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10 Signs Your partner Is Selfish by adonbilivit: 5:45pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
1. He/she mostly talks about him/herself – what he/she likes, needs and wants in a partner, in a relationship, in life etc. What you like, need and want doesn’t seem to matter. 2. He/she only relates to how things affect him/her personally and has no ability to see or relate to how life (and the world) is interconnected. 3. He/she doesn’t consider the impact of his/her actions on others (you included). When you point out how his/her words/actions are “hurting” you, he/she just can’t make the link between his/her words/actions and how you feel. 4. He/she wants you to listen, give emotional support and even worry about how he/she is feeling but never takes time to listen to how you feel — or even thinks how you feel is not important. When you point this out you’re told you’re being “selfish” for wanting him/her to pay attention. 5. He/she gives only when he/she expects to get something back in return. More often than not, expecting more than he/she is willing to give. 6. He/she has an entitlement mentality often followed by selfish demands and outbursts or emotional blackmail (withdraws attention and affection) when he/she doesn’t get what he/she feels he/she is entitled to (i.e. your attention and affection). 7. He/she is always quick to say “NO” when asked to “give” in any way; always has a reason as to why he/she doesn’t feel like giving, doesn’t want to give or should not give- and all these reasons have to do with someone else’s “fault”. 8. He/she always makes promises he/she doesn’t fulfill. Either consciously or sub-consciously he/ she always seems unable to “remember” a commitment he/she made and may even blame you for his/her failure to fulfill a responsibility. 9. He/she thinks its okay to manipulate and exploit and even take advantage of others to achieve one’s own ends. 10. He/she lacks empathy and makes no apologies about it. bonus track: Your boyfriend/girlfriend never gives in. Every time there’s a discussion about something to do or someplace to go to, does he or she usually end up getting things done his or her own way even if that means leaving you sad or less-than-happy? You may give in each time because you love him or her unconditionally and want to see him or her happy. But it’s only a matter of time before you start to feel like your wants and desires are not addressed in the relationship. |
Re: 10 Signs Your partner Is Selfish by kasheemawo(m): 8:28pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
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