Marriage is an institution created by God for the sole
purpose of companionship. Having deemed it fit that man
should not be alone, He made sure that some things were in
place before He saw the need for man to have a suitable
help meet. After he was made, He brought Eve to be his
companion. However, this union created the institution
called marriage.
It is quite unfortunate today that some men are the cause of
some failed marriages (I can prove that). A man must be
made and must have known the reason(s) why he lives
before he thinks of getting married.
Going into marriage ‘half done’ or incomplete will make a
ruin of such marriage even if you marry the right woman.
It takes a ‘made’ man and a formed woman to have a
successful marriage.
What are these things that were in place before you should
consider the need for marriage?
Be A Man
The creation of man goes beyond the physical aspect. A lot
of men are so bothered about their physical appearance
that they do all it takes to build their biceps, six packs and
‘test’ their manhood by sampling every Tom, Dick and
Harry of the female folks.
There’s more to being manly than all of that. While you’re
single, endeavor to do the following:
Be Emotionally Stable
Rather than waste your life frivolously, take time to
develop your emotional being. How are you able to manage
emotional issues such as depression, hurt or frustration? It
is not about you alone, you should be able to absorb your
wife emotional challenges to some extent or vice versa.
Emotional stability is achieved through the experience you
must have had over the years while dealing with emotional
issues. Challenges are to make you not break you.
Be The Spiritual Head
Since marriage was created by God, there are certain
spiritual values that are needed to sustain it. However, for
you to be man enough, you must be connected to a source so
that you’ll be able to handle spiritual issues in marriage.
Do you have an intimate relationship with God? Lots of
women had taken over men’s spiritual role at the home
front. Some men are so lazy to pray or study their Bibles,
yet they can spend hours watching football matches or
playing games that wouldn’t add value to their life. How
can you lead without being connected to a Source?
Don’t blame women who became victims of false prophets.
If you as a man can play your spiritual role, you’ll not only
safeguard your marriage but you’d also protect your wife
and life.
Be Financially Independent
A man is meant to be the financial provider in the family
except in some cases, which is not meant to be, where the
woman becomes the bread winner.
What can you do to make ends meet? Rather than waste
your energies, resources or time in different club houses,
brothels or partying; conserve them and become
productive. If you cannot get a degree, get a productive
business to keep you financially buoyant.
It’s a shame on a man’s head ship to swindle a woman’s
financial fortune or to become too dependent on her.
Women aren’t meant to be the provider but a help meet.
Face your studies or invest in a legal business.
Get A Reason to Live
When God created Adam, He didn’t just leave him to
pursue pleasure; He gave him a reason (purpose) to live.
As singles, expedite action on the discovery of your purpose
in life. Don’t pursue frivolities in life or pleasure, discover
your purpose. A man who has no cause to live for will chase
shadows.
Purpose is different from passion. Your passion is your
personal ambition while your purpose can be known by
inquiring from the Creator. The core reason to which a
man is created is to fulfill a particular purpose. Other
things such as career, vocation or skill are just a plus to his
life.
Have you discovered your purpose? The purpose a machine
serves can be clearly understood from the manufacturer.
It’s only God that can reveal a man’s purpose to Him. Get
Him to reveal it to you by asking.
Once you discover it, pursue it and gain mastery. Purpose
must come first before the need for a partner. Have you
gotten a reason to live? Be on the path of fulfilling it. Once
you know it and some things are already in place, you can
then consider the need for marriage. A man must be able to
love his wife, to be committed and faithful to her and not
behave like boys.
What other things do you think makes a man a man?

lirusehn:
What makes a man 'is the size of his Dick'

ehn ehn Dos Aki and popo no b man b dat now but we neva hear say dia marriage don fail..abi?

Even the gods understands that I cannot read this long thing finish in one day

make I charge my phone first.