cococandy will be laughing at my weird imagination. 1 Like |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by 5minsmadness: 4:55pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
MizMyColi:I love you. But this your font is....eissshh |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by MizMyColi(f): 5:00pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Oh! Really?! That's good news. I thought you didn't like me |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by Nobody: 5:00pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
bellong:I have replied |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by pickabeau1: 5:05pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
MizMyColi: cool cat,... 1 Like |
Re: Is This The Future For The Sex Life Of Nigerians by 5minsmadness: 5:05pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
MizMyColi:What? Nooo, I admire your posts a lot. They make a lot of sense esp the spiritual connotations. You r not a feminist are you? |
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