ladies,

How would you react when a friend you dont fancy enough for marraige takes you out, draws on the attention of a mammoth crowd,and proposes to you, asking you to be his wife, in the full glare of everyone, being the cynosure of their attention, even goes as far as ensuring there is a live telecast beaming the show, you know the kind that happens when the president or governor wants to read the budget.

Would you turn him down, or abe moved by his innovation and accept his proposal?

i'll tell him the fact that i dont want him

such things can't be forced. Try to give it a second thought and see if u two are mean't or not mean't to be together if not, simply and nicely say "no"

well for him to have propsed to you at all, there must have been quite a push from you to give him THAT much confidence into believing that you would say Yes. All you have to do is just tell him you want to have a word with him aside and i guess if he's pretty smart he would have taken the hint.

@Damsal

i think u'r right. but my answer would be no

will be moved but will say no, b/c he's the wrong guy

ill tell him the truth is better than going ahead with it this same thing happened in one Nigerian church like dat some dude proposin 2 da gurl infront of d whole church i just think d whole proposal thing should not be u and him and everybody it should be u and him and later everyone

just use style and tell him, ummm, hunny, can i have a word wid u for a moment please? a smart guy will also use style and act a fool cuzz his ass will be toast if he doesnt.

this is hard!! i dont like to hurt pple or embarass pple but i still dont like pity relationships. i ll just tell him no in the nicest way possible.

diddy4:

just use style and tell him, ummm, hunny, can i have a word wid u for a moment please? a smart guy will also use style and act a fool cuzz his ass will be toast if he doesnt.

diddy4

@hibans

if you didn't like him like that, then you should have broken the relationship long time ago.

@ topic
i will be flattered but then i will have to break it down for him
negro i just dont feel that way about you, am sooooooo sorry

Why bother since u know he is the wrong guy what ever he says wouldn't make no sense. _{maybe crack up}. Just don' t make him feel stupid at that moment.

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