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What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by unit(f): 2:41pm On Jul 30, 2006 |
THIS IS TO ALL THE SISTAS IN THE HOUSE What's the age limit you would place on the guy you want to settle down with?My ex was 6years older than me and i had no problem with it cos i believe most women are more mature in mind n in the way they think than men their age so there is always a balance with the older guy(i stand to be corrected).A friend of mine who is just 2years older than me wants to take it the next level and i really don't know if he is mature enough for me.He sounds,talks and thinks mature but am not sure,i've always wanted a guy who is 4-6 years older than me,so back to my question how old would you want him to be? |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by edygirl(f): 7:10pm On Jul 30, 2006 |
I don't mind settling down with someone who is 4yrs younger than I am so far he is capable. I can't settle with anybody who is more than 8yrs older than me. I'll be seeing him as my uncle and won't be able to play with him. I know it's all mind thing but that's me.I have never even dated anyone that is More than 5 yrs older than me. Gosh! it won't just work for me even if he tries with the last drop of his blood, I won't be able to be in love with him but may tolerate him. |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by LoverBwoy(m): 2:31am On Jul 31, 2006 |
@ unit i've always wanted a guy who is for-6 years older than meso what will happen when u meet a guy that really really really likes u and you get along very well but he's 1-4 years older than you? will u turn him down just because he's not older enough? or theres something else you want - cars,mansion,big man job? |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by Debbystar1(f): 3:27am On Jul 31, 2006 |
well it all depend on love. but is should'nt be someone heading papa's age |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by diddy4(m): 5:00am On Jul 31, 2006 |
guess age has a part to play in love too. well well well. |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by unit(f): 10:08am On Jul 31, 2006 |
@loverbwoy ve you ever heard that love is not enough.settling down is not for baby minds,if he is 1-4years older and his thinking is right and he loves me why not i just need a man who thinks like a man and has a purpose for his life but i'd rather ve him at least 4years older |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by Coco29(f): 11:47am On Jul 31, 2006 |
i feel it does not matter love is love regardless of age |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by dollypee1(f): 12:05pm On Jul 31, 2006 |
AGE HAS NOTHING, NOTHING WHATSOEVER 2 DO WITH LOVE IF U 2 LOVE EACHOTHER WHY WLD AGE BE A BARRIER? AS A MATTER OF FACT MY FIANCE IS 12YRS OLDER THAN ME,I FEEL SO COMFORTABLE AROUND HIM ,HE RESPECTS ME AND LOVES ME FOR WHO I AM EVEN THO HE BEHAVES LIKE AN" AGBAYA" AT TIMES BUT HES FUN 2 BE AROUND WITH. |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by iice(f): 1:13pm On Jul 31, 2006 |
Hmmm, i never deal with messy emotional things, I tend 2 like older guys coz they usually more matured however that does not always prove the case, there are exceptions 2 the rule. For me is so long as the guy is matured enuf 2 suit me, complimentary 2 my xter then its all good. |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by bechex(m): 1:55pm On Jul 31, 2006 |
A lady 2 years or more younger would do for me. But not more than 6 years |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by LoverBwoy(m): 4:18am On Aug 01, 2006 |
unit: oh yes ive heard that from loads of nigerians girls , they usually mean- u need a big ass ride, a big mansion, and a boutique for madam even though she spent 5yrs in university. settling down is not for baby minds,if he is 1-4years older and his thinking is right and he loves me why not i just need a man who thinks like a man and has a purpose for his life but i'd rather ve him at least 4years older i understand women generally mature quicker than men but still u cant really set a "level" .remember age(number) is not relative to maturity |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by Nobody: 4:20am On Aug 01, 2006 |
at least my age or a yr or 2 older. |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by luvu567(f): 4:22am On Aug 01, 2006 |
at most he would be 5 years older than I cant be younger than me |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by Nobody: 4:23am On Aug 01, 2006 |
but at the same time if i fall in love with someone who isnt my age or a yr or two older. oh well so be it. |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by kiki(f): 4:26am On Aug 01, 2006 |
not more than 5 yrs cos i don't want my husband to be some old ass man wen i'm still yung we gon be yung to getter and we gon get old 2gether if u know wat i'm sayin |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by luvu567(f): 4:38am On Aug 01, 2006 |
yess ooo my man cant have a head full of gray hair while im 29 |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by Nobody: 4:48am On Aug 01, 2006 |
lol i wouldnt fall in love with a 50 yr old man when im like 25 hell no. |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by kiki(f): 4:54am On Aug 01, 2006 |
K2DaC: Lol |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by iice(f): 7:06am On Aug 01, 2006 |
Need some1 u can still groove with |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by kiki(f): 7:07am On Aug 01, 2006 |
iice: hell yeah |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by desiree(f): 8:42pm On Aug 02, 2006 |
Max 6 years older, for obvious reasons |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by naijadiva2(f): 3:44pm On Aug 07, 2006 |
5 yrs older or 3 yrs younger. |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by Memunah(f): 9:36pm On Nov 04, 2006 |
2-4 years age difference btw my and my guy is okay by me |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by famochi(m): 3:45pm On Nov 06, 2006 |
age doesnt really matter i can date a girl that is even older than i am as long as it is not obvious or noticeable in her appearance |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by chimaze(m): 11:48pm On Nov 07, 2006 |
I don't think age matters in a relationsip as long as both of you love and respect each other. I my self I've dated a 28year old lady while I was 18 and it worked out fine, until she got married. My last girlfriend was 7 years older than me, but we broke up because she never respected me. She wanted to use me to get pregnant but I found out what her plan was. Guess what I did? I took of like Lightning Mcqueen!! |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by Memunah(f): 1:02pm On Nov 08, 2006 |
Na wah for you oh!I respect you |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by marlet01(m): 1:34pm On Nov 08, 2006 |
@ chimaze maybe someday you would go out with a girl old enough to be your mother, who knows. |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by Tywoh(f): 3:15pm On Nov 08, 2006 |
My first guy was 7 years older. I didnt think there was anythimg wrong until the relationship ended. I dont feel like dating or marrying someone dat are age difference ll be up to 7 years. One bitten, twice shy. But age may not matter if true love exist. But it does matter to me |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by kimba(m): 12:13am On Nov 09, 2006 |
when a girl says she'll prefer a guy thats a couple of years older BECAUSE HE WOULD BE MORE MATURE, is she celebrating his maturity or her own immaturity? |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by sammyjl(f): 11:32am On Jan 08, 2007 |
I prefer 5 years older than me (thats my limit). I dont even mind if he is a few hours older than I as long as he's just older than I. But there is definitely no ways I'd be comfortable getting or ready to marry a younger dude. No ways!! |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by grillotoy(f): 6:05pm On Jan 09, 2007 |
I wuld prefer a guy dat is 10yrs olda dan i am cos dey r matured n knows how 2 treat a lady beta dis smal guyz r stil catchin their fun nd mess ladies up |
Re: What's The Age Limit You Would Place On The Guy You Want To Settle Down With by diyobdw(f): 2:24pm On Jan 10, 2007 |
grillo_toy: Do older men care better or just know how to better colour your mind that they treat you better? |
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